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JUST TURNED 18
There's a difference between someone posting about wanting to arrange something for that night and someone posting saying "Help me I'm a virgin".
I don't think age has anything to do with it either. You'll notice that it doesn't matter if you're 18 or 50, if you post a one liner sounding like someone who hasn't seen a woman in five years you're not likely to get any replies. Well, any positive ones anyway. ;)
I don't think age has anything to do with it either. You'll notice that it doesn't matter if you're 18 or 50, if you post a one liner sounding like someone who hasn't seen a woman in five years you're not likely to get any replies. Well, any positive ones anyway. ;)
Warming the Bed
Well, I'm surprised as the ferocity of some of the responses to this poor chaps post... Especially on a website that prides itself on it's understanding.
This may sound surprising given my 'profession' but in my experience making someone young and impressionable feel bad about something they have done does nothing for their self esteem and certainly in 'TheGreatPatel''s case it sounds as though his lack of experience is as much partly due to his self confidence as it is to do with his maturity.
I've only been lurking around SH for a short while, so for me his comments aren't that irksome, however I can understand people who are old hands at this getting peeved when someone inexperienced posts a 'shag me PLEASE!' type post. You probably get them on here all the time...
But to him, it's his first post, and just like the rest of us were he is probably just looking for guidance.
So, as annoying as it is to see poorly constructed posts such as TGP's I think we should cut the dude some slack, and gently point out the error of his ways...
As for people having issues with young people on here... well, young people are the future of SH... today's spotty 18 year old is tomorrows crossdresser!
This may sound surprising given my 'profession' but in my experience making someone young and impressionable feel bad about something they have done does nothing for their self esteem and certainly in 'TheGreatPatel''s case it sounds as though his lack of experience is as much partly due to his self confidence as it is to do with his maturity.
I've only been lurking around SH for a short while, so for me his comments aren't that irksome, however I can understand people who are old hands at this getting peeved when someone inexperienced posts a 'shag me PLEASE!' type post. You probably get them on here all the time...
But to him, it's his first post, and just like the rest of us were he is probably just looking for guidance.
So, as annoying as it is to see poorly constructed posts such as TGP's I think we should cut the dude some slack, and gently point out the error of his ways...
As for people having issues with young people on here... well, young people are the future of SH... today's spotty 18 year old is tomorrows crossdresser!
butif the kids been around for a week lookin at these posts hes either desperate, if he keeps it going for a fortnight maybe its out of helplesness or lust at least well get a fealing weher he is genuine if he is .
maybe hell get a helping hand.
u know im genuine uve seen me in the clubs.
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maybe hell get a helping hand.
u know im genuine uve seen me in the clubs.
: :?: :?: :?: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :?: Quote by DaHamsta
Well, I'm surprised as the ferocity of some of the responses to this poor chaps post... Especially on a website that prides itself on it's understanding.
This may sound surprising given my 'profession' but in my experience making someone young and impressionable feel bad about something they have done does nothing for their self esteem and certainly in 'TheGreatPatel''s case it sounds as though his lack of experience is as much partly due to his self confidence as it is to do with his maturity.
I've only been lurking around SH for a short while, so for me his comments aren't that irksome, however I can understand people who are old hands at this getting peeved when someone inexperienced posts a 'shag me PLEASE!' type post. You probably get them on here all the time...
But to him, it's his first post, and just like the rest of us were he is probably just looking for guidance.
So, as annoying as it is to see poorly constructed posts such as TGP's I think we should cut the dude some slack, and gently point out the error of his ways...
As for people having issues with young people on here... well, young people are the future of SH... today's spotty 18 year old is tomorrows crossdresser!
THANKS MATE, AT LEAST SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS. To be honest, i would not want to put my details on my first post for every to see. Thats why we have PMs? and e-mails dont we? Interested parties can reply for more details, its a no obligation case.
Cheers Mate :cheers:
Quote by dude18london
us young people dont seem to be welcomed to well herei'm 18 and made a few posts, but very mature for my age, i have gone through a lot more in life so far, in some cases more than most 30 year olds have (including some upsetting stuff:(.
I just don't think we should be judged on age, ok i'm 18, does age really mean anything?;/
i agree with u, im 19 yrs old and feel about 30, age should'nt matter on here but no matter what ur age, if ur 18 or 50 if u act like a kid on here u will most sertainly be treated like 1
Warming the Bed
Well, I say give the kids a break...
Now, who wants to go to McDonalds for a happy meal, or would you rather go to the zoo?
Just kidding... Geez I crack myself up sometimes
But on a serious note... no more 'please I need a shag' posts. Read what others have said before and take heed of there comments... only then will you fully comprehend the power of the kinky side...
Take note my young Padawans
Darth Diggler... (You should see the size of my lightsaber!)
Now, who wants to go to McDonalds for a happy meal, or would you rather go to the zoo?
Just kidding... Geez I crack myself up sometimes
But on a serious note... no more 'please I need a shag' posts. Read what others have said before and take heed of there comments... only then will you fully comprehend the power of the kinky side...
Take note my young Padawans
Darth Diggler... (You should see the size of my lightsaber!)
Quote by DaHamsta
Well, I say give the kids a break...
Now, who wants to go to McDonalds for a happy meal, or would you rather go to the zoo?
Just kidding... Geez I crack myself up sometimes
But on a serious note... no more 'please I need a shag' posts. Read what others have said before and take heed of there comments... only then will you fully comprehend the power of the kinky side...
Take note my young Padawans
Darth Diggler... (You should see the size of my lightsaber!)
i no all i need to no about bein kinky and everythin else
im may be 19 but im not no kid 
Sex God
Quote by thegreatpatel
Hi there
I have just turned 18, last week to be precise. I have never had sex before (received heads and hands ..nuttin more). I would like a nice couple or a female to take my virginity away. I am straight and live in East london/Essex. I am really crap when it comes down to chattin up girls, i hope someone can give me some advice and hopefully an experience to remember.
I am 5ft 8 with slim/atheletic build.
Thanks For reading.
my biggest problem with the ad is this......... obviously he thinks alot about his vriginty!!! why on earth would you want to lose it like this... and if he is that keen on losing it i am sure you could pay a pro 40 pounds and do him a service... or is this just a cheaper way of doing it!
in which case it isn't really swinging and that is the problem for alot of people here...
sean xxx
Quote by fabio grooverider
my biggest problem with the ad is this......... obviously he thinks alot about his vriginty!!! why on earth would you want to lose it like this... and if he is that keen on losing it i am sure you could pay a pro 40 pounds and do him a service... or is this just a cheaper way of doing it!
in which case it isn't really swinging and that is the problem for alot of people here...
sean xxx
Nail hit squarely on head there, Fabio. This isn't some place for virgins to come and get their cherry popped on the cheap. Losing your virginity is something that needs to be done with the right person.
There's no shame in waiting until that person comes along, either. There's way too much peer pressure to lose your virginity as quickly as possible these days and look where society is because of it. Take me, for instance. I had to wait until I was 26 to lose my virginity. Yes, I was frustrated about up until that point, but I was patient and in the end, it was a much better experience
TGP, if you feel that your friends are putting pressure on you to pop your cherry to the extent that you have to come on here and ask for someone to do it, I suggest you get some new friends as these guys sound like prize tossers.
