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I keep reading in the ads on S.H that people are fed up with timewasters. Now I am not a timewaster, but have had little joy getting in touch with anyone. Are there really any couples or single women who are really interested in meeting a really nice guy- o.k so I'm 50 is that the end of the world? Don't we still bleed?
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There are plenty of fem/couples on here, you just have to be patient and wait til someone wants what you have to offer lol
Dont bleed too much, will you - it's not all that healthy this day and age confused wink
Maybe I expect too much - I need to develop patience. And I know it is difficult for single women to trust what 'a strange guy' says. But i am still open to advice.
Hi Paul and welcome to SH,
This is a topic we've discussed a lot on here - have you seen the thread below yours, 'Any hope for us single guys?'?
a) There is no problem being 50 - I'm 37!
b) Blue is right - it takes patience.
c) We all start off as strangers on here...
so, why not join in more on the forum - particularly in the cafe - get to know us and we'll get to know you. We have a couple of oddities, but which social club hasn't? The vast majority of us are normal, well-balanced, and on the whole, rather gorgeous people.
Have fun in the forum!
Sappho xxx
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We have a couple of oddies, but which social club hasn't?
Sappho xxx

Has Bill joined?
steve
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There was nothing wrong with 50 last time I was there.
I will tell you more about it next time around.
TS
Well I'm glad I posted this query. Its is good to feel that there are others who understand. I agree the purpose of contact is not purelysexual, but then you have to get that balance right otherwise you are seen as wanting more than is on offer, maybe.
Paul
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I keep reading in the ads on S.H that people are fed up with timewasters. Now I am not a timewaster, but have had little joy getting in touch with anyone. Are there really any couples or single women who are really interested in meeting a really nice guy- o.k so I'm 50 is that the end of the world?

Hi Paul,
I wish I was fifty again, I was 10 when you were born and I'm still managing to swing. rolleyes I have met many of the members of Swinging Heaven over the past 18 months or so at various 'get togethers' and at 'Swinging Parties'. A great bunch of people they are too. 8)
When I first started swinging car keys were put into a fruit bowl on a coffee table and each woman was blindfolded and allowed to pick a set of keys the owner of which she spent the night with. Contact was made through underground 'Newspapers' or Magazines and it took weeks to set up a simple meeting.
It often takes as long these days as people have to get to know you first.
Keep posting, join the chatroom, go to a Munch if one is held in your area etc. As I have often informed 'Newbies', nothing is instant in Swinging.
There are time wasters out there, :taz: and the site moderators will remove them if there is a justifiable complaint. There is a little button ( Report this add) on each advert, which allows you to make a complaint against anyone.
There are a lot of genuine couples and singles out there, it just takes time and patience to get to know them. Have a look through the various pages of The Forum, Cafe and Lets Meet sections, there is a lot of good advice to be found.
Don't we still bleed?

Only if you cut yourself on that foil they wrap condoms in. lol
Harry0
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The oldest swinger in any town. :lol:
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The vast majority of us are normal, well-balanced,

:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :silly: :eeek: :crazy:
I really don't think age is a problem, it's more likely the male to female/couple ratio. smile
I had a serious girlfriend who I lived with for a while who was 16 years older than me, and it only didnt work out because I was too far from my daughter and it was killing me.
I will take maturity over youthful exuberance anyday, altough its good to have both at whatever age.
In my experience people with more life experience really know how to party. :)
In the words of Kate Bush "Don't give up!" biggrin