Erotic possibilities of REAL phone sex

2 Nov 2004

I think it's time to re-evaluate genuine phone sex as an erotic pastime. It's been spoiled by all the 0900 numbers and stupid recordings, which are about as erotic as a wet fish. The real thing, when a sexy voice is murmuring in your ear as the two of you move irresistibly towards mutual maximum arousal, is a totally different matter.
There are several elements that produce its potent effect. First, you are both there because you want to be, ready to try things out and experiment A willing partner is a great turn-on. Second, it goes straight to the imagination - whoever and whatever you are in the real world, in your temporary fantasy you can collude in a situation where both parties can close their eyes, drift away, and be ANYONE for the duration of the call. Third, it's easy, none-threatening and completely under control. If you don't like what you're getting, hang up. Fourth, despite all the freedoms which we enjoy, there is still a little frisson about this one - phone sex is still kind of .
This is what I would like. I'm a heterosexual male, interested in the possibilities of long-distance arousal with one willing woman at a time. If that's you, I'm happy to provide a number for you to ring, at a time that we can arrange. Feel free to keep your number secret if you want - though I will never ring and embarrass you!
Does anybody else feel that this area of pleasure has been unfairly treated?
Anybody out there?

2 Nov 2004

I'm trying to work out whether this should be in Meet Up, as it seems to be a long winded way of saying you would like phone sex.... errrrrrrr, can someone help me out here?

2 Nov 2004

that's what I thought, but didn't want to get into another spat. confused

2 Nov 2004

OK, good enough for me, this is now heading over to Meet Up!

2 Nov 2004

Quote by bluexxx
I'm trying to work out whether this should be in Meet Up, as it seems to be a long winded way of saying you would like phone sex.... errrrrrrr, can someone help me out here?

PM'd ya

2 Nov 2004

OK, fair enough to move it, in that I certainly am looking for phone sex - see above!
But I am also intereted in the whole idea and was trying to spark a discussion - this is an area of eroticism that needs rescuing from the commercial guys who have ruined it.

3 Nov 2004

I have to agree, I have had phone sex on many occassions. not for some time now, but it can be extremely erotic and you can reallly lose yourself in the moment. To a degree it is one of those things that you have to be in the mood for, but if both of you are, well, it beats most other forms of 'solo' fun hands down. (not sure about using beat, and hands in that sentence, but.....)
Back to the topic, I can't see the fun in chatting to someone who is getting paid to make it up, the only way to enjoy this, IMHO, is to do it with someone you have a connection to anyway. And it's especially fun when a vanilla phone call suddenly takes a turn to the erotic.
Though I'd have to recommend you don't do this in a public phone box. especially one of the open sided ones. Also, phones in railway stations, airports etc, for some reason they get a bit stuffy about it........