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Norfolk munch advice ??

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Hiya Dave
I think one of the main issues here (the one that springs to mind anyway) is that it's YOUR pub...therefore you personally would financiallyprofit from holding a Munch. Would you be holding it for the benefit of the SH members purely because you have the ideal venue....or because it would be of benefit to you personally? dunno
Also, as an organiser, people put alot of trust in you that things be done 'right', with discretion and regard for attendees safety - hence imo folk would need to 'know' you. I'm not saying you cant do it, & there hasnt been a Munch in Norfolk (to my knowledge) yet, but I do think that perhaps sticking around a bit and letting people 'get to know YOU' rather than 'Dave the pub landlord who owns a potential Munch venue' would stand you in better stead. It would also allow you to get to know the people you intend to invite ..I'm sure you learnt this one from the last doo you organised..- simply throwing open the doors to your own venue leaves you wide open to indiscretion from people who are less that scrupulous about their understanding of what a Munch is. Do you mind your pub being known to all the yocals as a swingers pub and what goes on there on weekends? lol - maybe you dont, going by your profile & pics.....but your Munch attendees might wink
Aside from all that, you would stand to profit from this - all venues do, but they're not usually SH members!
Add to what Darkfire's said, if you could get yourself to a munch it may help.
If the regular munch goers no you've been to one it would help build confidence - knowing that you're familiar with how they are actually run.
Just out of inerest how big is the venue?
I don't think it necessarily has to be a problem that you own it, but the questions Darkfire has asked will be asked by others :thumbup:
Dave, One good way to get known would be to drop into the chatroom - theres usually a norfolk/suffolk/anglia one on server 3. Dip your toe into the water and I'm sure you'll be welcomed.