Have been around for awhile, reading many posts, e- mailing to several females but so far no luck.
I am a single male over 50 and looking for fun with single ladies, in the southeast, with my own accommodation and transport.
Any single ladies out there?
Can old members advise me where I go wrong?
Thank you.
wiz57
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Sex God
Look at your post count and what you are actually asking, then work it out for yourself 
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Cal me thick (as I am new to this board) but I would appreciate a straigt simple advise.
Thank you
wiz
Post more. Simple enough?
Mal
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Post more. Simple enough?
Mal
:wink
Thank you mal
It would be nice, I think, if us newbies were made to feel welcome by the old members and more patient was shown, instead of cryptic replies and sarcastic comments.
How else are we going to learn?
Thank you again
wiz
Cryptic replies and sarcastic comments? More patience? Welcomed by the older members? Take take take! How many newbies do you think join this site? To save people coming on here and being lost we have taken the time and effort to give loads of tips and advice on pretty much all aspects of what you get out of this Site. All YOU have to do is be bothered to read them and stop whinging at us. That's how you are going to learn. And perhaps develop a sense of humour might help.
Mal
Sex God
Changing your avatar is also a good way for you not to get de-activated.... do it NOW Wiz57 
Wiz,
Quite simply it takes time and sometimes a bit of imagination. Any responses to ads you make needs to stand out from the usual garbage that most women receive.
Also, despite the perception being a 'sex for nothing' site - try not to be too up front, which appears as arrogance when replying. There are 100's og guys replying to every ad, make sure you are being reliastic and that you meet any criteria, otherwise you are wasting your time and theirs - which helps no-one.
Finally, if you do get a positive response, follow it through and if it isn't what you want, remain polite and say no thanks - prove how genuine you are.
T
Quite simply it takes time and sometimes a bit of imagination. Any responses to ads you make needs to stand out from the usual garbage that most women receive.
Also, despite the perception being a 'sex for nothing' site - try not to be too up front, which appears as arrogance when replying. There are 100's og guys replying to every ad, make sure you are being reliastic and that you meet any criteria, otherwise you are wasting your time and theirs - which helps no-one.
Finally, if you do get a positive response, follow it through and if it isn't what you want, remain polite and say no thanks - prove how genuine you are.
T
I am also a newbie, but if i could say one thing it would be to slim down your advert. It is long and sounds slightly clinical, i dont think women need to know how extended foreplay leads to a better orgasm (i think they already know that), i've had some good advice on here after a few balls ups, lol, and i would go with the friendly approach, and just try to get yourself known first.
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I am also a newbie, but if i could say one thing it would be to slim down your advert. It is long and sounds slightly clinical, i dont think women need to know how extended foreplay leads to a better orgasm (i think they already know that), i've had some good advice on here after a few balls ups, lol, and i would go with the friendly approach, and just try to get yourself known first.
The chatroom is also a good way of getting yourself known fairly quickly.......but read the rules before you enter please
Orgasminator
Aye, and as a single male you must turn up 
Orgasminator
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:roll: Thanks everybody for all your comments and good advise.
I will have patients and try to make mself know, as you suggest and I expect soon I will get an invitation or e-mail from te right person.
So far I got four e-mails but were all from prostitutes.......but just now I got one from a very sensible, good looking lady, so I am off to reply to her.
Wiz57
I will have patients and try to make mself know, as you suggest and I expect soon I will get an invitation or e-mail from te right person.
So far I got four e-mails but were all from prostitutes.......but just now I got one from a very sensible, good looking lady, so I am off to reply to her.
Wiz57
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If the emails from prostitutes were from responses to your ad on here, can you let us mods know who they were and there email addresses? We can then take action against them if they are registered.
Mal
It would also be helpful if you can let us have copies of the emails.
Mal
It would also be helpful if you can let us have copies of the emails.
