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Hi, I would like anyones helpful advice on meeting a couple for the first time. I am a stright single male meeting a coule for the first time.
Any advice would be helpful
Thanks
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Hi, I would like anyones helpful advice on meeting a couple for the first time. I am a stright single male meeting a coule for the first time.
Any advice would be helpful
Thanks

Hi pbroad6, what type of advice is it your after? dunno
Louise x
Hi Louise, thanks
I would like some general advice, It's my first meet with a couple, it will be in a pub . I am a bit nervous and dont want it to go badly.
Should I just be sociable - general chit-chat or ??
Thanks
Definately sociable and chatty.... They will want to see if they click with you so meeting in a public place first is the best idea.... I have no doubt they will be nervous as well wink
Dont forget to smile, remember your manners and relax.... Have fun biggrin
Quote by pbroad6
Hi Louise, thanks
I would like some general advice, It's my first meet with a couple, it will be in a pub . I am a bit nervous and dont want it to go badly.
Should I just be sociable - general chit-chat or ??
Thanks

Im not saying im very experienced but for me id say that youd have to be polite, general chit-chat to start off with and then if you get any signals that the couple may be happy to proceed then politely ask them how they would like your meeting to progress. Try and make it as informal as possible so that everyone can relax. Be honest if asked any questions and never push for things that only you will want. Communication is the key. If your unsure of their intentions, why not send them a pm asking what they expect from the meet. Also express to them that anyone one of you is free to pull out at any time if they are not comortable. I hope this helps.
Louise
Thanks , very helpful, I will be on my best behaviuor and follow what you suggest
just be yourself and yo will be fine,
good luck