Newbie swing club question...

27 Jul 2010

hi
I have been on this site hoping to meet some people my age (ideally a female) to enjoy some swinging experiences together with but have realised that due to the ratio of women to men that is pretty unlikely (sucks to be a guy lol).
I am very intrigued but just wondering if (like this site) swing clubs are just full of single guys? and if so whats the best way to approach that as a single guy?
can anyone recomend a good club in london that might suit what i am looking for.
apprieciate your help. thanks

28 Jul 2010

Hi
I see no ones replied to you yet so IF its any help... the answer is Yes..
Clubs are more single male dominated which is why lots of couples go on 'couples only nites'
Single Ladies usually(not all of course) prefere nights where there is an abundance of single guys wink

gives us a good choice of who to pick :twisted:
If Im at a club I just cant pick ANY guy. But if I see one I like I go a bit shy incase he don't like me lol

But I do try and get chatting, then you soon pick up a vibe if he's interested or not.
The only tip I can offer on this that make ME notice one guy from another is
"Dont walk around wanking" like most of the guys do touchin emselves up while grinning at ya.. puts me right off :lol:
If you see someone you'd like to approach, first rule, Be respectful.. its not a free for all(unless stated) :lol: Act cool and try to get chatting.
But remember... Single women are NOT free prostitutes, they just like sex too but because of the available choice they can usually pick and choose so you gotta show you respect them.
Cant recommend any clubs in london as never been down that way but there is a club guide under entertainment which usually has reviews.. Try there and good luck
Minxie :rascal: xx

28 Jul 2010

all true minxie - only london club i know about that is any good is abfabs near heathrow
hope that helps and good luck !

29 Jul 2010

there is Eureka as well which is north kent about 40 mins drive from london, singles always welcomed

30 Jul 2010

thanks for all the advise here. i am a well behaved lad so dont think i would have fallen victim to any of your faux pas you have listed.
been trying to find a female to join me on my first visit but seeing as thats never going to happen i am just going to bite the bullet and go for it alone.
I am really looking forward to going to my first club and apprieciate the time you have taken to write down a few tips. thanks

1 Aug 2010

on that note. I have decided to put the advise you ahve given me to the test and head off to a club as soon as possible. cant wait. I would be very interested in hearing from anyone that has a night plan or would like to join forces and plan something together.......