Well here goes. I didn't want to place an ad, because I'd rather take my pick from forum members that I might either know from their postings or at least be able to look up a bit of history about.
I've been a forum member for about 10 months now, and would like to think that in that time and over 1000 posts, most regulars will have some idea about my personality. I don't want a "wham bam thank you ma'am" type thing, so if you're just after a quick shag move along please, there's nothing for you to see here!
So what am I looking for? Well, not a serious relationship! But at the same time, I don't really want a series of one-off's either. Someone who can make me laugh, and who finds my sometimes whacky sense of humour amusing at least. I don't want to jump straight into bed with anyone, an initial meet would be somewere neutral, maybe for coffee or a couple of drinks - perhaps even a meal - but don't expect that we'll fall into bed together at the end of the night, I hate being put under that kind of pressure. Someone who knows what he's doing and can take control of a situation sometimes, but who isn't pushy (I hate pushy men, consider yourselves warned!) who knows what he wants, but isn't averse to putting my needs first sometimes.
Above all, I expect honesty. Anyone who has read my recent cafe posts will know that I will not tolerate lies, and I have no interest in someone who is already in a relationship and would be doing this behind their partner's back. If you are in a relationship and have permission, I'd expect to be able to speak to her and get her blessing myself.
In return, I offer good conversation, hopefully a few laughs, and if we do progress as far as the bedroom, the confidence in my own abilities for us both to enjoy ourselves. I do know what I like and am not usually afraid of telling you. I'm by no means a selfish lover, and I wouldn't expect you to be either. I'm happy to do one-to-one's, but would also enjoy going to clubs and munches together, maybe even parties ;)
OK, I think that's me done for now. At least nobody can accuse me of having posted a one line "wanna shag" lol
Sex God
Anyone less than 5'10 is unlikely to get a meet, because I wouldn't want it to be purely sex, and I'm 5'7 and like my high heels 
Have yet to meet a man who is shorter than me that I don't feel uncomfortable holding hands with 
:roll: - good on you gal you will have buddy millions of brill responses 
Good on ya !!
this post was a JOKE!!! I do NOT just want a shag, ok! 
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