Loughborough, Midlands

27 Jan 2005

Quote by *Guy4Gals&Guys*
NO i think it is pretty disgraceful the way people are ridiculed and hounded,i thought this was a fun site ..

some people who post on here sometimes never think things through before they post....what then happens is some of us purely as fun..never in a vindictive or horrible way like to tease them about it.....if they put their hands up to it and say "fair enough i was a bit stupid thinking that one through".....it's ok then,sometimes they learn from that and stick around.....then usually do the same to others!.....if they have a sense of humour they will get it!......i don't beleive anyone here is vindictive.....the mods wouldn't allow that!

27 Jan 2005

You there.....get off your highhorse....if you single out freckedbird you can do the same for me......who do you think you are!

He might like me more than you, Dave wink

Bev
xxx

27 Jan 2005

Quote by freckledbird
You there.....get off your highhorse....if you single out freckedbird you can do the same for me......who do you think you are!

He might like me more than you, Dave wink

Bev
xxx
It's only because your a woman!

27 Jan 2005

Well Olly James, you've certainly got a thread going, so that's a start! Well done!
But someone saying'say something interesting' is a good way to scare the epiglottis of any would-be socialiser, isn't it?!
In Australia I've seen your (current) approach work. Man ignores woman at bar all night then turns to her at closing time with "Right - you coming?" and she actually walks out of the bar with him, overwhelmed at her 'good luck'.
Being that straightforward in Britain on the other hand is likely to get you a slap on the jaw or an excess of undistributed testosterone.
Women decide. Therefore, let them do the chatting up. All you do is make it a bit easier for her. Make her feel special. Make her the centre of attention (but not too obviously). Entertain her with a bit of chat on the things she's interested in. Make her feel that getting into her pants is the last thing on your mind - or at least that it's never crossed your mind yet (make like you don't care). Make her feel interesting (she is!) When she starts to bite she'll let you know when you can switch on the part of your brain that says 'let's shag'.
Swinging as for dating. But with swingers you know they are comfortable about the subject of sex - but they still (generally) expect the same social courtesy. They might give you a green light sooner if you get on the same wavelength as they are on. Who know's?
Good luck. When you're young and pretty you shouldn't waste it by being a dufus ;-)

27 Jan 2005

Quote by Vix
im looking for an older lady coupe but no one is interested, im taking it personally now :cry:

I'm a soft top.
HTH
and would I love to take you for a test drive :P :P
andybody as disagrees with my choice can just :kissmyarse:

27 Jan 2005

Quote by freckledbird
Bloody ell 19 at uni and can't get a shag?

It was bloody hard for me around that age. Even tried getting a motorbike as a 'babe magnet'. I think getting married* so early reflected a bit of desperation (married at 18, divorced at 19, brain connected at about 22).
Chris
*nowt against marriage - have been engaged twice since - but see the first attempt as innoculation/initiation.

27 Jan 2005

Theres no problem of finding a girl - trust me, there are loads there at university, Just none of them furful my sexual fantasy, a threesome.
Only asked! - probably wont get, but again! pm me!

27 Jan 2005

Quote by Olly_James
Theres no problem of finding a girl - trust me, there are loads there at university, Just none of them furful my sexual fantasy, a threesome.
Only asked! - probably wont get, but again! pm me!

mate.... listen to another single guy because you still don't really seem to get it....and what they are saying....
if you think there are probably 10 single guys to every woman/couple....why should they want to be with you.... what do you have to offer...
you know what you want... but would you go with someone you don't know... what have people really found out about you so far????
SELL YOURSELF.... if you think it is going to be something that is going to fall into you lap i think this is the wrong place for you.......

27 Jan 2005

Quote by Olly_James
Theres no problem of finding a girl - trust me, there are loads there at university, Just none of them furful my sexual fantasy, a threesome.
Only asked! - probably wont get, but again! pm me!

The most laughable thing is, you haven't even said what sort of threesome you want!!!!
Do you mean a MMF or FFM?

27 Jan 2005

Quote by bluexxx
Theres no problem of finding a girl - trust me, there are loads there at university, Just none of them furful my sexual fantasy, a threesome.
Only asked! - probably wont get, but again! pm me!

The most laughable thing is, you haven't even said what sort of threesome you want!!!!
Do you mean a MMF or FFM?
Awww, Blue, that was mean. To most men on the planet (not all our honeys here, of course) there is only one type of 3some. 2 pretend lesbians, with long red nails, sillicone tits, bleached blonde hair... oh, hang on that's me. Or it will be when I put me false nails on.
Oh, and I don't think I am a pretend lesbian.

27 Jan 2005

Quote by bluexxx
The most laughable thing is, you haven't even said what sort of threesome you want!!!! Do you mean a MMF or FFM?

I wonder why I think he's going for the FFM option . . . rolleyes

I wonder if you will strike 'lucky' - and if you do will it turn out to be what you want. If you have a FFM with two females who have never done that before you may find they are a bit 'competitive' for your attention, which believe me is less fun than it sounds. If you get two females who know each other but don't know you they may eat you alive if you've never done a group thing before. The FFM scenarios in movies are male fantasy situations (two adoring non-jealous females who treat you like a god), whereas a genuine 3-way tends to be everyone communicating well as sensitive adults.
Couple of workable options that come to mind -
Get to know a nice sexually liberated girl at uni, get a two-way thing going and then see if she wants to broaden her horizons (at which point you might find an experienced bi-girl on here, especially if you open up a bit more as a caring considerate human being and not just as a sex object).
Join a swingers club to get some practice in group situations (you can do this as a single male at many clubs - you'll find the quickest way to make things happen is develop your communication skills). Go to a Munch or hang out here and get to know a bi girl who wants a swinging relationship with you, has done threesomes before, and can swing with you. Having got the two parts of your FFM moving you can start communicating with a third person more easily.
Getting on the same wavelength with one other person to end up having erotic times together is hard enough, multiply that by two to add a third person, and so on . . . You need lots of sensitivity to juggle all that and make it work. If you are going to keep those two ladies interested in the bedroom, you need to at least keep them interested long enough in chit chat (eg on here) to get that far. How are you going to do it?