Following the sucess of the mids socials the owner of chams has made an offer that on a thursday night we could hold a social in his club. Entrance rates would be greatly reduced and a bufet provided. Membership would not be required but you would have to be on our guest list.
confirmed so far
Tiger Lilly M
M8y
Midsprincess M
Cock up M
Jiggle M
dandsa
Alfie - 23
Goldbullet
Deancannock
Freethinkingman M
daveanddebbie69 M
Penfold
Fruity
Hot Tart- and - MrD M
naughtynympos M
Dawn and Ian M
Big Andy
Bouncy M
Alaninuk M
A and D M
Welikesinglemen M
Danneandgary M
Dudcpl M
NeilandJennie M
Two-4-more M
jimsalpolad M
decodave
si and annie M
Wayneywonder M
Fil999
adamka
Paul-bob
Pickles + 1 M
Just4fun4u M
Alfie 23 m
Hol-happycouple M
Sammyansteve M
Alsorted M
Robi99 M
Toyboy
Triniman736 + 1
Nick2000
Topcat tc
chippy
Hot and wet
fil999
the brummies
ribi99
alsorted
jadijohn m
jinglepass
anserine
pkram M
jacob-swings
imhorny4u M
kevinpatel
johnhuk +1 M
andydoc
woody4164
smooth couple
stretch
sugar2008
Sweetlips and spaced M
West brom babe M
Sleazy M
cookie and J M
nucspark
uk intelli gent
marco polo m
southdarky m
blackboyjoy m
venus68 m
luvdub
sid welikes m
markther
naughtyangel M
Fierysxyredhead M
Kevand cathay M
Kinky- mofo
BBW and Beautiful M
dee - vic M
swifty wal M
cathay and kev M
xavia66
vixen
ahabs m
lovesitanywhere m
cushty
+1 secret
Tarnishedhalo
Allmeand you
daredevil-32 - Added by Dawnie :giggle:
nice one dawnie xxxxxxx
THE LIST IS NOW CLOSED
Total so far 112 + 2:lol2:
M = Member of club can you all let me know if you are a member of chams Tnx xxxxxx
The deatails are as follows and only for those whos name are on my list
Date May 15th Thursday
Time 7 pm onwards
Cost couples £ 10 per couple
single fem £ 5
Single guy £20 ( thats a £10 reduction)
Membership not required but must be on list
If not a member you will need ID for insurance purposes.
If this is sucessfull there will be more socials in the future.
A small buffet will be provided.
Bring your own alcohol, can purchase soft drinks.
Dress code - Chams usual towel ( provided) or sexies.
Please remember this is first time we have been invited to hold social at club so be respectfull, follow the rules and have fun and we may get invited again.
I will be handing final list to club on monday next week 5th may so put names down now .
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Quote by midsprincess
Following the sucess of the mids socials the owner of chams has made an offer that on a thursday night we could hold a munch/social in his club. Entrance rates would be greatly reduced and a bufet provided. Membership would not be required but you would have to be on our guest list. At the moment i am just seeing what interest there would be in having such an evening as it will only be viable with about 100 peeps or more on the list. Please send me any possitive comments and indication of interest.
Just a small point. It's not really a munch if it's in a swingers club, because a swingers club isn't really a neutral environment. Your 'do' would be more like a private party, I think.
From the terminology section:
'What's a Munch?
A munch is a purely social event held in a totally neutral environment, often somewhere like a pub, where members of Swinging Heaven get to meet each other. As there's no play involved everyone can relax which gives newbies a chance to ask questions of the more experienced without any fear of getting jumped on, and gives the regulars time to catch-up with old friends and make new ones.'
Sexpert
depending on the exact dates - we would cum along
Master of Sex
Hiay ali, you know me n si be up for that if we're not working. Let us know when you know more details as and when. Hopefully will be when we are on a morning shift so can attend lol
Luv annie n si xxxxxxxxxxxx
Luv annie n si xxxxxxxxxxxx
Master of Sex
In reply to fecklebird yes chams is a swinging club but there is no pressure on anyone there to do anything, a lot of people go there to socialise and if they wish to arrange to do anything with someone they do.
Altho the dress code is different to normal socials there is no expectation that individuals have to indulge in any activities of any kind. You make what you want of the night there, its a good place for meeting people and relaxing in an adult atmosphere.
Anyone else who has frequented chams at any time whether it be for a social arranged through the sight in the past or on a personal level i'm sure will 100% agree with me on this
Annie
Altho the dress code is different to normal socials there is no expectation that individuals have to indulge in any activities of any kind. You make what you want of the night there, its a good place for meeting people and relaxing in an adult atmosphere.
Anyone else who has frequented chams at any time whether it be for a social arranged through the sight in the past or on a personal level i'm sure will 100% agree with me on this
Annie
Orgasminator
we'd be interested
Master of Sex
Si has just also come up with a good point, when socials are held in public venues you often find yourself encountering non SH members who frequently ask questions like where are you from ... why are you here.... some people find this uncomfortable and get put off by these questions.
