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First night out at a club - advice wanted

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Hi, we are hoping to go on our first night out to a club next weekend (30th Oct) and we have looked into a few and are probably going to Cupids (Swinton, Manchester). We were wondering if anyone could either recommended this club or tell us of any other good ones around the Bolton/Manchester area.
As this will be our first club 'experience' we also wanted to know if anyone had any advice of what to do or expect when we got there. We are very open minded and are quite happy whichever way the night goes.
Thanks for any advice
Emma and Mark xx
first advice is ... relax
have a nosy around the venue you choose
no one expects newbies to have fun their first night
always respect others views and no means no (no explanation given or expected)
i would recommend either liaisons or partners especially for a first club visit but it all goes on what sort of club it is you want to visit
Cupids was the first club I ever went to and I had a blast!
Take your time and take in the atmosphere. Hope you enjoy!
You might also try Partners in Bury, the wet area there is super.
Can vouch for Partners ourselves....been about 5 times and enjoyed each visit. Altho we did sit in a corner people watching on our 1st visit like 2 schoolkids lol. But very relaxed atmosphere and like Bluexxx has said ...the wet area is great ...mrs nu luvs it .
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Can vouch for Partners ourselves....been about 5 times and enjoyed each visit. Altho we did sit in a corner people watching on our 1st visit like 2 schoolkids lol. But very relaxed atmosphere and like Bluexxx has said ...the wet area is great ...mrs nu luvs it .

being like schoolkids is half the fun of a first visitthat and the dirty shared secret youve now got to keep lol
as already said just have a great night
dont be put of if you dont like the club you choose try another as all clubs are very different and same club can be totally different on diferent nights
Thanks to everyone who has left replies on here and pm'd us personally. We have been given some great feedback and are still happy to receive more.
We will let you all know how our weekend adventure goes and hopefully it will be the start of many club visits.
Emma and Mark xxx
We went partners for the first time last sat 23oct and it was brill
Although we never got shown around we soon found out were everything was!!
Everyone who we spoke to were very friendly. The pool/spa/sauna area is brill. I was classed as straight but I've now had my bi cherry well and truly popped lol.. We are only into soft swapping till we get used to all this and we've now been 3 clubs and upto now I'd say Partners is the best for newbies.. If you need to ask any questions we are willing to answer any just pm us
Hi Ya,
I was wondering if you made it last night. I did and had a good night :twisted:
I'd recommend Cupids if you didn't go there already? It has a good atmosphere and plenty of people usually. I have been with first-timers before and it can be a good idea to get there early and have a good look round before the place fills up.
If you want to know more - let me know. Happy to meet you for a drink and outline the "lie of the land". But of course you may have already seen for yourselves by the time you read this?
Look forward to hearing how your weekend went!