Hi Guys, we'd love to come, any chance of getting our names down onto the list. We attended the DJ/Long dress do last year......great night and we're sure it'll be the same again. Cheers Frank and Liz
If thius is the one you are on about,OH OH
I joined on line but have never been, every one who I have ever met that have been do nothing but slag the place off.
I was looking forward to going because its on my doorstep but....
I have been told about over strict staff and rules, single guys cant approach ladies (eh wots that all about),very clicky (heard of couples on their first visit sitting all night and not been talked too (thought it was supposed to be friendly) and small cramped rooms that could do with a clean(shal I bring a duster).
I know that the list above are going to slag me off and call me nammes for this but who cares.
I know there will be those who say dont critisise it till you have been but lets be honest if you talk to about a dozen couples and they all say the same who wants to go and spend money just in case they are right.
I must say the videos on the site dont make it very appealing either.
Have a nce party every one who goes but dont think you will ever see me there.
Happy Swinging
Sally
Guys I am realy sorry if I offended you.
I was not trying to upset anyone or insult you all.
I am sure that if you were all repeatedly told "dont got to that pub the food is awfull" you wouldnt pay out money to find out.
I didnt expect to get so many negative responses to what I had been told, what I was hoping for was some nice comments telling me how wrong I had been informed and even possibly inviteing me to go to the club and check it out myself.
Not one of you seemed to be able to say anything nice to me, what can I not make a comment.
I have read all the positive remarks and got a lot of good from them, so I will be going and checking for myself, because after all yes I do have my own mind, but as a single woman (partner doesnt want to go)I need to know I am going to be safe.
Dont worry I wont make it public when I am going, I dont want to walk into a barrage of hatred for what I had been told.
Sorry again
errrr read above 2 positive comments n 2 wholly justified sarcastic comments....wot did you expect???
All you have to do is check the clubs section out on here n see that the townhouse is in the top 3 surely that says it all..n again this whole 'clicky' thing you get out of an experience what you put it, if your gonna sit there n not speak and not make the effort why the hell should anybody else? The fact of the matter is that a lot of peeps who go the townhouse go regularly n so strike up friendships...is that so bad?? i think not!!! n wots with the 'i need to know i am going to be safe'??? What on earth do you think we are going to do ..maybe all the clicky peeps will gang up on ya!!!!
oh n on another note this is a post regarding peeps who actually wanna attend the beach party not just slag the club off
Just a quick note in answer to Sally's comments!!!
Point onethis is a lets meet up forum for people who would like to attend the party NOT A CLUB REVIEW
Point Two Swinging heaven rules state that you are not to promote or slate a club until you have actually attended (Which you havent)
and Finally Point 3
Being a woman I thought you would have your own opinion and not be swayed by others!!!
Look forward to meeting you at the club one day and have a nice conversation with you about other clubs you have attended and maybe you could let me know your thoughts on them also, or rather your friends opinions of them.
hi, we would love to go to the party
ps love the townhouse
sorry alan we've not put our names down for this one but i see our names are on the list
Hi sallynjord, we have also heard bad reports about this club and not just from one or two people. We have also heard that if you are not part of the 'clique' then it really is not worth going through the door as you will just be ignored by the regulars.
Also, you are fully entitled to add your comments to this and as long as you are not breaking any site rules, you can go ahead and add them to any thread you want. Infact, I thought your post was actually very well thought out and not at all derogatory. As we all know, what suits one will not suit another, but this does not stop you from posting in this, or any other thread as you are fully entitled to them.
Apologies if you thought this was meant at you Alan and Rachel, cause you are one of the nicest couples on this site and would always make people welcome to anything you organised, or if they attended the club and you saw them there.
My objection was that other people (not you two) were trying to stop someone else from posting their thoughts about the club. As you stated, we do have a review section but the people concerned were just telling you why they couldnt come along and other members felt it was necessary to jump down their throats and make them out to liars. I was just pointing out that everyone has their own views on this and everyother club (and on the people who go). Trying to balance the view if you get the drift.
Anyway, you will still have a brilliant time whatever anyone thinks of the club, and as you said, you would never let anyone feel left out, but others (and not necessarily people who have posted on here, who are coming to your party, or even who use this site) do not bother making people feel welcome (and this is not just at this club, but at others as well).
Balanced view, dont like to see people being ganged up on, and belittled by others who should know better.
sally come with me on a wednesday evening when i will be going on my own.. i will not be drinking and always go with an open mind as to what will happen. please accompany me one evening just for the social aspect to see if i can change your mind about the club and what it has to offer a single female/couple/single guy.
thanks alan n rach we'll be on our holls hehehehe
could you please add us to your list we will deffo be there.......Mikey and Jaki
any room for tenthumbs n big boobs lol
and for the posts on th...think that the owners and members always make you feel at home ...they all did for us on our first visit..and strangers are made welcome by the "click"...who we have seen welcome newcomers with open arms so to speak
have never seen anyone left on thier own unless it was thier choice..its takes two to strike up conversation..........and we all go for fun and chat
Hi
I would love to attend, not been before, and promise to behave and turn up. Is there a reserve list as I see you have reached the number for single males?
can i be added to the single male reserve list please, just incase, Thanks