Hi we are new to the scene (ad No 150949) would like to meet another couple of similar ages that want friendship and a little fun. We are from the Herts area ,dont mind travelling within reason(beds/Cambs area ,not into swapping / touching etc, just same room sex with same partners watching and being watched, eventually. Lets get to know each other first ,would be nice to make lasting friendship, drinks/meals together etc. If you read and like get back to us (NO Singles please) :cheers:
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I don't mean to be rude or anything... but it sounds like what you actually want is normal friends... accepted there is a little bit of a sexual dimension to your ad, but basicaly you are asking for regular friends todo regular friend things with, rather than swinging friends...
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we have regular friends and guess what we dont have same room sex, do you?
so what are you trying to say, could it be that you feel we should not be in here?? one wonders,thankyou.
Couldn't give a flying fuck if you were in here or not... plenty of room for everyone... wouldn't bother getting into a competition with me about what I have and have not done, it would just destroy your argument.
I hope you find friends with similar interests... I was just making the point that what you want is a complex close but conventional relationship... and if you want that level of close friendship you might need more than a one liner advert.... and perhaps not be quite so defensive and bitchy about other people's comments.
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we think you may have something crossed "one line ad " we have counted 9 on this and 9/10 on the ad so dont really know where your coming from and as for your exploits well
does one really care ,we dont so goodbye
Hi twoofus, you sound like two nice people who want to meet like minded people leaving options open to see where it leads, I don't see a problem with that. It removes all pressure whilst leaving doors open. good luck.
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I don't mean to be rude or anything... but it sounds like what you actually want is normal friends... accepted there is a little bit of a sexual dimension to your ad, but basicaly you are asking for regular friends todo regular friend things with, rather than swinging friends...
Errrrm there isn't actually any reason why anyone shouldn't advertise on here for regular friends with or without the sexual aspect.
As long as communication is clear and not misleading and the requirement is legal then I assume people are free to use this as they see fit within the guidelines of the site.
Good luck twoofus I hope you find what you are looking for.
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Errrrm there isn't actually any reason why anyone shouldn't advertise on here for regular friends with or without the sexual aspect.
As long as communication is clear and not misleading and the requirement is legal then I assume people are free to use this as they see fit within the guidelines of the site.
Essentially I agree with that - however would you actually want this site to turn into a tool for people to meet friends rather than being a dedicated swinging site (although I do doubt that would ever actually happen).
I am sure that there must be many sites that would serve that purpose much better than SH.
Dxxx
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Hi we are new to the scene (ad No 150949) would like to meet another couple of similar ages that want friendship and a little fun. We are from the Herts area ,dont mind travelling within reason(beds/Cambs area ,not into swapping / touching etc, just same room sex with same partners watching and being watched, eventually. Lets get to know each other first ,would be nice to make lasting friendship, drinks/meals together etc. If you read and like get back to us (NO Singles please) :cheers:
Hi Guys
I see your photo ad is placed in the 'Dogging' section.
If this is the only ad you have up I think you would probably be better off placing it in the Couples for Couples section.
Dxxx
thanks everyone for your comments seems to be crossed opinions, now maybe we have got it wrong but being new to all this we have to start somewhere.
We thought that dogging was the art(if you can call it that) of voyeurism , ie, watching others have sex in public places , and if your lucky being able to partake in the eventualitys of the evening. So just to reiterate our wants and dont wants, couple seeking couple for friendship , we would like to make friends ,yes of course we would
have a drink on a social basis possibly dine out together and then if we get along ok have some indoor dogging ie watching and being watched. In the summer time we will get out and about in true dogging fashion. Sorry if we have upset anyone
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We thought that dogging was the art(if you can call it that) of voyeurism , ie, watching others have sex in public places , and if your lucky being able to partake in the eventualitys of the evening. So just to reiterate our wants and dont wants, couple seeking couple for friendship , we would like to make friends ,yes of course we would
have a drink on a social basis possibly dine out together and then if we get along ok have some indoor dogging ie watching and being watched. In the summer time we will get out and about in true dogging fashion. Sorry if we have upset anyone
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Errrrm there isn't actually any reason why anyone shouldn't advertise on here for regular friends with or without the sexual aspect.
As long as communication is clear and not misleading and the requirement is legal then I assume people are free to use this as they see fit within the guidelines of the site.
Essentially I agree with that - however would you actually want this site to turn into a tool for people to meet friends rather than being a dedicated swinging site (although I do doubt that would ever actually happen).
I am sure that there must be many sites that would serve that purpose much better than SH.
Dxxx
Hi D
there are many people like me on this site that don't actually swing but love the openminded diversity of the people on here . I would hate to think that I was excluded if I wanted to meet with anyone just for social reasons .....please don't make swinging compulsory as I may have to leave :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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'ENGLISH' CHRIS SORT YOUR HEAD OUT Read your posts and ask yourself 'what impression would I have reading the same?'
Enjoy life. Be safe (and Chill!)
I still stand by what I said... which was their post sounded like they were looking for normal friends... this has been reinforced by subsiquent posts where they better outlined what kind of soft swaps they were after.
Quite frankly when I get 'twoofus' going on the offensive at me for saying what I said, they can expect to get shit back from me.. if they can't play nice neither will I.
My advice to you would be spend more time on this site and get to know people here a bit more before making your 3rd post one that assumes I have social problems when you don't even know me.... nothing worse than a string of me too posts sparked off by a couple who can't take a well presented comment.
