NEW TO THIS, BE GENTLE PLEASE

12 Sep 2004

Any females in the East Midlands area up for some sexy fun? I'm interested in meeting someone 25-40 I would be happy to meet for a drink first and take it from there.
ps, message heavily edited as it seems to have landed me in trouble :cry:

12 Sep 2004

Quote by goodguy
We will meet in a hotel (preferably sharing the cost as its only fair)

I see another tight guy who wants it all.

12 Sep 2004

ROFL
cmon girls role up and pay half for a shag..after all its only fair! lol

dont it just make you wonder why such a prise catch like "goodguy" is still single :P

12 Sep 2004

C'mon, if he'd offered to pay all the costs, we'd be accusing him of wanting a prostitute.

14 Sep 2004

Why is it that when a lady posts a message saying "share the costs", or "meet half way" that they are applauded for being such considerate angels. Come on, i've heard it all before. I'm being honest. Meetings are meant to be mutually agreeable.... "yes you can shag me, but you can pay for the room, and my petrol, and a drink and a meal..."?????? Isnt that called escorting?

14 Sep 2004

Quote by goodguy
Why is it that when a lady posts a message saying "share the costs", or "meet half way" that they are applauded for being such considerate angels. Come on, i've heard it all before. I'm being honest. Meetings are meant to be mutually agreeable.... "yes you can shag me, but you can pay for the room, and my petrol, and a drink and a meal..."?????? Isnt that called escorting?

Not really called escorting....More a case of you being the newbie here and therefore having to go to the trouble and effort to get yourself known. A better way to do this would be to go to one of the munches or open parties, where people will be able to see you and realise that you are genuine, rather than you coming on here and whinging after only being on about a week that you can't get a woman.........it takes time and is by no means a way to a quick shag or an easy lay.......the swinging community is about like-minded people getting together for relaxed times, not being pestered by newbies desperate for a shag

14 Sep 2004

yes, and here's me, trying to be lighthearted about it. rolleyes

I was never expecting to get into this lifestyle overnight, but at the end of the day, all i can do is post an advert. Being new to this i am appreciative of your comments, which is more than can be said for some of the other posts lol.

14 Sep 2004

Quote by goodguy
yes, and here's me, trying to be lighthearted about it. I was never expecting to get into this lifestyle overnight, but at the end of the day, all i can do is post an advert. Being new to this i am appreciative of your comments, which is more than can be said for some of the other posts lol.

Try having a read of this post mate. There may be something in there that might help you a little
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
Marcuso

14 Sep 2004

thanks for your help, perhaps there should be a newbies section on this forum. I will turn over a new leaf immediately and see if i have more success smile

14 Sep 2004

There is lots of advice available on this site for newbies if they can be bothered to read it, does that count as a newbies section???

14 Sep 2004

yes there is some good advice which was kindly shown to me by a previous poster. I guess us newbies are jumping the gun abit, but hey, i'm the first to admit that i dont know the ropes, i supose there are alot of men on here who will refuse to accept advice, or think they know it all and will have ladies (or men) queing up at their door.
I will just concentrate on introducing myself on this forum for the time being.
cheers wink