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IS THERE ANY HOPE FOR LONE MALES ?
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Welcome to the dark side matey...
Not nice when no one notices you...
( btw using caps in a forum indicates your shouting... & very often its considered rude)
I'm sure you will sit back & accept the many views on your plight from my many learned friends on here.
But I will give you one nugget of insight...
What makes you think you can get an easy leg-over on this site just coz you've paid to join?
Just in the outside community you have to form & build relationships it's the same thing here buddy...
Join in with the banter chill out, get yerself known... let's see your personality!
Sad thing but true... if you don't have a personality in the 'vanilla world outside' you sure wont have one for anyone to see here!
take a load off dude... just chill & have fun!
Not nice when no one notices you...
( btw using caps in a forum indicates your shouting... & very often its considered rude)
I'm sure you will sit back & accept the many views on your plight from my many learned friends on here.
But I will give you one nugget of insight...
What makes you think you can get an easy leg-over on this site just coz you've paid to join?
Just in the outside community you have to form & build relationships it's the same thing here buddy...
Join in with the banter chill out, get yerself known... let's see your personality!
Sad thing but true... if you don't have a personality in the 'vanilla world outside' you sure wont have one for anyone to see here!
take a load off dude... just chill & have fun!
It might be worth pointing out some experience from a single bi-fem who hasn't been here that long but seen enough to know what will and what won't get my attention - or be a total turn off.
I've had insults and abuse in the chatroom for saying no thx, I've had people write back and call me cheeky for saying thx but no thx and even no-shows to planned meets. I've heard some ladies don't even respond when not interested so be grateful for me taking the time to let you know where you stand, even if it's not what you want to hear.
I'm not sure what you're saying to people but let me give you one example I see a lot in the chatrooms - "I live/work in slough" or "I work at Heathrow" - this is from people I don't know and is the first comment to me . What does the person want me to say to that comment? A reply that says "ooh yes please shag me" is soooo not on its way. :shock:
Actually, my choice of who I meet is based on a damn sight more than where you live, for example if I can have a laugh with you and a bit of banter - to tell me this one thing about you is...well, stupid, doesn't show me a personality, no imagination, no cheekiness and doesn't tell me anything about you that makes me want to know you. Or shag you!!
And BTW, the response I give is usally "congratulations". A stupid comment deserves a stupid response.
Have a good attitude and you'll do well. Don't and you won't :mrgreen:
And don't worry mods, I handle the chatroom abuse in my own way - persistent offenders will be reported but my initial handling seems to work very well :lol: And giving some of that chat regulars a good laugh :giggle:
I've had insults and abuse in the chatroom for saying no thx, I've had people write back and call me cheeky for saying thx but no thx and even no-shows to planned meets. I've heard some ladies don't even respond when not interested so be grateful for me taking the time to let you know where you stand, even if it's not what you want to hear.
I'm not sure what you're saying to people but let me give you one example I see a lot in the chatrooms - "I live/work in slough" or "I work at Heathrow" - this is from people I don't know and is the first comment to me . What does the person want me to say to that comment? A reply that says "ooh yes please shag me" is soooo not on its way. :shock:
Actually, my choice of who I meet is based on a damn sight more than where you live, for example if I can have a laugh with you and a bit of banter - to tell me this one thing about you is...well, stupid, doesn't show me a personality, no imagination, no cheekiness and doesn't tell me anything about you that makes me want to know you. Or shag you!!
And BTW, the response I give is usally "congratulations". A stupid comment deserves a stupid response.
Have a good attitude and you'll do well. Don't and you won't :mrgreen:
And don't worry mods, I handle the chatroom abuse in my own way - persistent offenders will be reported but my initial handling seems to work very well :lol: And giving some of that chat regulars a good laugh :giggle:
Warming the Bed
well there are several factors which go against you as asingle guy which ive learned you have to remeber the numbers of guys on here plently to choose from plus you have to have right attitude and your location helps
so does your age your if your over 35 thats abonus in north east more couples want guys in the north east and west than than anywheere else so you just have to put in the time and go to some of the parties etc get to know people i think is the best way
ive been using this site since it started and only met a hand full of poeple
from this site but then ive not attended the parties so unless you go to the parties etc you not giving yourself a chance
goodluck in your search
so does your age your if your over 35 thats abonus in north east more couples want guys in the north east and west than than anywheere else so you just have to put in the time and go to some of the parties etc get to know people i think is the best way
ive been using this site since it started and only met a hand full of poeple
from this site but then ive not attended the parties so unless you go to the parties etc you not giving yourself a chance
goodluck in your search
Sexlightened
I agree ttending parties have a lot more chance of having fun. Like you i have been on this site for long time & seen many things.
From my point view guys do tend to have a harder time. Some this is due to the attuide that this site is about just shagging so you get things like ' Hi i live 10mins away from you let meet up & ' where did the art of conversation go.
I agree with hornyinslough as i have had abuse as well but i must admit not just from guys but also from couples which i was a bit surprised at. I have a life outside this site so this fits in around that.
Your profile is in caps which doesn't help. You have no picture on your profile & also it isn't well written but in your profile you say you have meet people which contradicts what you have said on this post.
From my point view guys do tend to have a harder time. Some this is due to the attuide that this site is about just shagging so you get things like ' Hi i live 10mins away from you let meet up & ' where did the art of conversation go.
I agree with hornyinslough as i have had abuse as well but i must admit not just from guys but also from couples which i was a bit surprised at. I have a life outside this site so this fits in around that.
Your profile is in caps which doesn't help. You have no picture on your profile & also it isn't well written but in your profile you say you have meet people which contradicts what you have said on this post.
