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after hours of emails etc etc we,ve now made arrangements to meet 8 times but "no shows" do the majority just get off on the emails and pics? (we,re not knocking it<s>) but it is aggravating to drive miles for people who do not intend turning up and one who replied to our post yesterday for an evening meet turned positively furious when we did,nt like his pic<s> Anyway we,re out tonight or wednesday depending on who,s interested. We don,t want gangs just 1 or 2 is fine Kent/sussex area. Our ads in the above category because its less busy saves our mailbox.
We do think that once (if ever) we manage to actually meet someone we may have more success on here because you,ll see we,re not just another guy with a scanner. Meanwhile if at first you don,t succeed pull your foreskin o,er your heed
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IS IT US?EVERYONE SHOULD READ THIS<s>
Hi,
I'm Ghostie - I was the male partner of "Him_and_her" until recently. I class myself as a genuine, intelligent, swinger!
But even as a single male now, I've been messed around by timewasters, fake "females" and photo collectors (although God only knows why anyone would want to collect pics of me!).
I think it's just the product of a sick mind, or maybe just a bunch of giggling wannabes. Thankfully there are genuine couples, fems and singles out there - I've met quite few and I love 'em all! Keep on going and you'll get through the dross and find a diamond or two..
best wishes,
Ghostie (44217)
I'm Ghostie - I was the male partner of "Him_and_her" until recently. I class myself as a genuine, intelligent, swinger!
But even as a single male now, I've been messed around by timewasters, fake "females" and photo collectors (although God only knows why anyone would want to collect pics of me!).
I think it's just the product of a sick mind, or maybe just a bunch of giggling wannabes. Thankfully there are genuine couples, fems and singles out there - I've met quite few and I love 'em all! Keep on going and you'll get through the dross and find a diamond or two..
best wishes,
Ghostie (44217)
I am the one who "one who turned positivly furrios " when they did not like my pic, names steve by the way. Furrious is a bit strong ! i mearly pointed out that when after a good response and getting along fine sending 5 emails and 3 pm's and 3 pics Liz decided she was to "nervous" of big well built blokes ( i weigh 11 stone) when i pointed this out they said they were fixed up for tonight (last night) and if i did not believe them "I COULD READ ALL ABOUT IT ON THE FORUM TONIGHT" well i'm still waiting Mick and liz as for your topic "IS IT US" well i ask every one to draw there own conclusions !! another saddo i suspect well thats enough for now and if you care to to dispute it SINGLE MICK iwill glady post all last nights correspondence be named and shamed so a message to everyone don't waste yourtime with this one !!
regards steve
regards steve
Hi Steve,
liz is naturally petite fragile and delicate in all ways and so does not like to offend or embarrass so when she did,nt like your looks she tried to painlessly extricate you both from embarrass. We,re new here and don,t like to offend so if it would have been best to reply no way you ugly git then we,re sorry but your attitude is appalling and therres no way we,d want to meet such a short tempered person who thinks they have the right to DEMAND anything they want because they sent a pic so moan and complain as much as you like but anything was possible until the pic take the trouble to get a decent one plus some stress management and you,d do okay
Good Luck to you Mr Angry
liz is naturally petite fragile and delicate in all ways and so does not like to offend or embarrass so when she did,nt like your looks she tried to painlessly extricate you both from embarrass. We,re new here and don,t like to offend so if it would have been best to reply no way you ugly git then we,re sorry but your attitude is appalling and therres no way we,d want to meet such a short tempered person who thinks they have the right to DEMAND anything they want because they sent a pic so moan and complain as much as you like but anything was possible until the pic take the trouble to get a decent one plus some stress management and you,d do okay
Good Luck to you Mr Angry
my case rests, you,ve not met any one yet single blokes with internet pics of women normally don't £10 to the first person who has a meet with mick & mick!! and can prove it on the board it goes up by £10 per week i am a man of my word will pay by nochex or pay pal you want to bet Mick & Mick i think not your call.
steve
steve
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ad 49212 after hours of emails etc etc we,ve now made arrangements to meet 8 times but "no shows"
My Web site have been viewed 23,000 time, I have arranged to meet 100's of people and I can say that fewer than 50 people have botherd to turn up, on the odd occasion I have had to call it off at the last moment due to heath problems.
