Give Genuine People a Chance

28 Aug 2005

Ive been on S/H heaven for a year and have made all the newbie mistakes while Im not saying Im an expert I have met some wonderful peeps but reading through the threads it seems there are some people I would say mostly female who are waiting in the shadows like wolves ready to rip the next thread apart, while I understand some people's threads are from timewasters and this is clearly evident when they dont put more than a sentence in to their post, I think the majority of it is unjustified.
There Ive said my piece :fuckinghell: , enjoy the rest of your weekend everybody !
daved xxx

28 Aug 2005

hear hear david.
i do get the odd, pm or e-mail back.
slating me or saying we are complete perverts.
etfc
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28 Aug 2005

Here we go again :shock:

28 Aug 2005

Quote by daved
Ive been on S/H heaven for a year and have made all the newbie mistakes while Im not saying Im an expert I have met some wonderful peeps but reading through the threads it seems there are some people I would say mostly female who are waiting in the shadows like wolves ready to rip the next thread apart, while I understand some people's threads are from timewasters and this is clearly evident when they dont put more than a sentence in to their post, I think the majority of it is unjustified.
There Ive said my piece :fuckinghell: , enjoy the rest of your weekend everybody !
daved xxx

If you are talking about your "London Sex Team " thread... i thought most of the people who replied there were offering you either constructive criticism, or were trying to understand what exactly it was you were aiming at...
though you are right in one respect.... the 17 posts you've made in the 12 months you have been here dont make you an expert! (neither am i btw)

28 Aug 2005

You may find it more constructive to make your comment here:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/54853.html

28 Aug 2005

i was just saying on personal experience.
u can write the nicest and polite e-mails, but they come back slating u.
and i have nothing to do with the " london sex team ".
etfc

28 Aug 2005

Quote by etfcboy1971
i was just saying on personal experience.
u can write the nicest and polite e-mails, but they come back slating u.
and i have nothing to do with the " london sex team ".
etfc

The thing is, it's been said so many times before and there's nothing anyone can do about it. If it's an abusive PM, report it to one of the mods. Apart from the fact that you missed daved's point, which was more to do with people's posts on here being commented on.

28 Aug 2005

This has absolutely nothing to do with the my recent post The London Sex Team I was happy with the response and glad people replied with constructive criticism because I found it useful it was just something I wanted to get off my chest, after reading some peoples posts I felt some of the replies they recieved were unfair and it would be more beneficial to offer advice than slate them, Ive seen posts ridiculed over a simple spelling error that anybody can make.
Im not having a go at anybody on the site because I think the vast majority are geuinely nice peeps, I just wanted the peeps who slate people to reflect on what their doing and give people who are finding their feet a chance biggrin

28 Aug 2005

Quote by daved
This has absolutely nothing to do with the my recent post The London Sex Team I was happy with the response and glad people replied with constructive criticism because I found it useful it was just something I wanted to get off my chest, after reading some peoples posts I felt some of the replies they recieved were unfair and it would be more beneficial to offer advice than slate them, Ive seen posts ridiculed over a simple spelling error that anybody can make.
Im not having a go at anybody on the site because I think the vast majority are geuinely nice peeps, I just wanted the peeps who slate people to reflect on what their doing and give people who are finding their feet a chance

That's also been said before.

28 Aug 2005

Quote by daved
Im not having a go at anybody on the site because I think the vast majority are geuinely nice peeps, I just wanted the peeps who slate people to reflect on what their doing and give people who are finding their feet a chance

So... you reckon the vast majority are genuinely nice.... yet you decide to have a whinge anyway... and when you say your not having a go at anybody... i guess thats not mostly women you are not having a go at either?
fair enough i guess.... rolleyes

28 Aug 2005

This isn't a meet up post and the same subject has been recently covered in the cafe.
Thread locked