hi my lover and i want to try a club, but can only do weekdays daytimes as we have other partners.
are their any within reasonabler driving from derby.
we have never done this before, she is wanting to find a lady to have her first bi session with but i must be their as well.
we would like to know if at a club we can have sex together and if we want others to touch cum etc is that ok or do we need to let other people have sex with her?
chat soon camz and rich
Hi,
First - and most important - wherever you go in terms of clubs, you'll never NEED to let other people have sex with your partner. Just becasue you are in a swingers club, it absolutely does not make her (or you, for that matter) public property.
You still have full right to decide what (if anything) you want to get up to and with whom.
So you can play solely with each other, or for that matter do nothing more than sit around and have a drink. That's fine.
Even if you start to play with others, you both have the total right at any time to stop without giving reasons, or having to make excuses.
As for daytime clubs - the two I know of which are both pretty good are Cupids in Manchester and Chameleons to the North of Birmingham (off J10 of the M6). Of the two,my experience would suggest Chams would be a better bet, but you can check out facilities, reviews, opening times, etc in the club review section by clicking "Clubs" on the left there. Both open from lunchtime onwards.
You can also check out other clubs - they can be listed by location too.
Hope that helps - and that you both have fun...
Come back on here and let us know if you enjoyed your first experience!
