Thank you Naughty Wigan & Sexysteph it is good to get contact from people who no the ropes, curtoursy and manners are important, I am totally disillusioned with relationships as
work commitments make it very difficult, although we all have sexual needs but patroling bars for regretable encounters seems a slighlty dishonest way to behave, at least with the swinging movement everybody gets what they want and all know well in advance.
Please keep me updated an any events I know being single male makes it difficult but developing local rings with various individuals is probably the way forward.
Thanks again for your advice and support