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we would love to visit some clubs around the Kent area. been to Pleasures, but it was a slow night, how do you go about asking a lady or couple to have some fun with you? as my lady is quite shy. any advice?
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Just talk to them socially first and take it from there.
Make sure you talk to your lady first about what she does and doesnt want to do on any given night, so you don't start situation that makes her feel uncomfortable.
Remember she is there to have a good time to, not to facilatate you getting one.
Don't go to a club with a fixed agenda. You will go several times and not play at all, sometimes its just not the right time, you should be able to have fin with her anyway, and view anything that you both are willing to take further as a bonus.
Chat to people and make some friends - Some people find it easier to be very assertive and dive right in, others do not.
The important thing is that you communicate, both with your partner, and with others.
Good luck, its a wild ride.
Make sure you talk to your lady first about what she does and doesnt want to do on any given night, so you don't start situation that makes her feel uncomfortable.
Remember she is there to have a good time to, not to facilatate you getting one.
Don't go to a club with a fixed agenda. You will go several times and not play at all, sometimes its just not the right time, you should be able to have fin with her anyway, and view anything that you both are willing to take further as a bonus.
Chat to people and make some friends - Some people find it easier to be very assertive and dive right in, others do not.
The important thing is that you communicate, both with your partner, and with others.
Good luck, its a wild ride.
