I'd be up or a mid week meet. let me know - cheers
Me too..i'd be up for it..
Midweek is very hard for us but maybe would be able to make it from time to time, if its a regular thing.
Louise xx
I would be up for midweek social
hiya
ide love to meet up with like minded adults im 30 and up for a drink and some fun
cheers danny x
Sounds interesting, I'd be keen too.
Hey sounds cool, count us in
Alan and Heather
I`m going to suggest a method like this..
1.) those interested PM me, can i suggest we keep the numbers small first. say 10 people (5 male, 5 Females)i can then PM everyone with a suitable venue and time
2.) we need to establish an identifying method, this can be agreed within a PM and decided on by all attending, couples are more than welcome and will be added to in the numbers invited,
3.) If you arent PM`d and invited it isnt because your not welcome in the future, this is the first attempt and i`d like to be able to keep control, the numbers will be expanded hopefully and teething troubles sorted out.
4.) so as to prevent timewasters can i also suggest that those wishing to attend have been members of the SH site for 3 months. (this may change after the first night)
5.) Finally, this IS NOT intended to be a pickup point where a shag is on the cards, i would like to spend time in the company of people (pref females!!) who are likeminded, if people decide afterwards they want to go further then that`s down to them, but ladies and gents, its a meet for a couple of hours in a pub to have a laugh and a drink,
i am too busy at the weekends to have meets and find after work would be better for me.
Any Q`s feel free to PM me
DL
i had one PM + myself (as i asked for on the post)?
i would love to meet mid week, for a social.
but, alas, some of us work nights.
sun to thurs.
so the best time for a social is the weekend in london.
but, watch this space, robert1961 and myself will be sorting another socia sometime after christmas, maybe beginning of feb
oppps.
might have to rethink date, as bernie got one at beginning of feb.
maybe beginning of march.
I think a regular social would be a good idea... nodoubt it would start small at first... but word of mouth...popularity through the forums etc etc... you never know.
not so sure about the stipulations about identifying methods and all that jazz mentioned earlier... parhaps a more relaxed approach might work...
a small venue,friendly backroom in a ppub at first,no great shakes,no whistles and bells,just a small gathering of an evening where folk whohave expressed an interest can dropin.
obviously, with venue changing, those available on a given date could respond to the SH Monthlies when it's posted in the forums, and the venue can be be forwarded via pm... being a social, I guess the rules about who can attend can be quite loose... making attendance quite fluid... though I'm no expert on rules & regs... >can someone advise?<
I know there are other *scenes* that have thier regular meetings... not sure sure how the SH community might feel about a relaxed approach though.
Openly publishing venue and date might scare some off, but also, the fuss of lists and pm's every month might be too much hassle.
opinions?
I'm also blathering-on...it's late, appologies
lp