I'm a single male looking to get a group of good looking men ages 25 - 35, to help me satisfy all these women who want to try group sex.
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I want to make a group of men up to satisfy all these women
Sex God
Who exactly are "these" women?
Sex God
I admire your optimism, cos with an approach like that I reckon they will be miles away by now..... 
No, he's right. They are out there. Here, even. I'm in the wrong place to take advantage of this gentleman's arrangements but it it is really difficult for a single lady who wants to meet a few men - just men - to find an opportunity.
We get a hundred offers from single males who will 'bring a mate' (yeah right). And we can attach ourselves to a couple. But the gang bang? Few and far between. I've been on SH and another site for a while now and have had one - count it - encounter of that nature outside clubs. One.
Jezzay
We get a hundred offers from single males who will 'bring a mate' (yeah right). And we can attach ourselves to a couple. But the gang bang? Few and far between. I've been on SH and another site for a while now and have had one - count it - encounter of that nature outside clubs. One.
Jezzay
I agree with Jezzay. I'm 35 and still searching...its not the easiest thing to organise or get into without putting your life, or reputation, in jeopardy, and yet for as long as i can remember i have wanted to be left in a room with a bunch of horny guys. . . .
boxter is optimistic, yes, but so am i - bring it on .
boxter is optimistic, yes, but so am i - bring it on .
It's difficult enough as it is to get a bunch of guys together for a private 'gang bang'. For whatever reason a lot of guys just don't like the idea and getting a group of just 4, 5 or 6 together can be you get obvious questions about the girl's age, size, location and expectations.
It gets even more difficult when the girl starts looking for her 'fantasy gangbang' and not only wants 10-12 guys but also starts throwing in other stipulations.............must see a pic first to see if they're my type, must be under 35, no beards, must be vwe, must be slim, don't like hairy chests, etc etc etc.
I don't think we've managed to arrange a successful one of these yet and a few have tried.
Steve
It gets even more difficult when the girl starts looking for her 'fantasy gangbang' and not only wants 10-12 guys but also starts throwing in other stipulations.............must see a pic first to see if they're my type, must be under 35, no beards, must be vwe, must be slim, don't like hairy chests, etc etc etc.
I don't think we've managed to arrange a successful one of these yet and a few have tried.
Steve
Absolutely agree with Steve-G
Have arranged maybe ten such situations over the last year or two -
Getting enough guys who will
1. commit to the same time and place
2. actually show up
3. actually get at it when they show
4. cope with being in a room full of geezers with their kecks off and a hardon
5. rememeber that the point of the exercise is the pleasure of the lady in question
is bloody difficult - - -
and if any of 'em are under about 30 - forget it -
thank heavens too for old george from dover - 66 years of age, fit and keen, polite and gentlemanly, shows up on time and buys beer - plus, so well hung that it usually gets a round of applause from the rest of the guys
tkh
ps - please fellas, no requests to join in
Have arranged maybe ten such situations over the last year or two -
Getting enough guys who will
1. commit to the same time and place
2. actually show up
3. actually get at it when they show
4. cope with being in a room full of geezers with their kecks off and a hardon
5. rememeber that the point of the exercise is the pleasure of the lady in question
is bloody difficult - - -
and if any of 'em are under about 30 - forget it -
thank heavens too for old george from dover - 66 years of age, fit and keen, polite and gentlemanly, shows up on time and buys beer - plus, so well hung that it usually gets a round of applause from the rest of the guys
tkh
ps - please fellas, no requests to join in
Mod
I've been to two recently, which had one lady and several guys. It was ok, but not brilliant. Male fantasy, I know, but there are lots of things I would get more enjoyment from, so it's not top of my list to repeat.
Mal
Mal
interesting hearing what the guys have to say about it. I would not be unrealistic enough to be fussy - more important for me would be that the guys were just decent, horny and willing; who i could feel safe to get out of control with. i still live in hope.... and always get what i want...eventually 
Sex God
I've only ever done GBs and the like in clubs. I've thought about arranging one, but never done it cos it would be too much haasle for probably little result (due to timewasters etc). That is why when I want a group of guys I always go to a club.
