Do people still meet up outside of clubs ?

Just wondering if people still meet up for fun away from the adult clubs ? It is so quiet on here nothing like it used to be !

I’m on 2 other sites which are far more active than this one

What sites are you on?

I think its fair to say YES, people do, its just a little bit less obvious that it perhaps used to be- perhaps a sign of the times.

@ Tommarzano123- I'm sure Strauss wont be answering that in the forum as its against the rules- perhaps you can catch up with him via messages.

Yes they do meet up I for one have fun as and when i can and i know a few others who meet as well. I agree its not the same as it used to be but then life moves on.

Maybe you could try the chatrooms , socials or look in the groups section and make contacts that way. It does take patience and persistence as it seems a lot have got used to behind the screen satisfaction rather than physical face to face.

we do sometimes strauss .... but its rare we find too many active folk on here, the ones we have found, are generally lovely

We still meet up when we find a couple or TV we like and they reciprocate. But it has gone quiet. It may not be the scene or this site for us, but our ages! We are on another site too and Innuendo is on cam on a Saturday evening, she gets lots of lovely in room comments and lots of one line messages from guys. But no offers! But we will bide our time, someone may be just around the corner...

People do meet outside of clubs.. we prefer in clubs though

Interesting chat…… we are a couple looking to meet other singles or couples. Recently arrived from South Africa and looking to get back into the swing of things. Any advice would be appreciated

good to know people still meeting at munch's, my local one stop holding them be nice if more posted on this site

maybe this site could cope MOD EDIT munches,

Please dont mention other sites on open forum or chat

I have only recently joined this site , and so far all my meets have been away from clubs. However i will be going to my first club very soon.

We most definitely would meet outside of clubs, but it is proving to be an impossible task.

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We most definitely would meet outside of clubs, but it is proving to be an impossible task.

Just looked at your profile & have to say, i commend you for your honesty on what you require, but it is a bit of a tall order, distance is always an issue for everyone, but having a full head of hair is a bit much, does it really matter ? personally i think from a swinging point of view, if the important sexy bits are a turn on for your desires they should rank quite high, as a bit of uglyness on the head would prevent falling in love accidentally. 😇🤣😊

Most of our meets are outside of clubs as we rarely go to a club 😂😂😂

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Just looked at your profile & have to say, i commend you for your honesty on what you require, but it is a bit of a tall order, distance is always an issue for everyone, but having a full head of hair is a bit much, does it really matter ? personally i think from a swinging point of view, if the important sexy bits are a turn on for your desires they should rank quite high, as a bit of uglyness on the head would prevent falling in love accidentally. 😇🤣😊

It is a tall order, but we are not going to apologise for pursuing what we want.

I would not expect the wife to indulge in intimate activity with someone that she didn't find attractive, so YES it does matter.

We are seeking regular and long term, so I don't think that wanting someone local is unreasonable. We have tried "Distance" numerous times and it never works for more than a few weeks.

For us it is not just about the sex!!!

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It is a tall order, but we are not going to apologise for pursuing what we want.

I would not expect the wife to indulge in intimate activity with someone that she didn't find attractive, so YES it does matter.

We are seeking regular and long term, so I don't think that wanting someone local is unreasonable. We have tried "Distance" numerous times and it never works for more than a few weeks.

For us it is not just about the sex!!!

Great profile picture. Wish I lived closer.

Clubs aren't our thing - we've only been to one once just for the experience. For some people here the measure of success is how many experiences they can have, for others it's much more about finding people on the same wavelength and accepting that it can take a long time. Neither approach is right or wrong - it's just different people looking for different things.

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Just looked at your profile & have to say, i commend you for your honesty on what you require, but it is a bit of a tall order, distance is always an issue for everyone, but having a full head of hair is a bit much, does it really matter ? personally i think from a swinging point of view, if the important sexy bits are a turn on for your desires they should rank quite high, as a bit of uglyness on the head would prevent falling in love accidentally. 😇🤣😊

Depends on your personal definition of swinging. Attraction can be physical and/or mental. We like both and in the 20 years or so that we've been here we've had no issues finding what we're looking for. You don't make best friends overnight and we feel the same about this. It just takes time.

We joined on here in October still new to the scene and only just had our first meet. We want to meet like minded people we can get on with socially and have fun. We learnt that its a slow process, chatting on here often fizzles out not everyone wants the experiences so finding the right match can be hard. We found the Social on here helped quite a bit! We certainly try make it to another.

We never tried the clubs to be honest. However that might change soon, at least just to experience one!

Are there any pubs around in Leicestershire that tend to be frequented by couples that are "looking" for other couples? We're not quite ready for a club, but fed up of having no luck on here or in normal pubs ?

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Are there any pubs around in Leicestershire that tend to be frequented by couples that are "looking" for other couples? We're not quite ready for a club, but fed up of having no luck on here or in normal pubs ?

Not that we know of if u have any luck let us know

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We joined on here in October still new to the scene and only just had our first meet. We want to meet like minded people we can get on with socially and have fun. We learnt that its a slow process, chatting on here often fizzles out not everyone wants the experiences so finding the right match can be hard. We found the Social on here helped quite a bit! We certainly try make it to another.

We never tried the clubs to be honest. However that might change soon, at least just to experience one!

Have u checked out the cov social? It’s a great place to meet people with no pressure of a club

Very interesting to read people's thoughts as a new couple to the lifestyle.

We have really enjoyed our first threesomes together this year and now looking for a couple with a bi female similar to us.

Not yet ready for a club although we really want to go and I think that will be a whole lot easier once we have played with another couple.

We have found that finding a suitable couple isn't that hard, but with this being a separate thing to busy Vanilla life for us and I would guess them its difficult getting a chat going to move forward ro meeting.

Fingers crossed this summer bears fruit for us.