New here and looking for help

28 Oct 2005

Hi all,
I am new here and so i thought i would introduce myself.
I am the proverbial, divorced, middle aged male who has been out of the sex scene for quite a while. I saw this site, and thoght it would be a good way to get back in the saddle.
I have placed adds on here without any success so far, so thought i would try again through this forum.
I am middle aged, but i am told i look young for my age, and i would say that i am average in every way (although i do wear specs) I wouldn't class myself as ugly, but as interest has been limited to say the least, i am starting to wonder??
The town where i live is very small, and therefore chances are limited to say the least.
What I was hoping is that there may be a female out there somewhere who would be interested in helping me put a little fun back into my life, or am i hoping too much???
I have not got much experience in these things, so you would need to be patient to start with, but i am not quite a virgin lol. I love giving oral for as long as you like, but have never recieved it myself. I would like to try this for myself, along with all the other things i see in books and videos.
Although I have always seen myself as straight, I would like to meet up with a couple at some time to possibly explore any bi-side I might have.
I would love to try group sex as well, but one step at a time hey???
I am very clean and very, very descreet and have my own house as well as being able to travel.
So, if there are any females/couples in my area who would like to help me out here, I would be very pleased to hear from you.
There seems to be many adds from the north and west on this site, but are we as liberated in the east, or are we all happily occupied over here???????
Thanks for reading this, and good luck to you all.
Fenny xxx

28 Oct 2005

Welcome Fenlander
That is the best first post I have seen on here in ages (it was more than one sentence for starters lol

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As a fellow fenman (but only for three years) may I wish you luck in finding someone in our area. Pay careful attention to what sexysteph said above, she knows exactly what she is talking about and the above is very wise advice.
Regards
Harry Jones

28 Oct 2005

Hi again,
Just wanted to say thank you both for your warm welcome, and your sound advice.
Its much apreciated as I feel I need all the help i can get at this time.
Harry, nice to know there are like minded people around here. I have read some of your posts, especially concerning your ones in the dogging area. I must admit this is something I have been interested in getting involved with, it sounds like my idea of fun. Maybe I will come back to you for some advice on this in the future if thats ok???
Thanks again,
Fenny xxx

28 Oct 2005

Of course you can come back to me, but in the meantime, as sexysteph said head into the cafe etc and post a bit, get yourself known, and then you will find folk are far more likely to give you more information, there have been some quite dreadful newbies in here recently that I wouldn't even tell them the time if they asked, even if they said please at the end, be assured I am NOT including you in that category, but hopefully you can see what direction I am coming from, in giving that advice.
Regards
Harry Jones