I think Boxter is dreaming cos if anyone (female or male) wants to be the centre of a GB surely they wouldn't let a stranger organise it for them.... maybe they would, who knows, but certainly not one who sounds so flippant about the whole thing. If I ever did arrange one I would do it myself, or assist the help of trustworthy friends.
It's a shame. I love the idea of GBs, both taking part in and watching, but really good ones are few and far between.... sadly
I think Boxter is dreaming cos if anyone (female or male) wants to be the centre of a GB surely they wouldn't let a stranger organise it for them.... maybe they would, who knows, but certainly not one who sounds so flippant about the whole thing. If I ever did arrange one I would do it myself, or assist the help of trustworthy friends.
It's a shame. I love the idea of GBs, both taking part in and watching, but really good ones are few and far between.... sadly
Quote by mal609
I've been to two recently, which had one lady and several guys. It was ok, but not brilliant. Male fantasy, I know, but there are lots of things I would get more enjoyment from, so it's not top of my list to repeat.
Mal
Got to agree with Mal on this. A lot of girls probably think "I'm a woman, if I'm prepared to 'put out' then you lot should be prepared to jump through hoops to get to me" but it can be a lot of effort from the guy's point of view with very little reward. It might not be as bad if you're in a group of friends or with people you know because you can then have a laugh for the evening. If it's a room full of strangers though and not very local you're faced with the prospect of:
1. Arranging a mutually convenient time/place.
2. A couple of hours drive there.
3. Spending a couple of hours jostling with a bunch of complete strangers that are all naked and all trying to get themselves into a prime position to be next in line.
4. Maybe having to fork out for accommodation for the night.
5. A two hour drive home.
6. Having to fill the car up with fuel again.
Trying to be too selective under those circumstances is being unrealistic.
Steve
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Sex God
Indeed, good points made Mal and Steve....
I think a lot of guys would certainly feel the same. However, some people do like that atmosphere of being in a group waiting for the attention of one person. I think that type of guy has to be very voyeuristic, and not shy at performing in front of others. Anyone new or a bit nervous about all this swinging lark would probably find a GB a nightmare! I think guys who really enjoy GBs, rather than just going along to get laid (yes there is a difference between the two) are relatively few, certainly in the minority of swingers. When in a group situation, it is the ones who really ENJOY the situation are the ones who make the best shags by far.... it's easy to spot the ones who just want to cum.
In arranging something like this, I imagine it would be very difficult to tell the ones who really enjoy it just by reading replies to emails. One reason why I'm not even going there!
I think a lot of guys would certainly feel the same. However, some people do like that atmosphere of being in a group waiting for the attention of one person. I think that type of guy has to be very voyeuristic, and not shy at performing in front of others. Anyone new or a bit nervous about all this swinging lark would probably find a GB a nightmare! I think guys who really enjoy GBs, rather than just going along to get laid (yes there is a difference between the two) are relatively few, certainly in the minority of swingers. When in a group situation, it is the ones who really ENJOY the situation are the ones who make the best shags by far.... it's easy to spot the ones who just want to cum.
In arranging something like this, I imagine it would be very difficult to tell the ones who really enjoy it just by reading replies to emails. One reason why I'm not even going there!
i guess the ideal situation is for a group of likeminded guys with all the above qualities to get to know each other over time, do sum bonding if u like, meeting for mad nites out etc, then when they are ready they approach the women they have been having sexy, regular contact, and who they feel are also genuinely up for it, and comfortable with it - excited by it, of course..... Nerves all round of course but thats inevitable and part of the fun. i like to think theres potential. Or maybe i just watch too much bloody TV and think life is one big ITV drama with happy endings!!! what does boxter think about all this i wonder. he's kept a bit quiet.... 
Mod
He'll be getting his homework finished for school in the morning!!
