Well i actually did meet up with someone on the site, at the time .. my profile a t the time was advertising myself as into domination (which i am sometimes)
a woman emailed me and we met up after a couple of mails
I had set up a few things and blindfolded her when she came in and we spent the night trying a few bondage related games .. which is something i'm quite into
we met up again ... i tried to get her into trying other things, but she was purely a sub .. whereas i was looking for someone who was interested in both sides of the coin
but yeah ... i think you need to get to know people to progress here
I'm a single guy and for what it's worth I can confirm that yes, this site is real, yes there are real people out there, and yes sometimes we actually do meet up and have fun. I've met some brilliant singles and and couples over the months I've been using this great website.
I understand your frustration but keep at it - if you're replying to contact ads make sure they're not one-liners or cut and paste jobs, but write a personal reply, be polite and attentive to the content of the ad and attached a photo. One with a face usually goes down well - couples and single women have probably seen all the knob pics they will ever want! You will get a lot of knock-backs and non-replies, but persist and the gates of heaven will be opened unto to you my son.
Good luck and get typing
Oh, and if the great couple who I met at Wisley tonight read this - thanks for a fabulous night (you know who you are!!).
The forums and ads don't work.......so the lovely couple we met last night from the ads was just a figment of our imagination,and the couple we are meeting up with again next weekend from the forum don't exist either!!.....welcome to the Twilight Zone!
Well at least I got a reaction in the forum - if not in my PM folder, ah well here's hoping :cry:
In Short Yes.
I have had a few meets from the Ads and a couple off the forum and chatting on IM systems, take your time mate, this is people meeting people the intimate bit will progress naturally when everyone is happy.
The amount of meets I have had in relation to the amount of emails and pics I have sent out is disproportionate but as some have said guys alone are NOT in short supply, but I imagine its the same for all categories on here there is an element of a numbers game about this.
Think "how many bait worms do you use to catch just one fish"
Sit back relax, get to know people and if you are clean discreet and can hold a conversation it will happen.
Well I'm happy to report that I've been back home for about 3 hours or so, and had a truely wonderful day and night
But no people never meet up off this site, all those photos in Recces photo section are all made up, all the thank you threads are all made up as well
No it just never happens
I do agree with all the posts so far, a little imagination really does go a long way, I am sooo still a newbie but have happily made contact with one or two couples and one or two fems, largely through being able to string a sentence togather and injecting some humour into the chat.
How off-putting is the mental image of a frustrated guy hunched over his keyboard typing one handed conjured up by a post like that?
All good things come to he who waits so chill out fellow traveller and enjoy the journey, if it doesn't take a little ffort its not worth having!!!
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