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Giving up on finding real meets

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We have decided on one last post on here. Maybe someone will prove us wrong . We have some free time perhaps a meet at chams on Wednesday during the day or eve. Please send a mail
Quote by pbnorthants
We have decided on one last post on here. Maybe someone will prove us wrong . We have some free time perhaps a meet at chams on Wednesday during the day or eve. Please send a mail

You say you're giving up on real meets, yet in another post in September this year, you say you've had some real meets!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/418485.html
Please take this in the spirit of constructive comment, but your profile text starts off with such negativity that it's likely to alienate most of the people reading it. Maybe you'd have more luck if you - as the song says - accentuate the positive. ;)
Have taken on board what you have said let's see if there is a difference but profile has not always had those negitive vibes only lately out of pure frustration lol
Quote by pbnorthants
Have taken on board what you have said let's see if there is a difference but profile has not always had those negitive vibes only lately out of pure frustration lol

Your profile comes across as very testy and consequently might put many off. Maybe time to step back for a re-think and refresh? We think it is good practise for a routine maintenance periodically both in the profile and the head.
Don't forget it's supposed to be fun!
Quote by pbnorthants
Profile totally revamped

The testyness has certainly been removed but the spelling mistakes, missing words and general confusion haven't!
You mention you host house parties twice and say only people you have met before would be invited but what is the point of mentioning them if you haven't met anybody from here as referenced above??
You might want to remove the disingenuous line about whispers as well!
Some people are so much up their own backsides we def off this site for good
Really!!!!
No! Fucking Really??
it's good to see genuine swingers hounded out in favour of those more versed in spelling and grammar.
i can't imagine how vulgar it must feel to fuck someone so uneducated banghead
and all those wonderful words and not a clue at how to string them together without being patronising
Quote by pbnorthants
Some people are so much up their own backsides we def off this site for good

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Quote by pbnorthants
Some people are so much up their own backsides we def off this site for good

Oh! Just trying to help it read clearer.
Bye and good luck elsewhere.
Quote by Lizaleanrob
Really!!!!
No! Fucking Really??
it's good to see genuine swingers hounded out in favour of those more versed in spelling and grammar.
i can't imagine how vulgar it must feel to fuck someone so uneducated banghead
and all those wonderful words and not a clue at how to string them together without being patronising

3 edits!!!!!!
Quote by DirtynSquirty
Really!!!!
No! Fucking Really??
it's good to see genuine swingers hounded out in favour of those more versed in spelling and grammar.
i can't imagine how vulgar it must feel to fuck someone so uneducated banghead
and all those wonderful words and not a clue at how to string them together without being patronising

3 edits!!!!!!
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two confused:
DirtynSquirty - I almost spat my coffee out just then!.
"3 Edits!!!!" rotflmao:haha::laughabove:
Ah, can't beat a good old flounce !!! Just like back in the day !!
J & S
stay off the energy drinks.
they make your brain go all goo after a while.
first attacks your sllpeing.banghead
seplling :eeek:
spelling.
damn it i really must come off those energy drinks lol
Quote by tyracer
stay off the energy drinks.
they make your brain go all goo after a while.
first attacks your sllpeing.banghead
seplling :eeek:
spelling.
damn it i really must come off those energy drinks lol

You and your goo :giggle:
Stop getting so excited about spelling and grammar - if you can make sense of what it says, does it matter?
However seeing a nice paragraph rather than just a chunk of text, proper words (without text speak), well structured sentences the correct use of words (the group was their in the woods(for example!)) and grammar does turn me on to the person/couple.
...... and I know all these things are difficult - I'm dyslexic. However it is nice to know the other person is making the effort.
Returning to the subject of the thread I can say I have met some wonderful people off here so don't give up OP! Maybe I'm just lucky because fewer people mess around single males?
Quote by Lizaleanrob
Really!!!!
No! Fucking Really??
it's good to see genuine swingers hounded out in favour of those more versed in spelling and grammar.
i can't imagine how vulgar it must feel to fuck someone so uneducated banghead
and all those wonderful words and not a clue at how to string them together without being patronising

3 edits!!!!!!
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two confused:
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two :?:
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two :?:
Your illustration of a couple appearing to be less than honest brings us neatly back to the original post.
The OP couple paint a familiar picture of a wronged user let down by others, one we generally hear from single guys. Their previous postings do indicate they have been let down a few times and their profile text, before deleted, alluded to time-wasters etc. Granted, any of us have and will be let down occasionally along the road but to never had a meet off of here in nearly six years is a highly questionable run of bad luck!
When guys have made the same gripe about lack of meets and genuine people etc I have always asked them what is the common denominator in all these failed meets. Surely it follows, that the bleating OP couple are the problem and the reason. Finding it incredulous that a couple with a "pretty" bi woman who didn't seem picky haven't managed to have a meet since joining in November 2007 because of others.
Other elements will be withheld in respect of naming and shaming AUP.
Quote by DirtynSquirty
Really!!!!
No! Fucking Really??
it's good to see genuine swingers hounded out in favour of those more versed in spelling and grammar.
i can't imagine how vulgar it must feel to fuck someone so uneducated banghead
and all those wonderful words and not a clue at how to string them together without being patronising

