Hi there me and my partner are looking to try swinging, never done anything like this before. Looking for another couple up in the Durham area.
Hi Marky, and welcome to the site. There are numerous posts relating to "newbies" and an introduction to swinging and other alternative activities. The first thing you might need to do is to become visible, either by showing yourself on cam, or by attending a social, where you will meet likeminded individuals, and actually get the chance to decide whether you wish to meet them again.
The photo ads will get responses, as will the "let's meet up" forum. However, you must then make the effort to confirm that whoever has responded to your ad' is indeed what they claim to be. Unless a woman is either seen, or spoken to, or the member is well known to other members on the site, then it's as likely to be just some guy jerking off to the exchange of messages.