Mal
Mal
Mod
Quote by SunBunny
nothing wrong with young blood - long as they're keen ! :lickface:
and legal!! :shock:
Sex God
Hi all,
Read all with interest, and may have a solution for you SunBunny. It was what Bluexxx said about the Clubs. It is possible to meet other single guys there, and to see what turns them on, then we could do the male bonding bit there and then venture out.
I'll see what I can do.
The ugly duckling
John
xx
Read all with interest, and may have a solution for you SunBunny. It was what Bluexxx said about the Clubs. It is possible to meet other single guys there, and to see what turns them on, then we could do the male bonding bit there and then venture out.
I'll see what I can do.
The ugly duckling
John
xx
My one and only was with an established group of men who knew exactly how to behave and what to do. I think I was standing in for the lady around whom it normally revolves. I wrote this email to a friend immedieately after. And it's all true. Only the names have been changed to protect the guilty.
It was late morning. I was deep in professional discussion with three (male) colleagues. "Dring dring " .."Yes she's here. I'll hand you over. Who shall I say is calling? Jez, it's David." "Thanks. Hi David." "Hi. Are you still OK for this afternoon? I think I have 5 men." "That sounds rather a lot. But yes. Matthew is picking me up at quarter to one. See you later.... I still think my solution will work."
At the hotel David, a teacher in a local comprehensive, is stressed out, over-concerned I think with the hotel's take on our activities. "You are my sister from Birmingham, right, and need the room early to meet with these other people." Three of us go to the room which makes David happy but the maid wants to hoover. "No it's all right. It's fine. This is my sister from Birmingham. There will be some other men later." I think this is definitely too much information for the maid. "This is for you" says David and gives me a box of chocolates. I am strangely touched. (I am more strangely touched later on!) The men arrive. One is new to the group but as he enters Matthew says "Yo Richard. How are you? It's OK. This won't go outside these four walls." Richard says very little. Two more men have arrived and are in the car park. David opens the window and waves two bi-coloured flags at them in a variety of positions. Well I'm sure he would have done in the days before the mobile phone. There are quiet discussions, agreements. I can do this.
And so I do. I start with David and Matthew trying hard to ignore the light buzz of mundane conversation continuing in the background, vaguely aware of these other men watching, appraising, undressing. I just hope they won't start discussing the plight of Newcastle United or anything else I would find seriously distracting. But soon I am out of it. This is so delicious. Gradually Mr Chips invites the rest of the group to join in and every erogenous zone I possess is being paid attention to. I soon have no idea whose wotsit is where and care less. Mr Chips orchestrates the procedure quietly - "You could move in now - Perhaps you could try hands and knees." I see a man extraordinarily competent in the construction of flat-pack furniture. I am having so much fun. Bibbety-beep bibbety-beep. "What is that!" "A mobile." "Not mine." "Who's left their mobile on?" Mr Chips is demanding an answer and suddenly realises it's his and within milliseconds, being reasonably bright, realises he has a problem as his member is a reasonably long way down my throat. "If somebody could just...."
We reach the penetrative stage and I realise I have a dilemma. I want to come but it's complicated. When? How do I decide? Matthew. He has been my faithful guide. But it doesn't happen. Bob, the cuddly one in the woolly jumper who makes me laugh. That's the one. It seems we come together - words can't describe... But as we subside into post-coital ecstasy we both overhear "Did you flush yours down the toilet?" and I collapse into post-coital giggles instead. Only one to go. People are gathering themselves, dressing. Someone says it's a nice way to spend lunchtime and Woolly Jumper says "Beats a sandwich." This isn't helping me. Look, I'm still going here! "Got much work on at the moment?" "Yes, it's good. I've been given this package that works with Excel..." but I stay true to course. All shall be satisfied. Mr Chips : "Do you have a problem there Richard? You might like to try..." Richard and I are trying very very hard but there is a knock at the door. "Yes?". "I need to deliver your new Yellow Pages." No, it's hopeless. I totally lose it. It is impossible to blow anything when you are prostrate with laughter as I discovered years ago dueting on clarinet with my Mum on piano.
