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Cyber Sex !! Does it exist ?? Can anybody help ??

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Hi to everyone
Does the concept of cyber sex really exist ?? dunno
I have been an avid fan of this site for a long time and have watched with great amusement the many, many ads placed on here :eeek: . People looking for many different things, situations, types etc. Having said that I have never spoken to anybody myself who has experienced cyber sex !!
Right the real deal :happy: I would love to try the elusive 'cyber sex'
So can anybody help me out please?? :lickface:
I have an ad. no. 44707 ( this will give you something to help you decide whether you fancy it or not!! boink )
I am on MSN Messenger at the moment :bounce:
So please PM me here to get my MSN address
So if you fancy breaking in a cyber sex virgin please get in touch hump
Cheers Dan wink
Hi
Sorry rolleyes forgot to say I am really looking for cpls or fems to break me in !!
I am also beginning to think that the elusive 'cyber sex' concept does not exist :cry:
Dan sad
Hiya Dan kiss Not seen you for ages!
Cyber sex to me sounds ok in theory, but the couple of times I've tried it I end up in knots! This is generally how my mind ends up thinking ......
Ok I will start at the top and slowly work my way down, oh no he's down there already, how can he be down there, must be a hint that I was a bit slow off the mark, now how can he be doing that when I'm doing this, do I stop what I'm doing and let him carry on or do I wait for him to stop so I can carry on. I don't want him to carry on cos all I will put is a load of mmmmms and it's a tad boring, but then if he stops he's just gonna put a load of mmmmms and I will be left doing the hard work. What if I put in a few mmmmms now and he puts mmmmms back then neither of us are doing anything and will look like we are mmmmming at nothing.......
And so it goes on redface I seem to spend the whole time fretting. Wonder if anyone else does it and it works wonders? Must be loads I s'pose, otherwise it wouldn't be so popular.
Sorry Dan, hope I haven't ruined your thread now
Great ad by the way, nice pic cool 8-)
Hi MISSCHIEF
Thanks for the reply
I have been around, just sort of lying low for a bit. neutral
I too am rather mystified by the whole concept but as you rightly say it must work because there are loads of people doing it !! Or so they say boink
URBAN MYTH WARNING dunno
You have not ruined my thread at all, but thanks for the thought kiss
Cheers Dan xx wink
Misschief, hit the nail on the head!!!
LOL! biggrin
Its true, but if its with someone you've done it before with its not so bad because you both know how the 'flow' goes on between the two of you.
With a stranger.......now that can be a bit 'all-over-the-show'. Experienced cybers tend to be better at it, not so many "what is he/she on about..." moments. Lesser experienced ones tend to be either rambling on about what your 'doing' to them, or let you do all the talking. Very one sided!! :shock:
But it can be very fun, and incredebly horny for both parties involoved when the balance is struck. :P
So all i can suggest is that you keep trying, good luck and hope you find people you can cyber with without those 'moments' :D
Love and best wishes, PJ xx
Cyber sex takes practice. Some people are naturally better than others. Some are useless no matter how much practice they have. Therefore it's a bit like real life sex really rolleyes .
If you have a vivid imagination, are quite confident about what you like and what you don't fantasy-wise, and are aroused by the written word (it's no good if you can't visualise what you're talking about), you have a hope at becoming good at cyber sex.
Some types of sex work better in cyber than others. Just a straight shag doesn't work so well. Role playing is better. You have somewhere to start from and you can make it into a proper story, rather than resorting to "mmmmmmmmmms" as Misschief talked about. I used to cyber a lot, but wouldn't do it with anyone who wanted to imagine just straight sex. The killers in this type of sex are asking things like "what are you wearing?" (so unimaginative), and "how big are your tits" (especially if you're a boy confused ). If you have a specific fantasy that you can readily write down, that would probably work, but you do have to be good at creative writing!
Good luck!
Hibluexxx and piercerbabe
Thanks for the advice and the replies.
I think I will wait and see what happens with this ad. and keep you all posted :small-print:
Cheers Dan xx wink
Hehe, your very welcome!
I look forward to hearing of your exploits :P
PJ xx
I've had quite a bit of cyber sex, tho not much recently I admit. Yeah it exists and is great fun.
Theres usually the 2 types, the : describeing what you are doing now and the describe what you would like to do.
Usually both people plese themselves on the other end of the computer, tho I engaged in it many times without pleasing myself because there were others int he room :shock: but I still enjoyed pleasing the other person.
Archangel wrote:
I've had quite a bit of cyber sex, tho not much recently I admit. Yeah it exists and is great fun.

