hi mistakissa i did put my post in the cafe but moderteors i assume moved it to here i have tried the chat rooms but noone seems to want to talk about this suject do you ? if so please contact me again many thanks louise x
what topic ?? have i missed something as usual??
sorry you guys i was replying to someone and it got posted as a topic duh silly me n yes blonde !! lol i was asking for hints n tips from hotwives of the site mrkissa said i should post in cafe which i did n it got redirected here by mods so if any hotwives out there wanna chat louise is my name im 38 married and interested in being a hotwife and looking for advice
louise xxxx
Go in the kitchen, put some food in the oven for your husband, shut the windows and doors and hey presto - hotwife!
Am not trying to peev anyone... but what does being a hotwife actually entail?
basque and stockings and gloves
ok what would show you were a hotwife then maia???
Hey Maia
Try this as a definition, it's from The Internet College - Louise might be able to comment on its accuracy!
Hotwife, hot wife Defined - A wife who is sexually uninhibited with the freedom and inclination to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men.
From the hotwife's perspective the goal is primarily physical pleasure, especially in being able to regularly reach a climax with different men. She may enjoy the attention of men, the freedom to pursue sexual partners, the excitement associated with new sexual experiences, and, as a married women, the "forbidden" nature of what she's doing.
Although men might not be willing to admit it, according to some sources, fantasizing about men having sex with their wives, and especially having a hotwife, ranks among the top male fantasies.
Although the husband's motivations can be quite varied, and this will be discussed in a subsequent chapter, the husband of the hotwife — often referred to as the cuckold husband (see below) — gets vicarious sexual pleasure from his wife's sexual experiences, or in moving his wife's sexual attitudes from "very restricted" to being sexually liberated enough to regularly enjoy sex with men.
From the prospective of some women being seen as a hotwife means she garners male attention, levels the playing field with respect to younger and more attractive women, makes other women secretly jealous of her freedom; and possibly most importantly, the hotwife may want to experience the sexual freedom that she feels men have enjoyed for centuries.
True hotwives will have largely gotten beyond "what others might think" and in the presence of women may allude to her "hot" sexual experiences.
Although "promiscuous" used to be a negative term, some women now let it be known that they are "woman enough" and sexually liberated enough to regularly meet the sexual needs of more than one man. Since affairs are somewhat common today, to impress some of her women friends she may brag about being regularly pleasured by a well-endowed "stud."
Some women like the feeling of crashing through propriety and propositioning men. Other women, not wanting to be that bold or risk rejection, prefer that their husbands set up their sexual liaisons.