It is over. I have had so much fun. I walk out into the real world feeling surprisingly ordinary, take the bus home and read the evening paper, eating chocolates.
Jezzay
It was late morning. I was deep in professional discussion with three (male) colleagues. "Dring dring " .."Yes she's here. I'll hand you over. Who shall I say is calling? Jez, it's David." "Thanks. Hi David." "Hi. Are you still OK for this afternoon? I think I have 5 men." "That sounds rather a lot. But yes. Matthew is picking me up at quarter to one. See you later.... I still think my solution will work."
At the hotel David, a teacher in a local comprehensive, is stressed out, over-concerned I think with the hotel's take on our activities. "You are my sister from Birmingham, right, and need the room early to meet with these other people." Three of us go to the room which makes David happy but the maid wants to hoover. "No it's all right. It's fine. This is my sister from Birmingham. There will be some other men later." I think this is definitely too much information for the maid. "This is for you" says David and gives me a box of chocolates. I am strangely touched. (I am more strangely touched later on!) The men arrive. One is new to the group but as he enters Matthew says "Yo Richard. How are you? It's OK. This won't go outside these four walls." Richard says very little. Two more men have arrived and are in the car park. David opens the window and waves two bi-coloured flags at them in a variety of positions. Well I'm sure he would have done in the days before the mobile phone. There are quiet discussions, agreements. I can do this.
And so I do. I start with David and Matthew trying hard to ignore the light buzz of mundane conversation continuing in the background, vaguely aware of these other men watching, appraising, undressing. I just hope they won't start discussing the plight of Newcastle United or anything else I would find seriously distracting. But soon I am out of it. This is so delicious. Gradually Mr Chips invites the rest of the group to join in and every erogenous zone I possess is being paid attention to. I soon have no idea whose wotsit is where and care less. Mr Chips orchestrates the procedure quietly - "You could move in now - Perhaps you could try hands and knees." I see a man extraordinarily competent in the construction of flat-pack furniture. I am having so much fun. Bibbety-beep bibbety-beep. "What is that!" "A mobile." "Not mine." "Who's left their mobile on?" Mr Chips is demanding an answer and suddenly realises it's his and within milliseconds, being reasonably bright, realises he has a problem as his member is a reasonably long way down my throat. "If somebody could just...."
We reach the penetrative stage and I realise I have a dilemma. I want to come but it's complicated. When? How do I decide? Matthew. He has been my faithful guide. But it doesn't happen. Bob, the cuddly one in the woolly jumper who makes me laugh. That's the one. It seems we come together - words can't describe... But as we subside into post-coital ecstasy we both overhear "Did you flush yours down the toilet?" and I collapse into post-coital giggles instead. Only one to go. People are gathering themselves, dressing. Someone says it's a nice way to spend lunchtime and Woolly Jumper says "Beats a sandwich." This isn't helping me. Look, I'm still going here! "Got much work on at the moment?" "Yes, it's good. I've been given this package that works with Excel..." but I stay true to course. All shall be satisfied. Mr Chips : "Do you have a problem there Richard? You might like to try..." Richard and I are trying very very hard but there is a knock at the door. "Yes?". "I need to deliver your new Yellow Pages." No, it's hopeless. I totally lose it. It is impossible to blow anything when you are prostrate with laughter as I discovered years ago dueting on clarinet with my Mum on piano.
It is over. I have had so much fun. I walk out into the real world feeling surprisingly ordinary, take the bus home and read the evening paper, eating chocolates.
Jezzay
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: I have 2 say this is definitely one of the most interesting posts i have read 4 quite a while,.
I agree and disagree with a lot of things u guys said.
Steve and mal maid very valuable points. i had arranged a gb with a very attractive lady untill she started with i want 8 guys which was ok but i want pics of all of them face and cock pics. no hairy chests and want all over 8 inches.
I kid u not!!!!!
I have a group of friends that i play football with theres about 8 of us,we have all known each other between 10 and 13 years. bearing in mind we have grown up 2gether we have showered after football and all seen each other naked. we r all between the age of 21 and 25 so this shows not all of us youngsters are that immature and unrealistic. While playing 4 a semi pro footy team about 2 years ago we won the cup and had a supporters wife sneak in 2 the changing room where it was just 5 of us left getting changed, we took it in turns 2 be sucked fucked and fill every hole. The banter that went around that room was incredible as we all tried to impress the older 2 say she stayed are biggest fan and comes 2 watch us most home games. lol
This however made us realise that a gb really could be fun.
Since then we have repeated this many times with 2 women at once.
once with a lady while her hubby recorded it.
We stick 2 the same group of 5 of us but have tried it a few times with a few other friends, we have all agreed that we are better as a 5sum.
This is very genuine i kid u not.
The moral of my story is that wen considering a gb my advise is 2 stick with a group of guys that get on with each other and have a small competetiveness between them this gets rid of the "i just wana cum" other tip possibly try 2 take the attention away from it being a gb and create a role play 2 go with the evening this can make it more than just sex and actually fun!
Wen playing with strangers outside a club it could end up ugly.
Thanks 4 reading and happy searching.
Oh and there definitely are ladies out there that r up 4 a well organised fun night.
I agree and disagree with a lot of things u guys said.
Steve and mal maid very valuable points. i had arranged a gb with a very attractive lady untill she started with i want 8 guys which was ok but i want pics of all of them face and cock pics. no hairy chests and want all over 8 inches.
I kid u not!!!!!
I have a group of friends that i play football with theres about 8 of us,we have all known each other between 10 and 13 years. bearing in mind we have grown up 2gether we have showered after football and all seen each other naked. we r all between the age of 21 and 25 so this shows not all of us youngsters are that immature and unrealistic. While playing 4 a semi pro footy team about 2 years ago we won the cup and had a supporters wife sneak in 2 the changing room where it was just 5 of us left getting changed, we took it in turns 2 be sucked fucked and fill every hole. The banter that went around that room was incredible as we all tried to impress the older 2 say she stayed are biggest fan and comes 2 watch us most home games. lol
This however made us realise that a gb really could be fun.
Since then we have repeated this many times with 2 women at once.
once with a lady while her hubby recorded it.
We stick 2 the same group of 5 of us but have tried it a few times with a few other friends, we have all agreed that we are better as a 5sum.
This is very genuine i kid u not.
The moral of my story is that wen considering a gb my advise is 2 stick with a group of guys that get on with each other and have a small competetiveness between them this gets rid of the "i just wana cum" other tip possibly try 2 take the attention away from it being a gb and create a role play 2 go with the evening this can make it more than just sex and actually fun!
Wen playing with strangers outside a club it could end up ugly.
Thanks 4 reading and happy searching.
Oh and there definitely are ladies out there that r up 4 a well organised fun night.
I've done these before, and met a couple of girls who have, but in my experience they only ever work if the girl organises it herself and chooses the men who will be involved, and vets them carefully.
I'm sure it's a big male fantasy to organise a group of mates who will go round "servicing" women - but I wouldn't want to be the woman!
I'm surprised on here that we haven't heard from more groups who have done this successfully or more ladies who've organised one. Gangbangs are quite common, or used to be. It's not hard to get fucked by a group of guys at a club or party, I've done that a few times, get them to line up for it.
Or maybe they just don't want to post about it.
Rachel
I'm sure it's a big male fantasy to organise a group of mates who will go round "servicing" women - but I wouldn't want to be the woman!
I'm surprised on here that we haven't heard from more groups who have done this successfully or more ladies who've organised one. Gangbangs are quite common, or used to be. It's not hard to get fucked by a group of guys at a club or party, I've done that a few times, get them to line up for it.
Or maybe they just don't want to post about it.
Rachel
