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I'm getting disillusioned with the site. I have replied to a number of women on the site, who I am genuinely interested in meeting, but I don't get the coutesy of a reply. I just wish I knew what they want. I'm 35, blonde, very good looking, very athletic & good sense of humour. I'm looking for no strings fun - although who knows where it might lead. I've posted all kinds of pics on my ad - rude ones, normal ones with no success!
Anyway just wanted to get that off my chest! - Wigan area meet up anyone?
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Nice my ad is getting loads of hits - where are the replies?
I`ve noticed this is your first post. With so many ads on the site, I should imagine people will lilkely go with the ones posted by those who they have come to know better through chatting on here.
Have a play in the cafe, it helps, and the regulars there don`t bite..........much!
I hope that helps
Venusxxx
Have a play in the cafe, it helps, and the regulars there don`t bite..........much!
I hope that helps
Venusxxx
One of the reasons why you wouldn't get a reply from some women or couples on this site is because they get so many replies, literally they can get thousands of replies so how realistic do you think it would be for them to sit on their pc's all day kust reply to every email they got. Particularly bearing in mind that probably 90% of the emails are from people that they haven't requested to meet. For instance "Couple seeks couple or bi-fem" Male comes along and replies, "Well I know I am not a couple or bi-fem but I have a big cock and am attractive and I am sure that after spending three hours of me banging her up against the wall your girlfriend would love it"
Single guys are at the bottom end of the swinging ladder. Once you realise that you will things a lot easier...................Hard
Single guys are at the bottom end of the swinging ladder. Once you realise that you will things a lot easier...................Hard
I think you have to give it time. There are six thousand other guys on this site and with the best will in the world nowhere near that many women. All you can do is have patience, keep trying and eventually, maybe months or even years down the road, you might get lucky.
I tried everything I could think of too and there doesn't seem to be a magic formula or key to success, or one simple thing you can do to improve your chances.
P.S. I reckon most of the hits us guys get on our ads are other guys looking for ideas for their own ads.
I tried everything I could think of too and there doesn't seem to be a magic formula or key to success, or one simple thing you can do to improve your chances.
P.S. I reckon most of the hits us guys get on our ads are other guys looking for ideas for their own ads.
Although I can sympathise with you, having had 500 + hits to my advert and not one single reply, you have to be realistic, most guys out there think there gods gift to woman, and so there is a great choice for the ladies to choose from.
Firstly, this is not a get a shag quick site; I can vouch for that as can so many other singles. Drop in the chat room and talk to some of the ladies and couples, your bound to spark more interest when people know you and your attitude to this lifestyle.
If your getting disillusioned so early on then you in here for the wrong reasons, although I have yet to ‘meet’, I’ve made some sexy friends I can chat with, and who knows maybe even get an invite one day. Remember you come in here with nothing, so if you are one of the lucky ones, then a meet is a bonus that few of us single guys ever gets.
Firstly, this is not a get a shag quick site; I can vouch for that as can so many other singles. Drop in the chat room and talk to some of the ladies and couples, your bound to spark more interest when people know you and your attitude to this lifestyle.
If your getting disillusioned so early on then you in here for the wrong reasons, although I have yet to ‘meet’, I’ve made some sexy friends I can chat with, and who knows maybe even get an invite one day. Remember you come in here with nothing, so if you are one of the lucky ones, then a meet is a bonus that few of us single guys ever gets.
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Hiya - Lets start with an original line - I've never done this before but...!! I would like to meet attractive lady aged 30-40ish,looking for fun(younger & older is fine - if it's fine with you!).I'm 35, blond, very good looking, athletic & a little shy! But I do have a rather nice big cock for you to play with!!!If you want to meet me - get in touch. A photo would be nice & I will send one back in 've read up to here, so you must be curious...Go on....send me a message... then who knows...we might like each other!!!
This is your ad - there is absolutely nothing on there that makes you stand out from anyone else on the site. You have told them 5 basic things about yourself - age, hair colour, looks, body and shy. Tell me why you think that's all it takes.
Yes, there are people on the site who will respond to ads like that, but very, very few. To be honest, tell them more about you, the real you, what makes you tick, likes, dislikes. Join in the forum conversations and let your personality show through. Yes you can meet ladies from this Site, I have met several, but I don't have an ad. Single guys are in the minority on here, big time, so you have to work extra hard for people to get to know you as a person first, then see where that leads. Sometimes you just make great friends, other times things progress, but have patience. Your main aim should be to make friends first and anything else is a bonus, unless you have a particulary amazing talent, such as the ability to breathe through your ears (Thanks, Heather) or lick your own eyebrows.
Just have fun!
Mal
Bl***y Hell!!!
It's like being on Trisha!! I'm being ripped apart!!!
However, I take your advice on board - I'm totally virgin to this swinging lark!