You cannot spend the whole of your time without at some point meeting joe bloggs from the local boozer who inevitably is going to be nosey and want to know where all these strangers are from, a lot of the venues have shared facilities you have to use.
Being in a venue like chams everyone there is from the swinging scene and its a more comfortable evnironment with no awkward questions to explain away
Well considered Si xxx
You cannot spend the whole of your time without at some point meeting joe bloggs from the local boozer who inevitably is going to be nosey and want to know where all these strangers are from, a lot of the venues have shared facilities you have to use.
Being in a venue like chams everyone there is from the swinging scene and its a more comfortable evnironment with no awkward questions to explain away
Well considered Si xxx
Sex God
Quote by annie_19704
In reply to fecklebird yes chams is a swinging club but there is no pressure on anyone there to do anything, a lot of people go there to socialise and if they wish to arrange to do anything with someone they do.
Altho the dress code is different to normal socials there is no expectation that individuals have to indulge in any activities of any kind. You make what you want of the night there, its a good place for meeting people and relaxing in an adult atmosphere.
Anyone else who has frequented chams at any time whether it be for a social arranged through the sight in the past or on a personal level i'm sure will 100% agree with me on this
Annie
To a newbie that might seem like a daunting thought. We found Chams to be quite a high-pressured environment.
My point was that a munch is supposed to be held in a neutral environment, which Chams clearly isn't, regardless of how little pressure exists. It's not going to be a purely social event because it's in a swingers club. So, it would be better billed as a private party.
Master of Sex
A munch is for sh members solely, socials the term i used is not as long as the oraganiser is aware that non sh members will be there....as there prob would be at chams. As anyone that knows of chams will be aware that during the week the club is much quieter and far more relaxed so it in not the same sort of 'high pressure' environment you refer to as it is on a Friday or Saturday.
As for newbies a munch can be just as daunting a place to go if you have never been before meeting lots of new people for the first time.
The venue is not the main reason for this post anyways...its to gauge peoples interest into who would be interested in attending a social on a MIDS SOCIAL on a thursday night. It would be a relatively cheap night as you take your own alcohol if you wish to drink, and only purchase soft drinks..tea/coffee...or food there.
As for newbies a munch can be just as daunting a place to go if you have never been before meeting lots of new people for the first time.
The venue is not the main reason for this post anyways...its to gauge peoples interest into who would be interested in attending a social on a MIDS SOCIAL on a thursday night. It would be a relatively cheap night as you take your own alcohol if you wish to drink, and only purchase soft drinks..tea/coffee...or food there.
we would be interested and we are newbies very daunting but we know mates like annie and si, furbs tilly and everyone we speak to in the mids room will be there to make us a comfortable the venue isnt the problem its meeting for the first time sorry to piss on your parade
Also having the venue at chams with peeps you know makes it easier for you to gauage if its the place for you or not go have a look around and knowing your mate are there and only your mates will make it easier and we are speaking from experiance we are newbies and not sure if its the place for us or just stick to meets much less pressure if the place is filled with your mate so go ali i think its an excellent idea
Also having the venue at chams with peeps you know makes it easier for you to gauage if its the place for you or not go have a look around and knowing your mate are there and only your mates will make it easier and we are speaking from experiance we are newbies and not sure if its the place for us or just stick to meets much less pressure if the place is filled with your mate so go ali i think its an excellent idea
No point arguing the toss as to wheter its a munch or a social it is a social gethering of swingers in a swingers club where you are free to do as much or as little as you choose. The first time i went to chams was to a social gathering with sh peeps and it was the most relaxed way of going to a club for the first time surrounded by people you know and whos company you enjoy.
If you dont fancy it you dont have to come there is no pressure on anyone
lets remember swinging is fun not arguing and fighting there is already enough of that in this world.
so if you want fun company please add your name to list if you have another adjenda dont bother.
If you dont fancy it you dont have to come there is no pressure on anyone
lets remember swinging is fun not arguing and fighting there is already enough of that in this world.
so if you want fun company please add your name to list if you have another adjenda dont bother.
Sex God
Hope you all have a brilliant night out and just letting you I have edited the title of the post as this is a social and not a munch 
Have a brilliant night.
Have a brilliant night.
Count me in, but i wud needc at least 7days notice 4 work.............annual leave form 
Sexlightened
you can count me in too 
Quote by midsprincess
Following the sucess of the mids socials the owner of chams has made an offer that on a thursday night we could hold a social in his club. Entrance rates would be greatly reduced and a bufet provided. Membership would not be required but you would have to be on our guest list. At the moment i am just seeing what interest there would be in having such an evening as it will only be viable with about 100 peeps or more on the list. Please send me any possitive comments and indication of interest.
count me in ali x
Warming the Bed
Hi Mids xx, If you manage to sort it then I will definately cum lol xx. I'm a member anyway x, I think it would be great as people can just socialize or if they wanted a bit more sexcitement go for a wander and see what happens, its a great venue and I dont think newbies would find it daunting as there are lots of people on SH who will look after them one way or another lol x.
I hope it all works out, well done mids xx.
I hope it all works out, well done mids xx.