So as you see more of us are in the same boat.
Sex God
Mick & Liz and Stve123, I don't know who's genuine and who isn't but you've both made your point publicly that you're pissed off with each other. I'm sure others don't want to read you bitching at each other, so could you take it to PM please?
I'm not locking the thread at the mo as some of the points being made are very very true. I'm sick of the amount of people who contact me, some who obviously have no intent of meeting, they just want more pics than are currently on my www. Others I think, have a fantasy about the type of thing we put on our www but when they get the go ahead they bottle it. Of course life sometimes gets in the way of making good plans, it happened to us yesterday with our car dying (cheers to our driver last night :mrgreen: ), but genuinely genuine people go out of their way to limit the amount of hassle they cause when plans change. I've been doing internet meeting for some years now and I really do think the timewasting problem is getting worse.... sadly :cry:
I'm not locking the thread at the mo as some of the points being made are very very true. I'm sick of the amount of people who contact me, some who obviously have no intent of meeting, they just want more pics than are currently on my www. Others I think, have a fantasy about the type of thing we put on our www but when they get the go ahead they bottle it. Of course life sometimes gets in the way of making good plans, it happened to us yesterday with our car dying (cheers to our driver last night :mrgreen: ), but genuinely genuine people go out of their way to limit the amount of hassle they cause when plans change. I've been doing internet meeting for some years now and I really do think the timewasting problem is getting worse.... sadly :cry:
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Good ere innit?
It's good anywhere, if you can get it!!!!!
Mal
I agree with bluexxx....
Ok things did not work out...this is life. Christ knows we have all either seen this happen/heard it happen and the likes? I am not failing in this department, and have recently been very badly behaved, and slapped my own hand and face. It is so easy to get things wrong, or to feel things that you get ahead of?
Kiss and make up, send a public message and say quits?
You are ALL better than this, and making love is surely better than making war? You never know, further down the road, you may well change your minds???
Go on, kiss and make up...accept 50/50 and do not be brooding on bets and the likes...ok...
Please???
Ok things did not work out...this is life. Christ knows we have all either seen this happen/heard it happen and the likes? I am not failing in this department, and have recently been very badly behaved, and slapped my own hand and face. It is so easy to get things wrong, or to feel things that you get ahead of?
Kiss and make up, send a public message and say quits?
You are ALL better than this, and making love is surely better than making war? You never know, further down the road, you may well change your minds???
Go on, kiss and make up...accept 50/50 and do not be brooding on bets and the likes...ok...
Please???
Hi All....
I only joined this site yesterday, but have found it to be excellent and will be spending quite some time trying to catch up with all the stuff on here...
Thing is, I used to be a member of another 'Internet Community' .. that too became plagued with No Show Meets and Picture Hunters, it all statred just after the kind and generous Mr Bill Gates shut down MSN Chat ... is that just a coincidence or what ???
Kris
I only joined this site yesterday, but have found it to be excellent and will be spending quite some time trying to catch up with all the stuff on here...
Thing is, I used to be a member of another 'Internet Community' .. that too became plagued with No Show Meets and Picture Hunters, it all statred just after the kind and generous Mr Bill Gates shut down MSN Chat ... is that just a coincidence or what ???
Kris
You've all made me so happy. My ad (single, mature lady looking for group fun) has led me down so many blind alleys that I was starting to take it personally but I am not alone! It's wonderful.
Sooner or later the genuine people will find each other, I am sure. (You see, I'm an old romantic at heart.)
So last night I had trouble getting to sleep thinking why I haven't been succesful but tonight I shall have trouble sleeping trying to think of a solution to the time-waster problem.
And by the way, maybe, just maybe, this Thursday it's going to happen for me. If the guy I've met is genuine and if the lady from the group is happy that I have not misrepresented myself as has happened to her before. So you see people are hesitant and change their minds now because they have had their fingers burned in the past.
Jezzay
Sooner or later the genuine people will find each other, I am sure. (You see, I'm an old romantic at heart.)
So last night I had trouble getting to sleep thinking why I haven't been succesful but tonight I shall have trouble sleeping trying to think of a solution to the time-waster problem.
And by the way, maybe, just maybe, this Thursday it's going to happen for me. If the guy I've met is genuine and if the lady from the group is happy that I have not misrepresented myself as has happened to her before. So you see people are hesitant and change their minds now because they have had their fingers burned in the past.