Thanks for showing my ad mal609. I'm really
now - easpecially as I'm posing in my best "King Dong" pose!!! It's not really me to talk about how wonderful my manhood is (it is though!!) but not sure if that what you ladies want to know. Thanks for your good wishes too Venus xx. As 4 u hard2debon - you are a lucky guy!!!!! 
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[Single guys are in the minority on here, big time,
LOL! I wish.
I'm not sure about a swinging ladder; I think single guys are more like plankton. We're there if a big fish get hungry, but otherwise we're just buzzing around in shoals doing plankton-ish things and taking pictures of our dicks. Not that I would ever do such a thing, of course...
I deleted my post newbie_student so i wouldnt look stupid.
Well i reckon that if you guys spent less time moaning u might get somewhere.
Its not just you guys that find it difficult to get meets ya know.
Just lately, since the influx of new members (mostly timewasters and total wankers ) I have found it really really hard to find anyone genuine and nice out there to meet. I get plenty of offers but most of them are asking "so, when do i get to fuck you" within about 30 seconds of chatting.
Shelly
Well i reckon that if you guys spent less time moaning u might get somewhere.
Its not just you guys that find it difficult to get meets ya know.
Just lately, since the influx of new members (mostly timewasters and total wankers
) I have found it really really hard to find anyone genuine and nice out there to meet. I get plenty of offers but most of them are asking "so, when do i get to fuck you" within about 30 seconds of chatting.Shelly
I just wanted a good moan, cos I'm stuck at home supposed to be working, but keep going into the forum!!
guess we're all fed up with getting nowhere!
But lets have a heated debate - dick pics or not?
I'm not looking to shag someone as soon as I meet them - need to say hello first!! (joke). Seriously, I want to meet, have a drink, laugh, meal, whatever...then it's up to both of us if it goes any further - whether one night stand, weeks, months wotever.
Just making a stand for us planktons!
guess we're all fed up with getting nowhere!
But lets have a heated debate - dick pics or not?
I'm not looking to shag someone as soon as I meet them - need to say hello first!! (joke). Seriously, I want to meet, have a drink, laugh, meal, whatever...then it's up to both of us if it goes any further - whether one night stand, weeks, months wotever.
Just making a stand for us planktons!
I should think the dick pics topic gets covered quite often.
Firstly i would never meet anyonoe without seeing a face pic and it pisses me off when someone tells you they are gonna email a pic of themselves to you and up pops a dick pic.
I dont mind dick pics if they are sent after or along with a face pic. Some dick pics are actually quite nice.
Firstly i would never meet anyonoe without seeing a face pic and it pisses me off when someone tells you they are gonna email a pic of themselves to you and up pops a dick pic.
I dont mind dick pics if they are sent after or along with a face pic. Some dick pics are actually quite nice.
i'm sticking on Shellys side of the dick pics argument.
I recently had my avatair as my body shot - stupid newbie mistake.
Makes sense though. Would you really want to meet someone who takes first impression from you knob? I'm sure that if you want to find serious people who are going to be honest and open.. you need to get to know them as people first.
I'd be quite scared if I was meeting up withsomeone who only knew me by my dick. I'd have no idea what to expect and neither would they....
If you wanna be that silly.. feel free.... good luck!
I recently had my avatair as my body shot - stupid newbie mistake.
Makes sense though. Would you really want to meet someone who takes first impression from you knob? I'm sure that if you want to find serious people who are going to be honest and open.. you need to get to know them as people first.
I'd be quite scared if I was meeting up withsomeone who only knew me by my dick. I'd have no idea what to expect and neither would they....
If you wanna be that silly.. feel free.... good luck!
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xax - this has been debated many times. if you're really interested, look up the original thread
Mal
Mal
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Taking a pic of your own dick is not very erotic!!!!
Had the same problem. Get the camera ready beside you. Look at something erotic, or think about something erotic, or if you're lucky enough get your young lady to do something erotic to you, then at the optimum moment grab the camera and snap a picture. (My digital camera shuts itself down and takes a few seconds to power itself up, which was an added difficulty.) You'll get there in the end.
Of course, whether it's worth the effort is another question...
Well to be honest, u have written your ad urself so it obviously reflects who you are.
If someone was to tell you how to change ur ad or help you to rewrite it, then it would be an untrue picture of who you are.
Im sorry, but the damage is already done
Im joking, about the last line anyway, you actually seem like a fairly decent guy.
If someone was to tell you how to change ur ad or help you to rewrite it, then it would be an untrue picture of who you are.
Im sorry, but the damage is already done
Im joking, about the last line anyway, you actually seem like a fairly decent guy.
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Check out this link xAx, this worked for me, but it doesn't work for everyone. Don't forget, I had already spent a lot of time on here first getting to know people.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/5801.html
Mal
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/5801.html
Mal
