HELP for newbies (dont forget you were one too)

9 Aug 2005

Cant help notice from looking through ads the lack of assistance given to newbies, I have been trying to get into the 'swinging scene@ for a while with out any luck. i am quite a shy 20 year old student thats needs couple or single female show me around but have had no luck finding one. so if there is any one out there who wants to help young attractive male out i would be very greatful. please prove me oringinal statement wrong.
MODS EDIT
Do NOT post unverified email addresses ANYWHERE on this site. mad

:x :x :x As you are a Newbie I will forgive you this time.
See, that proves your original statement wrong!!
Sarge
thanks for your time

9 Aug 2005

Quote by bus3a2m
Cant help notice from looking through ads the lack of assistance given to newbies, I have been trying to get into the 'swinging scene@ for a while with out any luck. i am quite a shy 20 year old student thats needs couple or single female show me around but have had no luck finding one. so if there is any one out there who wants to help young attractive male out i would be very greatful. please prove me oringinal statement wrong.
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thanks for your time

How would you be able to work out from ads, the amount of assistance newbies get?
Oh, and the 'prove me wrong' ploy has been tried before (unsuccessfully).

9 Aug 2005

Can i just say Mr Bus that there is definately not a lack of help on here for newbies the mods are ace and if you look around the site and spend some time here you will pick up loads of tips and suggestions.
So good luck.

9 Aug 2005

Actually, I don't want to burst your bubble here, but SH offers A LOT of help to newbies..... there is an advice section that you may have not been arsed to read and even a mentoring system.... http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/45014.html
Now, do you want to retract your statement or continue to look like a fool?

9 Aug 2005

Firstly - read the rules regarding unverified email addresses.
Secondly, read this - http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/45014.html
Thirdly, is this a roundabout way of trying to get someone to meet you? cos if its a moan, it will get deleted. If its a request to meet someone, you need to read through what works and what doesn't - this doesn't!
Mal

9 Aug 2005

Quote by bus3a2m
Cant help notice from looking through ads the lack of assistance given to newbies, I have been trying to get into the 'swinging scene@ for a while with out any luck. i am quite a shy 20 year old student thats needs couple or single female show me around but have had no luck finding one. so if there is any one out there who wants to help young attractive male out i would be very greatful. please prove me oringinal statement wrong.
thanks for your time

Another first post slagging off the site!! rolleyes

:roll: :roll: :roll:
If it is that bad why did you bother joining???? confused

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:dunno: :dunno:

9 Aug 2005

Ooooooooohhh!!
3 Mods in a row - you get double points for that!! confused

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:lol: :lol: :lol:

9 Aug 2005

Sorry mods - I didn't realise that wasn't his verified email addy.

9 Aug 2005

3 Mods AND a Bev - he's hit the jackpot!!!!! lol

:lol:
Mal
wink

9 Aug 2005

Quote by Mal
3 Mods AND a Bev - he's hit the jackpot!!!!! :lol:
Mal

Where's Steph when you need her?? confused

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9 Aug 2005

Bloody hell you mods are quick today, wish i had kept quiet now cos your all so very good, the bugger will be cowering under a bush now scared to come out..

9 Aug 2005

That's it - A Rollover Jackpot now!! confused

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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

9 Aug 2005

Just want to add my bit as a kinda newbie. I dont post often....
From what i have seen - the Mods are ace and to be fair, Mr Bus is lucky he's found them in a playful mood today, Must be the good weather!
Keep up the good work!

9 Aug 2005

i am doing good thanks Steph.
Reason I dont post often is mainly by the time I think of something worthwhile to say, someone else has jumped in! I see little point in repeating whats already gone on.
lol

9 Aug 2005

Perhaps he doesnt want to repeat whats already gone on !

9 Aug 2005

Quote by Sgt Bilko
That's it - A Rollover Jackpot now!! :? :? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Oi, I don't rollover for just anyone you know! :lol:

9 Aug 2005

Speaking as a newbie... I'd say thet this place is full of good help and advice. I've received help from Steph (thanks again) and Sarah. Also PMed Mal about getting a mentor.
Taking the time to read the rules and advice section is also helpful. Hopefully in time I'll have gotten to know more of you and then it'll all be worth it smile

Keep up the good work guys and gals, this site is ace!!
Paul.

9 Aug 2005

You aint going to get much help if you come on and shout the odds.
If you need help around the forum then your best bet would be to ask in a reasonable way......just a tip rotflmao