Jezzay
Hi all,
I have only just noticed this post but would like to say that I have been in contact with Mick and Liz for a while and I have also seen pics of them together. I have no reason to believe thay are not genuine and I hope to meet with them soon - so lets all move on and have some fun!!! :P
Tang
I have only just noticed this post but would like to say that I have been in contact with Mick and Liz for a while and I have also seen pics of them together. I have no reason to believe thay are not genuine and I hope to meet with them soon - so lets all move on and have some fun!!! :P
Tang
Thanks for that mark it certainly helps us
very much appreciatted
we,re not the type to hold grudges or anything but understandably those that have mailed us about this need never mail us for anything else
and for those who hav,nt
This can be more difficult for a couple than it is for a single guy we reckon
very much appreciatted
we,re not the type to hold grudges or anything but understandably those that have mailed us about this need never mail us for anything else
and for those who hav,nt
This can be more difficult for a couple than it is for a single guy we reckon
mic and liz
I read your letter with interest. I feel like you that there are a tremendous amount of timewasters on this site. They frequently post adverts or in many cases, multiple adverts across this site with no intention of ever having the decency to reply when you take the time out to try and get in touch with them. I can not pin it down to just one type of group either. It can be single men, groups or couples.
When I first found out about this site and joined it, I was full of expectations as to what it may bring, but now I rarely even bother to look at it. It will not be long before I don't bother at all. Okay I am yet another single bi guy who will not be missed as you cannot compete with the hundreds of similar guys on here, but I have tried my hardest to be polite and pleasant.
A disgruntled guy in Wiltshire
I read your letter with interest. I feel like you that there are a tremendous amount of timewasters on this site. They frequently post adverts or in many cases, multiple adverts across this site with no intention of ever having the decency to reply when you take the time out to try and get in touch with them. I can not pin it down to just one type of group either. It can be single men, groups or couples.
When I first found out about this site and joined it, I was full of expectations as to what it may bring, but now I rarely even bother to look at it. It will not be long before I don't bother at all. Okay I am yet another single bi guy who will not be missed as you cannot compete with the hundreds of similar guys on here, but I have tried my hardest to be polite and pleasant.
A disgruntled guy in Wiltshire
Mod
Dear 'Disgruntled' of Wiltshire.
You have been on this site for a month and posted 3 times. Hardly enough for anyone to know anything about you. So many people join this site with a take, take, take attitude and don't contribute anything. I can tell you as fact, not fiction, that those who have patience and contribute, ARE successful. Yes, that includes single guys. If you can't be bothered to do anything, why should anybody contact you.
Your hardest is three posts and one of those a whinge? You're having a laugh!
I'm afraid you wont be missed, because nobody noticed you were here in the first place!
Mal
You have been on this site for a month and posted 3 times. Hardly enough for anyone to know anything about you. So many people join this site with a take, take, take attitude and don't contribute anything. I can tell you as fact, not fiction, that those who have patience and contribute, ARE successful. Yes, that includes single guys. If you can't be bothered to do anything, why should anybody contact you.
It will not be long before I don't bother at all. Okay I am yet another single bi guy who will not be missed as you cannot compete with the hundreds of similar guys on here, but I have tried my hardest to be polite and pleasant.
Your hardest is three posts and one of those a whinge? You're having a laugh!
I'm afraid you wont be missed, because nobody noticed you were here in the first place!
Mal
In fairness to Wiltsguy, it's probable he's been trying to contact people in email through the Photo Ads system and I can well relate to frustrations with making contact through that medium. It's practically impossible.
I wouldn't be sad to see Wiltsguy leave, but that's only because I'm another single guy and I've finally figured out the only route to success is to eliminate all the other single guys from this site. :twisted: Just kidding Wiltsguy; in seriousness I think you just have to remember the old addage:
"Those who can, do. Those who can't, talk about it."
So let's get talking about it.
I wouldn't be sad to see Wiltsguy leave, but that's only because I'm another single guy and I've finally figured out the only route to success is to eliminate all the other single guys from this site. :twisted: Just kidding Wiltsguy; in seriousness I think you just have to remember the old addage:
"Those who can, do. Those who can't, talk about it."
So let's get talking about it.