3 edits!!!!!!
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two confused:
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two :?:
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two :?:
Your illustration of a couple appearing to be less than honest brings us neatly back to the original post.
The OP couple paint a familiar picture of a wronged user let down by others, one we generally hear from single guys. Their previous postings do indicate they have been let down a few times and their profile text, before deleted, alluded to time-wasters etc. Granted, any of us have and will be let down occasionally along the road but to never had a meet off of here in nearly six years is a highly questionable run of bad luck!
When guys have made the same gripe about lack of meets and genuine people etc I have always asked them what is the common denominator in all these failed meets. Surely it follows, that the bleating OP couple are the problem and the reason. Finding it incredulous that a couple with a "pretty" bi woman who didn't seem picky haven't managed to have a meet since joining in November 2007 because of others.
Other elements will be withheld in respect of naming and shaming AUP.
WTF are you on
I'm afraid my illustration only points how patronising you was coming across,
my edited illustrations was about what type or patroniser i think you are
now I'm beginning to wonder if this couple knocked you back (other elements)at some time or another as that's some axe you seem to be grinding there fella
firstly their spelling and grammar now their integrity ....jeeze :doh:
I came by just to say
"Lol!"
Quote by Lizaleanrob
Really!!!!
No! Fucking Really??
it's good to see genuine swingers hounded out in favour of those more versed in spelling and grammar.
i can't imagine how vulgar it must feel to fuck someone so uneducated banghead
and all those wonderful words and not a clue at how to string them together without being patronising

3 edits!!!!!!
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two confused:
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two :?:
Well..... i was Really honest and Blunt in the first two :?:
Your illustration of a couple appearing to be less than honest brings us neatly back to the original post.
The OP couple paint a familiar picture of a wronged user let down by others, one we generally hear from single guys. Their previous postings do indicate they have been let down a few times and their profile text, before deleted, alluded to time-wasters etc. Granted, any of us have and will be let down occasionally along the road but to never had a meet off of here in nearly six years is a highly questionable run of bad luck!
When guys have made the same gripe about lack of meets and genuine people etc I have always asked them what is the common denominator in all these failed meets. Surely it follows, that the bleating OP couple are the problem and the reason. Finding it incredulous that a couple with a "pretty" bi woman who didn't seem picky haven't managed to have a meet since joining in November 2007 because of others.
Other elements will be withheld in respect of naming and shaming AUP.
WTF are you on
I'm afraid my illustration only points how patronising you was coming across,
my edited illustrations was about what type or patroniser i think you are
now I'm beginning to wonder if this couple knocked you back (other elements)at some time or another as that's some axe you seem to be grinding there fella
firstly their spelling and grammar now their integrity ....jeeze :doh:
Firstly you make the scurrilous and unfounded insinuation that I am educated and then you propose that I might have been knocked back, as you put it, by a couple that haven't had one meet in 5 years and 11 months on here.
What other depths would you plumb!
1 edit.
Quote by DirtynSquirty

WTF are you on
I'm afraid my illustration only points how patronising you was coming across,
my edited illustrations was about what type or patroniser i think you are
now I'm beginning to wonder if this couple knocked you back (other elements)at some time or another as that's some axe you seem to be grinding there fella
firstly their spelling and grammar now their integrity ....jeeze :doh:

Firstly you make the scurrilous and unfounded insinuation that I am educated and then you propose that I might have been knocked back, as you put it, by a couple that haven't had one meet in 5 years and 11 months on here.
What other depths would you plumb!
1 edit.
quote !!!
What did I miss?? Tell me dam you??
Scurrilous - now there's a word I never expected to see on a swinger's site.
Quote by maverick40
What did I miss?? Tell me dam you??

Has been a bit of a pantomime Mav but in summary;
Known couple come on here with the well worn whiney refrain of one last post to find real people etc. Advised to take the negativity and duplicity out of their profile. They do an old fashioned flounce. Liza chips in with a view to making them martyrs ie; hounding genuine swingers out of town etc.
After getting in a muddle about illustrating illustrations Liza probably realises that she has parked herself on the wrong side of the argument and falls back to the playground insult position. The best that can be said for the whole episode is that a whinging hypocritical couple that have never had a meet on here have removed themselves from the community(for now!).Good riddance I say.
Alternative view - couple complain about no meets, get offered advice, change their profile, get attacked by the grammar Taliban, Rob suggests that the attack is a bit pathetic, Taliban attack gets more personal.
Always two sides to every story.
As there's nothing more to be gained from the continued degradation of this thread.....