Hmm, guys seem to be a useless commodity here, yes?

6 Sep 2003

Hmm, guys seem to be an almost useless commodity here, yes? I see guys leaving messages, and having LOTS of views but very few or even no responses,..
Have to admit, it does seem a little on the unfair side, couples have all the luxury of choosing, (Think, 'kid/s in a sweet-shop', *to use the clichÃ©),.. whereas single guys have the hardest, most soul-destroying job of all; 'waiting in line' to be picked from all the other hundreds of guys.
I see now why guys can and do get stroppy with couples etc. It all makes PERFECT sense now...
Anyone else agree/disagree here? smile

*If I don't get any responses, at least I can be secure in the knowledge I was right, however,.. if I DO get responses, *from males or couples or females,.. then cool :) I can't lose biggrin

6 Sep 2003

Hi Mark, what you're saying makes good common sense, I understand what it is you're getting across implicitly. It seems that the way a guy gets laid *to put it bluntly,.. from using this site is understood is a little rough,.. ie guys don't always appear to understand how to get the best from the site.
I'm sure I'll find some fun to share with sooner rather than later smile

Thanks Mark, response appreciated. :) Have fun yourself, and also thanks for the site, nice one!
K. :)

6 Sep 2003

If I'm allowed a pennyworth too ... if you think as this place as another meeting place (like a pub, club etc) you will perhaps find it easier to appreciate people and their responses. Not everyone you actually meet in real life meets your requirements, instantly engages with you (on any level) or is responsive to your moves. Knock backs, rejection and acceptance happen out there, they happen in here too.
From personal experience redface

this site works and works well. Friends and lovers have been found and I wasn't even that eager to participate, so hang on in there!
Jags

6 Sep 2003

Quote by Jags
From personal experience this site works and works well. Friends and lovers have been found and I wasn't even that eager to participate, so hang on in there!
Jags

"Hang in there!",...??? I wasn't having a tough time! lol I've only just joined. smile

I'm sure I'll have fun, as no doubt you have too. I just wanted to get a response out of some of you, and so far, I've achieved it! lol

Hehe

6 Sep 2003

*Slaps that boy*
wink

6 Sep 2003

Oohhh, can I join in the tickling??? Perhaps Petelhk, sorry Kat, could write a story about it wink

6 Sep 2003

I'm up for a bit of tickling...Jock!!! You have to hear my accent for that to make sense. wink

Jags
x x

6 Sep 2003

Perhaps Petelhk, sorry Kat, could write a story about it

Oi -Don't drag me into this!
lhk
kat
I might be able to oblige though. Can I use artificial aids?

6 Sep 2003

Heather has written a great piece on tips for men replying to ads

Ditto, Kit has read through it and agrees. (female half of the couple)
Kat says, treat it like a job advert, read the job description, which will detail the essential and desirable criteria. Provide evidence that you have the skills and attributes to meet both, and dont try and bullshit cos you will just look stupid. (male half of the couple)
lhk