Thanks that does sound encouraging :bounce:
I am still waiting for the cyber experience though :lickface: Maybe today the 1st of May is the day :happy:
Cheers Dan wink
Hi All
Here is the latest evening update wave
No takers yet but two potential contacts for later :bounce:
So, is tonight the night I wonder dunno :happy:
rolleyes :uhoh: WATCH THIS SPACE :uhoh: :roll:
Dan xxx wink
Woohooo Dan!!! :bounce:
Have fun, and don't end up in too many knots! :twisted:
MISSCHIEF wrote :
Have fun, and don't end up in too many knots!

It's not the knots that worry me it's the one fingered typing !! :silly:
I am just warming up my 'Mmmmmmmmmmm' typing finger, I think you know what I mean :grin:
Dan xxx wink
P.S. Is it me or does MISSCHIEF look like the sexiest squaw on the reservation :inlove:
For you :rose: muah xxx
*Preening*
Why thank you Dan kiss - but never call me a Sexy Squaw when you're drunk, it just won't sound the same! :shock: :shock:
This is where the mmmmmm word comes into its own, especially when your other hand is otherwise occupied cool Right by the enter and space buttons too, dead easy! wink
Hi MISSCHIEF
I think we seem to have hijacked my own thread if you know what I mean :doh:
Oh well not to worry dunno
Dan xxx
Hi Dan,
Have to confess to being a fan of cyber sex redface I indulge in this regularly with a member of the site. Never met him and not likely to either :cry: It is a great turn on and good fun. Kat and I get a real threesome going at times :twisted: Bit difficult when it comes to typing and climaxing at the same time, but hey; FUN is the main thing and it works well for us.
Hope you have some success
Kit
xxx
Hi Kat
Thanks for the words of encouragement :P
Unfortunately I have not got there yet !!
So still waiting for offers and Contacts, :lickface: ho hum dunno
Cheers Dan xxx wink
Hi Dan
U can cyber with me .........anytime
U know how to get in touch so do it
NSG
xxx
Hi Dan
Be lucky and have some great fun doing it. wink Only done it when I came here first and I couldnt take it seriously but the bloke who helped me get started on this site really enjoyed it so that was good. Maybe Ill take it up some day again :wink:
Hi to all
:bounce: hump GET THE FLAGS OUT :bounce: boink
Bunting, banners, crisps and nibbles at the ready lol
I have done it !! But not without the kind co-operation and help of nicestockygirl worship
This post is dedicated to my now extremely good friend and cyber sex buddie nicestockygirl, kiss without her help this post would not have been possible.
I am not one for speeches and am unable to thank all the behind the scenes contributors such as:
MISSCHIEF, piercerbabe, bluexxx, Archangel, Kit and corrie etc. the list goes on but hey you know who you are.
:rose:
:cheers: THANK YOU ALL passionkiss
If I smoked I would have lit one up by now !! :smoke:
Cheers Dan
xxx wink
P.S. Before you all start to ask YES it was as good as they say !! :twisted:
Well wot can i say....praise indeed
But like i said to u Dan i will look forward to doing it for real!!!!!!! :rose:
Make it soon hun
xxxxx
J
x
:smile2:
OH YESSSSSSSS!
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boink :boink: :boink:
69position :69: :69:
hump :hump: :hump:
Don't you just love a happy ending <sniff>
well done dan!!!
I had a couple of cyber sessions yesterday to! All good fun. But I reckon you still prefer the real thing???
I had allot of cybersex when I Got my first computer around 4 years ago.
Then I was working late so I would go on chat around 4 in the morning, this was with mainly New Zealand women I don't think there are many UK women up for cyber sad .
chat is real bad now it is just full of spam :( :(
hope this helps ;)
Guy
My, my
What can I say apart from thanks again to you all kiss (special thanks to worship nsg)
I did not expect to get such a large thread for such a simple request, but i am very, very flattered redface
THANKS
Dan wink
xxx muah
Twice in one day !!
Well after this mornings great success I have decided to try again !! boink
So if any ladies or couples fancy some cyber sex then please PM me :lickface:
Heres hoping :happy:
Dan xxx wink
Well done Dan lol Glad to hear that you're no longer a cyber virgin :twisted:
:happy: :happy: :happy:
Way to go Dan and NSG
Kepp at it :twisted:
Kit
xxx