First time at a club (Northwest - Chorley/Blackburn)

29 Jun 2005

we've looked at the club listings and we're trying to decide on where to go and general advice. Specifically:
What do you wear?
What do you do when you first go in?
How do you get across messages such as "You're fit and I'll fuck you, but no Anal.."
What if we get cold feet?
Do we have to pay Â£Squillion to join?
We're a couple, dirty as fuck but she has some boundaries (one of them being no smelly dicks in her mouth, no guys she don't fancy in her fanny and nothing up her butt. I have some boundaries but I'm not too sure what they are. Every time I think I have found one I smash it down lol.
Any advice for a couple of newbs?

29 Jun 2005

Are you looking to go in the evening or daytime?

29 Jun 2005

Sorry - should have said.
Friday night. 7pm ish onwards.
Also, if we leave at 1am is that rude? We both have work at 7am and life still rolls on regardless of our genital needs lol

30 Jun 2005

hi kev best club there is partners bury everyone has a shower most men theres a swiming pool / jakuse most of the men are in there at some time what to wear any thing you want wear a cozzie if you want . all the men know if a complainent is put in against them there out 99% obey the rulls just growl at anyone who pisses you off as for cost not much its the single men who pay through the nose to get in couples unfortinuatey are the bait . just have fun good luck .davie

30 Jun 2005

Quote by Kevin_Private
What do you wear?
What do you do when you first go in?
How do you get across messages such as "You're fit and I'll fuck you, but no Anal.."
What if we get cold feet?
Do we have to pay Â£Squillion to join?

This should answer most of your questions:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/advice/swingers-clubs.html
But specifically:
1. Generally men wear just towels or underwear, women wear towels, underwear, or sexy dresses/skirts etc.
2. What do you do when you first go in? Get a drink and sit down! Some clubs require you to get changed as soon as you walk in, others let you stay clothed til you go into the play areas.
3. If you don't want to do anal (or anything else) just say, "I don't do anal/whatever". Simple really!
4. If you get cold feet once you're in you've wasted a few quid.
5. Clubs vary in price. All the clubs in the NW do not charge membership for couples but you may be asked for ID. The entrance price will be anywhere from Â£5 (Adam and Eves at all times except Sat night, when it is a tenner), but more often around Â£15 (Partners on mixed nights) or even Â£20 (Partners and Liaisons on couples nights) - these prices are for a couple not each so they are reasonable enough.
If you want to leave at 1am, that's fine.... there's no-one gonna make you stay all night smile