Quote by Sexysteph
Hi Steve
Welcome to the Swingingheaven Forums
Why not tell us a bit more about yourself and what you are looking for?
As far as seperating out the wheat from the chaf well its experience really - it can be very difficult and disheartening. The only way I can advise is to join in on the forums and maybe the chatroom get to know people that way. Maybe attend a few munches or parties when you are more established - let people see the real you as such.
There are advice threads laying around the place which may help too - below is a link to one such thread if you fancy reading it
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
Hope this helps
Steph
