Hi again,,,only mysecond time on here. So please tell me are there actually any genuine couples on here who are intrested in a meet,,, All we have come up with up to now have been single guys lying to us, pretending to be a couple and wasting our time,,,or is it us ???are we doing something wrong???
We are a genuine funloving warm friendly couple . Im bi, my blokes straight,,we are not at all intrested in meeting singles girls or blokes we play as a couple,,,or is that wrong???
We have never done this through the internet before, we have met people through clubs we have been to. So maybe we are missing something,,,,HELP Please
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Hi there you two
NO, you are not doing anything wrong, apart from maybe expecting things to move to quickly.
Pure fact is that many more single guys are 'in the market' for swinging/dogging and as such you will always find more males responding.
Its also a sad fact that there are guys out there who think the old line ' my wife couldnt make it' will work. I even get guys pretending to be women pm'ing me, like i wont spot the difference !!
There are plenty of couples out there, each with their own likes and dislikes, take the time to chat to them, get to know them here, and before you know it youll be swinging away !!
Good luck
Paul
NO, you are not doing anything wrong, apart from maybe expecting things to move to quickly.
Pure fact is that many more single guys are 'in the market' for swinging/dogging and as such you will always find more males responding.
Its also a sad fact that there are guys out there who think the old line ' my wife couldnt make it' will work. I even get guys pretending to be women pm'ing me, like i wont spot the difference !!
There are plenty of couples out there, each with their own likes and dislikes, take the time to chat to them, get to know them here, and before you know it youll be swinging away !!
Good luck
Paul
Orgasminator
Sad but true. There are too many time wasters who seem to enjoy messing people about.
Sex God
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hi there
were a gen cpl and a gen single bi fem to
so there is some of us gen but most are not
keep trying like us all lol
jo x
Jo........ I think most the regulars in the cafe are gen........ well 200 of them at the last munch were
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Hi again,,,only mysecond time on here. So please tell me are there actually any genuine couples on here who are intrested in a meet,,, All we have come up with up to now have been single guys lying to us, pretending to be a couple and wasting our time,,,or is it us ???are we doing something wrong???
We are a genuine funloving warm friendly couple . Im bi, my blokes straight,,we are not at all intrested in meeting singles girls or blokes we play as a couple,,,or is that wrong???
We have never done this through the internet before, we have met people through clubs we have been to. So maybe we are missing something,,,,HELP Please
:banghead: :banghead: :banghead:I normally keep out of this type of post, but hey ........ guess what ........... it's PMT time :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
You said right at the beginning it's only your second time on here, and ALL you have come up with up til now - that's hardly giving things a chance, or giving people time to get to know you. How much time exactly have you put into finding out about this site, how we work, what people are like etc?
How many of the hundreds of advice threads have you read through?
I know I don't come into your requirements, but there are loads of genuine couples on here. Why should they drop everything because you've visited this site once? When the alternative is to meet up with another couple who they have interracted with, had a laugh with, know they will get on with regardless of whether it ends up as a full swinging situation.
I know this sounds harsh, I'm sorry if I have offended you. Through the moans and from your other 7 posts, you do sound nice, you do sound friendly, you do sound fun. The internet relies quite heavily on getting your personalities across. So get it across a bit more. The internet doesn't have the advantage of clubs, where you can imediately get a feel for people, know when there is that spark etc, so things move a lot slower.
Can you think of anything more awkward then meeting up with another couple, based on a few words and pictures ........... then finding out that you have absolutely nothing in common, nothing to talk about and although all find each other attractive, just don't fancy each other.
So do a bit more research, enjoy the site and its characters, get to know people and let them get to know you.
Good luck, and have fun
MissChief
I'm a new single bloke here,so I know i'm no use to you and I'm not going to rpetend to be anything i'm not. I mean what would happen if we arrange a meet - do I say, "oh, i forgot my wife, but can we feck anyway "!!!
I'd have thought the ads are genuine.
Anyway, good luck from another newbie !
Chris.
I'd have thought the ads are genuine.
Anyway, good luck from another newbie !
Chris.
Sex God
Hi
Misschief got it right (Mods usually do).
There are loads of genuine folk using this 'll get a mixed response,sure,but so what! Does it matter if 10 people waste your time if you make one sensible contact?
My own experiences from my posts here have been good 'cos I hold the view that the timewasters are wasting their time more than mine.I'm having loads of fun,they're clearly not,so in my book their SAD people
Hope you get to have lots of luck!
xx
Misschief got it right (Mods usually do).
There are loads of genuine folk using this 'll get a mixed response,sure,but so what! Does it matter if 10 people waste your time if you make one sensible contact?
My own experiences from my posts here have been good 'cos I hold the view that the timewasters are wasting their time more than mine.I'm having loads of fun,they're clearly not,so in my book their SAD people
Hope you get to have lots of luck!
xx Hi again,,maybe I picked a bad day to write in the first place. Up to now 95% of the people we have contacted through the ads have been blokes in disguise and it pissed us off.
We dont expect anyone to drop anything for us, We dont wish to offend anyone on this site . We are just sick of some single guys taking the piss,,maybe your more used to it.
We arent moaners ,, just aired a view point.
We are new to the internet way of doing this but not to the actual thing, we are totally aware how awkward and embarrasing it is sometimes meeting strangers, been there .Any way a genuine apology to any we have unintentionally wound up.
We dont expect anyone to drop anything for us, We dont wish to offend anyone on this site . We are just sick of some single guys taking the piss,,maybe your more used to it.
We arent moaners ,, just aired a view point.
We are new to the internet way of doing this but not to the actual thing, we are totally aware how awkward and embarrasing it is sometimes meeting strangers, been there .Any way a genuine apology to any we have unintentionally wound up.
Sex God
Keep trying.I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for if you usually has it's own rewards 
Quote by felinesexy
Hi again,,maybe I picked a bad day to write in the first place. Up to now 95% of the people we have contacted through the ads have been blokes in disguise and it pissed us off.
We dont expect anyone to drop anything for us, We dont wish to offend anyone on this site . We are just sick of some single guys taking the piss,,maybe your more used to it.
We arent moaners ,, just aired a view point.
We are new to the internet way of doing this but not to the actual thing, we are totally aware how awkward and embarrasing it is sometimes meeting strangers, been there .Any way a genuine apology to any we have unintentionally wound up.
Felinesexy, you can air views, that's what the forum is for
I gave my view and I apologise if you were offended by it, but I can't apologise for what I said, as that's what I believe. It was not meant as an attack on you as people, sorry if it came across like that. I was just responding to what you had written and your circumstances.I have just PMd this to you, but will put it on here too as I think it's relevant to all. If you do have problems with single men pretending to be a couple, or any fakes/spammers/prostitutes etc etc etc, then please report it to us.
We can only monitor ads themselves and rely a lot on people reporting the fakes once contact has been made. You can either press the 'report ad' button on the ads themselves, or you can PM any of the moderators. If possible forward any relevant emails, responses etc, then we can do something about it.
We are not so naive that we think everyone is genuine - but sifting them out is difficult without any evidence.
So please give us the evidence to zap the buggers :twisted:
