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Quote by Ch33k3y monk3h
especially at this time of night but anybody in the fife area St. Andrews preferably want any fun. I know i havnt much chance but if u dont try u dont get. I know there is like a clique on this website and hope one day I will be honoured enough to join it.
Take that chip off your shoulder then there is a good chance that you will!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Quote by Ch33k3y monk3h
especially at this time of night but anybody in the fife area St. Andrews preferably want any fun. I know i havnt much chance but if u dont try u dont get. I know there is like a clique on this website and hope one day I will be honoured enough to join it.
What is it with these bluddy cliques ....... instead of calling it that, how about you look at things from someone elses side of the fence eh?
I've posted similar before, but here goes again ......
My Choices
1) They've not been a member for long, barely done any posts, I don't know anything about them personally. Both people are running a high risk of one of em not turning up at all, not to mention how I would be very wary about my safety - I would be worried about backing out of something sexual if I wasn't comfortable - what would the reaction be? At the very least, worried I would be derided and accused of being a timewaster etc. Being me tho, I would be more concerned about being found 5 days later in a ditch somewhere!
2) Meet someone from here that I have got to know, not met face to face as yet, but enjoyed their posts, got on well with, seen how they interract with others etc .......... but we still don't know if we would click sexually. I hope, that this situation tho, neither party would be offended if things didn't go any further, we would still have a great time socially.
3) Meet someone from here that I have got to know, enjoyed their posts, met them at SH social events and already felt that sexual spark then. Both of us would be pretty confident that when we did meet alone that we would get on great, the sexual chemistry would be there and a great time would be had all round ........ not only that, but both beforehand and afterwards, we know we would get on brilliantly, have a laugh etc ... all in all it makes for a superb day/night out!!!
I have kids, I don't get much time out at all ........ it all seems so logical when you take a look from the other side of the fence don't you think?
So my advice to you would be to let people get to know you, join in with things - if you are not prepared to meet people as friends, get to know them first etc, then I'm afraid you're gonna be very disappointed - it is just too dangerous for people to meet without knowing a thing about them - in my opinion anyway
To most people, it's all about having fun - seeing posts from people moaning about how they are not enjoying themselves and blaming everyone else instead of trying to do something about it themselves does not endear people to them.
Good luck
