hi all, i`ll be holding a party for a selecy few people this coming saturday, 8 til ,,,,,,whenever. lol
i have a couple of f/m couples coming, & 2 single ladies, however i was hoping for about 12 to 14 people (even balance), due to the small number of guests don`t be disappointed if i don`r reply, but for those who do recieve confirmation, it will be via mail, on thursday, with the location, pleas note that i must see pics of you, to show other guests, all i ask you to bring is the drink of your choice, & a , welcome to crash till daytime, if you like. look forward to hearing from you all, j
lads or ladies, i`m doing fine, i`ve filled up with people i know to be fair, & i always either send a pic, or will put my cam on, (as my p/file says) & trust me,,,, i DO NOT have to sell myself, lol, thanx anyway for the comments, but my mom always said,,,, if you can`t say something nice, don`t say anything at all, i guess she has a point, do you? bye 4 now, j
p.s. you can always ask, as my user name says,,,,
What a shame this post has been hijacked by criticism and not kept to the point.
I have met the organiser of this party and I know he has no problem showing his pics or cam when asked. Just because he doesn't have one on his profile does not mean he refuses to show it, which is basically all he is asking for in return (Not that you have to have on on your profile).
Thankfully I was introduced to this party on a different site, where people were less picky and have since met him, had some fun and will be attending the party.
Roll on party time!!!!
So is it acceptable to ask people for there pictures to show others, but you cannot see them? I'm talking about the people attending the party not the person who has opened the thread.
Im my personal opinion... No it's not.
Lil
to be honest having looked at the thread a few times this week, we would be to worried to put our names down on the terms offered.
Firstly thre is no list of names. We find that it helps to see one as we could look at their profiles to see if: -
a) If we know any of the attendee's
b) Any are similar age to us
c) If anyone takes our fancy...
There is little much point in attending a party like that if nobody appears compatable.
We would also be aprehensive about sending our pictures to a faceless profile, as you can never be certain who it is or what they will be used for.
ok lets cut all the bitchin`, n grow up,,,,
it`s a swingers site, people have fun on here, i`d like to see who (if so few in such a confined space) was going to be there, as someone said why not post names, to check profiles, easy to do if it`s on one site, but this is on 3. so a little difficult, all the people were selected compatibly, with one another, or to couples/singles etc, so as not to upset anyone, as venus says, i travelled to put her mind at ease so she didn`t feel uncomfortable, when attending the party, not an if your face fits at all, but surely you wouldn`t expect to meet someone bllnd???? would you?
if you would, that`s your perogative, but for me there has to be something attracting me to them, if youknow what i mean,,,
at the end of the day, i made a bad choice of words to put in my add, i do apologise, but such is life, mistakes are made, now you can all stop stressing over this ad` & maybe you`ll have time to find some fun, which is what this site is really all about,,,,,,, go on run along, off you go, byeeeee, ciao, au revoir, ta-ra, bye bye, adios, see ya, all have fun n take care, don`t worry about me n my party all, but,,,,,,,,,,, if it is fun you enjoy, you are really loesing out, i assure you, we know how to throw a party,
& NO, NOT FRANK GALAGHER STYLE< lol, bye all have fun & enjoy yourselves,
,,,,,,,,not interested at all, if you DON`T want to come, or why you don`t, it`s small talk, only mail me "in future" if you are interested, what ever i happen to write, the basics are there`s a party if you`d like to come along n i`d like to know who`s coming, ,
mids do you mean this weekend hun or next month you let me know and i will make sure that me and mrs jimbigboy come and get there hun
Hope your knockers are not causing you too much grief babes xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Talk about losing the plot?
Its gone from a member using these facilities to make an offer to a liberated, adult audience to him being threatened with his membership being summarily taken away.
We saw this post when it first went on the forum and like many others we didn't want anything to do with it, so, like them, we exercised our right to walk away. After all no one is forcing anyone to take up the invite on the terms & Conditions offered? We think Mal should be the one to apologise to DontaskDontGet for openly criticising his post and profile in public when it would have been much more helpful and friendly to actually mail DontaskDontget privately to offer what is actually good advice.
Mal should also apologise for threatening to take away DontaskDontget's membership, to our minds this is bullying and abuse of power, Mal, you started the criticism in public and you should now be adult enough to accept that this guy is then going to defend himself and his reputation and from what we've read he wasn't abusive in his replies, he may have been a bit sarcastic but thats no reason to make threats just because you can?
K&T xx xx
PATRONISE?????? very strong words mal, & no i haven`t been here 5 mins i`ve been on n off this site for 2 years, mal don`t threaten me, it`s not big n not clever, the best we can do mate, is obviously ignore one another, you don`t want to cum fine, just don`t comment, no big thing, just go about doing your things & i will mine, now please leave me alone to have my fun, thanks j
K & T i really do appreciate the fact that someone agrees with me, i read lots of ads n profiles, & think "oh no thanx" but just say nothing, surely if you aren`t interested it`s not worth a comment, as K nT say, they walked away, simple, & yes i find that several people on here, (when in a position to do so)do threaten with being banned, because as you say i try to defend myself or just for being outspoken, hope you all have fun this weekend, sure i will, thanx again K n T x
sean the approach you mention, would have been fine, but the wording of mals reply, wasn`t thought out, neither was my ad, i guess, but hey, just let it go now everyone, i`m happy, you all be happy,
cheers sean, well writteen, & yes i guess mals intentions were good, no offence taken, & definately none intended from me, j
sorry to jump this thread again. But having seen the differently worded add on the other site i had to add a few more points.
On the other site don't ask has profile pics why not on this... The other site is a free site and as such you have less control over who can access them.
On the other site you don't ask people to submit their ribs for examination...
Of the two adds we would have perhaps responded to the other site...
I guess i have to ask why members me this site seem to be being discriminated against i.e. Having to go through a more severe screening?
i don`t have pics on this site because, i choose not to, for my own reasons, however, i do have pics to send, to anyone that has took time to look at my profile & request a pic or 2, i go on cam regularly, & am known very well in several of the rooms, i put a different ad on this site, because,,,, i always get people mess me around on here, the people on the other site have not, as yet done so, if it begins to happen i will change my approach on there too, guys,,, really, lets call it a day on here, now, i have my party sorted, & would really appreciate you all going & looking elsewhere, for what ever it is you search for on here, each to their own, i don`t criticise people because i don`t like how they`ve worded their ad, or profile, so please, be nice to people, have a good weekend all, jeff,
