Hi, can anyone tell me why no one replies to my messages or adverts?
Is my profile unattractive? I don't send cheesy one-liners, or anything gratuitous, just the offer to chat and maybe some great sex. I also don't message people who aren't looking for a single male. Do you think I'm too young? I can't think what else it could be!
Any help would be great!
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Hi horny
I wouldn't say it's because you're too young but you might want to tweak your ad and profile a little and see what happens. You've only been on the site for a couple of weeks so you might have figured out this isn't (generally) a quick shag place.
The text on your profile is ok though I'd keep the cock shots for your private gallery. It's well known that most ladies don't like cock shots and it can put some of them off reading any further.
The ad might need rewording. While you're very detailed in what you like and want, it might be a little too graphic and you don't really say what you can offer her
It's the age-old problem of single guy looking for single fem. You outnumber them by at least 10 to 1 so you need to make your profile and ad stand out above the rest.
As I've said to a few others, think needle in haystack but you have to attract the needle to you rather than go looking for it yourself.
Pop over to the Cafe and say hello, check out the chatrooms and just relax, have fun and have patience
Good luck :thumbup:
I wouldn't say it's because you're too young but you might want to tweak your ad and profile a little and see what happens. You've only been on the site for a couple of weeks so you might have figured out this isn't (generally) a quick shag place.
The text on your profile is ok though I'd keep the cock shots for your private gallery. It's well known that most ladies don't like cock shots and it can put some of them off reading any further.
The ad might need rewording. While you're very detailed in what you like and want, it might be a little too graphic and you don't really say what you can offer her
It's the age-old problem of single guy looking for single fem. You outnumber them by at least 10 to 1 so you need to make your profile and ad stand out above the rest.
As I've said to a few others, think needle in haystack but you have to attract the needle to you rather than go looking for it yourself.
Pop over to the Cafe and say hello, check out the chatrooms and just relax, have fun and have patience
Good luck :thumbup:
As always Sassy has great advice.
As a single female I get a little tired of all the cock shots. Around here they are a dime a a dozen. While I do understand not wanting to put a face pic on maybe you could indicate that you will send a face pic if requested. Also, as Sassy said, your ad is very clear in what you want which is good but I find it also is very clinical. Maybe you could reword it and tell a little more about your likes and dislikes. I don't necessarily mean you have to list your hobbies but you could maybe more detailed than just 'I like sex'. Afterall, we all like sex, otherwise why are we really here initially? As a single female I would be interested in knowing if you are tender, considerate, domineering etc. I would be interested in knowing a little about your boundaries. Also, this may just be me, I would like to know if you prefer slim or large women. Be careful and respectfulhow you word that though as it can come across offensive if done wrong. My reason for wanting to know that upfront is why waste mine and the guys time if he is looking for a size 6 and 5'2" woman when I am a size 12 and 5'8". Also as Sassy mentioned ... what can you offer me ..do you like to give massages? Do you like to meet for a drink to establish attraction? Etc.
Please understand this is only my viewpoint and not indicative of ALL women on here.
I wish you well in your search. Now get you ass over to the cafe forum and start 'meeting' people ... a sure fire way of getting yourself known. ;)
As a single female I get a little tired of all the cock shots. Around here they are a dime a a dozen. While I do understand not wanting to put a face pic on maybe you could indicate that you will send a face pic if requested. Also, as Sassy said, your ad is very clear in what you want which is good but I find it also is very clinical. Maybe you could reword it and tell a little more about your likes and dislikes. I don't necessarily mean you have to list your hobbies but you could maybe more detailed than just 'I like sex'. Afterall, we all like sex, otherwise why are we really here initially? As a single female I would be interested in knowing if you are tender, considerate, domineering etc. I would be interested in knowing a little about your boundaries. Also, this may just be me, I would like to know if you prefer slim or large women. Be careful and respectfulhow you word that though as it can come across offensive if done wrong. My reason for wanting to know that upfront is why waste mine and the guys time if he is looking for a size 6 and 5'2" woman when I am a size 12 and 5'8". Also as Sassy mentioned ... what can you offer me ..do you like to give massages? Do you like to meet for a drink to establish attraction? Etc.
Please understand this is only my viewpoint and not indicative of ALL women on here.
I wish you well in your search. Now get you ass over to the cafe forum and start 'meeting' people ... a sure fire way of getting yourself known. ;)
Sex God
Quote by Hornyinshef
Hi, can anyone tell me why no one replies to my messages or adverts?
Is my profile unattractive? I don't send cheesy one-liners, or anything gratuitous, just the offer to chat and maybe some great sex. I also don't message people who aren't looking for a single male. Do you think I'm too young? I can't think what else it could be!
Any help would be great!
in about the 2 years i think i can count the about of times someone has contracted me just on my ad alone on the fingers and thumbs of both hands.......
you happen to be one person out there in a vast number of people..... and unless you can stand out in one way or another then yes it is going to be hard....
you are a single bloke are in the largest group on the site... so women and couple can be very very selective about who they want, when they want and how many they want... just happens to be a fact of life.....
Sex God
Quote by fabio grooverider
in about the 2 years i think i can count the about of times someone has contracted me just on my ad alone on the fingers and thumbs of both hands.......
You have to use your fingers as well :shock: You lucky bastard
Thumbs suffice for me :lol: Regards
Harry Jones
