Hi Guys n Gals...
I've been a member now for many moons but not had any meets and very little response (well from the kinda people i wanna hear from anyways) LOL. I have had very little success in the chat rooms and i think this is largely down to the number of time wasting single males out there.
I would like to hear from single females, couples or even single males who can give me a few nudges in the right direction. I am very genuine. If you can help me or if you like the sound of my profile, msg me back!
Thanks ppl
Jay
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Shame you're over the other side of the Pennines.
One thing - I appreciate that probably don't want to put up a face pic and that's fair enough.
How about a full body shot - semi naked (ie just jeans or boxers) is nice. You only really need one cock shot, to be fair. a cock's a cock. Nice but you don't need it from every angle.
Also, why not hang about the Forums a bit and join in the general banter, sign up for a social or Munch, spend more time in just one chatroom chatting not sharking - just a couple of ideas to let people get to know you as a cheerful chappy not just a cock pic.
Good luck
One thing - I appreciate that probably don't want to put up a face pic and that's fair enough.
How about a full body shot - semi naked (ie just jeans or boxers) is nice. You only really need one cock shot, to be fair. a cock's a cock. Nice but you don't need it from every angle.
Also, why not hang about the Forums a bit and join in the general banter, sign up for a social or Munch, spend more time in just one chatroom chatting not sharking - just a couple of ideas to let people get to know you as a cheerful chappy not just a cock pic.
Good luck
Can't add much more than what Marya's already suggested. I have to admit, a cock shot as the main profile pic put's me off looking any further into someone so, as she said, maybe a nice torso or butt ( we like butts :twisted: ) and keep the cock shot off your main profile page ( or in your private gallery )
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Thanx for the idea's Marya... its difficult... i dont have the best body in the world so i am a little shy at putting a full body pic on, also i have countless face pics but like u said i am not really willing to put them on but will happily exchange them with others. It seems if everything is not there on ur profile, some people assume that you are hiding something 
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Thanx for the idea's Marya... its difficult... i dont have the best body in the world so i am a little shy at putting a full body pic on, also i have countless face pics but like u said i am not really willing to put them on but will happily exchange them with others. It seems if everything is not there on ur profile, some people assume that you are hiding something
I know what you're saying - we're not all fit for the olympics but you can take quite flattering pics without being too deceptive. If you were closer, I'd give you hand - i love taking pics.
Like the other ladies said - we do love bums but we don't appreciate certain phrases ... Ummmm.... I'll see if I can come up with any more advice for you but really, I'd say just get yourself known a bit more in a less sexual way.
Yes,I know this is ultimately a "sex site" but people do like to get to know you as a person and feel more comfortable chatting about everyday stuff initially.
Feel free to send me a face pic
Sex God
depends how you want to treat the chatroom....
would you walk into a packed bar? not say a word tell some girl nice tits? another you got any knickers on?
and expect to pull??
all you`d gets a slapped face!!!!!!!!!
ok so u shy walking in the bar by yrself....say hi ...have a look at profiles...and get the basic details,what they looking 4.....where they r..
then chat away and try to be nice....mind when you say hi to a couple...they gonna say hi back n go off and perve yr profile n pics......if they want to talk to you and theres something interesting on your profile ....you r halfway there.....
now thats enough little secrets out the bag!!!!
would you walk into a packed bar? not say a word tell some girl nice tits? another you got any knickers on?
and expect to pull??
all you`d gets a slapped face!!!!!!!!!
ok so u shy walking in the bar by yrself....say hi ...have a look at profiles...and get the basic details,what they looking 4.....where they r..
then chat away and try to be nice....mind when you say hi to a couple...they gonna say hi back n go off and perve yr profile n pics......if they want to talk to you and theres something interesting on your profile ....you r halfway there.....
now thats enough little secrets out the bag!!!!
