Thanks for reading my topic firstly. I'm in need of some help, big time. Are there any couples or single females who would like to chat and converse then get to know each other with a genuine, discreet single bloke.
If you even just want me to watch you I'm easy with that as well.
I'm trying to break into the swinging and dogging scene but as yet I'm having no luck, everyone seems to know everyone on the chat rooms and its difficult to get into that inner circle, well I'm finding it difficult!!
As I said earlier I'm not a time waster but time is very precious to me so I can't just drop everything last minute, I've been told I've got a GSOH so come on and get in touch. I don't bit, well only if I'm asked too lol
Looking forward to meeting some like minded people very soon
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Doz,
I know what you mean about the chat rooms, but I suggest you start in the bigger rooms and just join in with wherever the conversation is flowing. Not if its clearly a 1-1 conversation, but most are group gossips, etc and people won't tell you to go away just because they don't know you yet!
Or else you can comment (favourably!) on one of the cams if there's something nice to watch... And you'll find that others will most likely be commenting on the same show.
Good luck!
Manchester_Man
Hi, single man here in peace.
I've been a member here for many years but now just drop in now and then. I eventually became quite disillusioned with the scene and ultimately found what, for me at least, proved to be a better alternative.
I wish you all the best in finding a nice couple or, even harder, a single female, on here, it does work for some but as the 'single male' you will inevitably have ti accept that you're likely to succumb to demand and supply I'm afraid - if you were part of a couple you'd be in high demand as would those fairly elusive bisexual single females that loads of couples are after ... (and most fail to bag) ;)
You are going down the right route, be friendly, respectful and polite and you'll have more chance.
I personally gave up a long time ago, I used to give long detailed replies to ads, met all requests and requirements (photos, personalised replies etc), was always respectful and polite etc but in the majority of cases didn't even get the courtesy of a 'thanks but no thanks'. This I always found very rude and frustrating when significant effort had been made in meeting all demands of the advertiser. I appreciate it's a 'sellers market' but to not even get a reply is poor form in my opinion.
Anyway, what worked for me when I got horny in the end? Rather than the long, elusive and hard work in trying to meet a swinging couple (ultimately doomed to failure and after a lot of wasted time) I decided that paying for an escort met all of my needs - seriously - I've met some absolute stunners physically (way beyond my league and far hotter than any I'd be likely to meet here) and had that sexual relief without all the hard work - it's a sure thing!
I appreciate that this is a swinging site and hence I genuinely hope you find what you're looking for from a genuine swinger.
But if it doesn't work out for you, that's a route you may wish to go down. Do proper research so you know you're getting a diamond and enjoy yourself.
Good luck whichever way you decide to go and all the best to you.
Hey
Personally, as a woman, I tend to talk to guys who I have seen regularly in chat and desirably at the many socials that take place up and down the country, this way people percieve you less as a 'stranger' and more as a friend ( albeit a virtual one)
I have to agree, sometimes it is almost impossible to interject meaningfully in a fast flowing chat room, but persevere... making yourself known and familiar to the persons who frequent the rooms, would, in my very humble opinion, increase your chances.
also my personal preference would call for more pictures and text on your profile, but I appreciate this is not everone's taste.
Jen xx
