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Hi we are in Lincolnshire and can travel to Norfolk and Cambridge and possibly Leicester/Notts. We have never done any swinging and would really like to get started. We have acquired a very large house recently that has 8 bedrooms so in time we can hold our own parties. For now though we need to know what happens at one, and what is expected.
We are fun to be with, drink only socially prefer a cup of tea actually, and are genuine and sincere. We are non smokers and do not take drugs.
We love sex, and after 35 years of sex together feel ready to explore. Our sex life has always been incredible!
Coming here is fine, but its time consuming. All this idle chit chat we haven't much time for. We would like to be invited to a party and do the chit chat there.
Can someone please ask us to join their party? As many couples there as possible would be wonderful plus single women of course. My husband is an incredible lover, has a very large cock and his staying power is awesome and he enjoys giving oral.
I love recieving oral and giving too. Plus naturally we both enjoy full sex.
I'd be happy to hear from any genuine couples, I sort of feel bi curious, breasts fascinate me, and I'd love to fondle and suck some but haven't since I was a baby!
Please send mail to our mailbox, because finding my way around here is still a chore.
Just joined today you see.
Hope couples can help get us started, we are eager to do so.
Thank you.
Shnukz2 x
Welcome
Best advice I can give is to pop in the chatrooms for a few minutes or so once or twice a week - I recommend for you server 3 which has a lincs room and a norfolk/suffolk room open every night, say hello to a few that way you get known and party invites may be more forthcoming.
The other thing is to look out for parties advertised on the lets meet up thread.
The other really brilliant idea is to ask to come to a social and that way it's possible to end up with further opportunities, plus you get known and trust me
even if nothing appears that night, news of genuine people does get around fast.
Click here for an example of one to come to in the very near future.
Hope this helps and hope to have a cup of tea with you at a social soon.
Regards
Harry Jones
Hi. And :welcome: to the forums.
My advice to any new person to the site is that SH is very much a get-out-of-it-what-you-put-in kinda place. I'm not sure what you expect after only one day of membership, but "idle chat" isn't really idle... posting in the forums, chatting in the chatrooms (especially your local ones,) signing up to go to any munches or socials - all of these things may look like idle chat, but in fact they are great ways to meet people.
I am not a couple. I am, however, a single member who has had a number of very successful meets with people off this site. It takes time. People aren't likely to invite you to things without getting to know you a bit first.
Just my opinion of course. But stick around in the forums. Read some threads. Have a look at the adverts. Reply to some. Post one yourselves. Make sure you have a full, frank and preferably funny profile.
All of this increases your chances of meeting people.
Have fun - good luck and be patient!
Nola x
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Welcome
Best advice I can give is to pop in the chatrooms for a few minutes or so once or twice a week - I recommend for you server 3 which has a lincs room and a norfolk/suffolk room open every night, say hello to a few that way you get known and party invites may be more forthcoming.
The other thing is to look out for parties advertised on the lets meet up thread.
The other really brilliant idea is to ask to come to a social and that way it's possible to end up with further opportunities, plus you get known and trust me
even if nothing appears that night, news of genuine people does get around fast.
Click here for an example of one to come to in the very near future.
Hope this helps and hope to have a cup of tea with you at a social soon.
Regards
Harry Jones

just follow harry he finds all the right places to go lol
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just follow harry he finds all the right places to go lol

Hey twos been a while since we were at a social together.
To follow me they have to meet me for a cup of tea first.
Not showing off but had they joined a couple of months back I could probably have had them at a party by now wink
Regards
Harry Jones
Welcome to the madhouse - Just don't follow Harry too far - you might end up in the middle of a forest. Seriously tho' what everyone has said is spot-on. We've organised and been to a number of meets and socials around the Anglia region and nothing happens overnight but we've built up a great core of very good mates (some of whom we play with, some just good drinking buddies) Stick your toes in the water of the chatrooms and you'll be made welcome - sometimes things seem a bit 'cliquey' but just look on it as poking your nose round the door of a new pub and you won't go far wrong.
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Welcome to the madhouse - Just don't follow Harry too far - you might end up in the middle of a forest...some just good drinking buddies...sometimes things seem a bit 'cliquey' but just look on it as poking your nose round the door of a new pub and you won't go far wrong.

Ha Ha....I'll resist any comments on your longevity as a drinking buddy (sorry m8 :lol2: )..and beautifully put.
Regards
Harry Jones
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Welcome to the madhouse - Just don't follow Harry too far - you might end up in the middle of a forest...some just good drinking buddies...sometimes things seem a bit 'cliquey' but just look on it as poking your nose round the door of a new pub and you won't go far wrong.

Ha Ha....I'll resist any comments on your longevity as a drinking buddy (sorry m8 :lol2: )..and beautifully put.
Regards
Harry Jones
What has Harry got that nobody else has :!:
He's like the proverbial Scarlet Pimpernel :!: :!: :!: biggrin
Seriously though...good advice from all above.
:welcome: to :swingingchair: