Hi im Mark.
Im interested in meeting up with people in the North West area, and possibley the whole of the North of England if given enough notice.
I am a tall 23 year old male. I have brown hair and green eyes and i am attractive (even if i do say so myself!). I have been browsing this forum for a while but i am new to the scene so if your looking for a hardened swinger then i am probably not for you(although i could be trained lol).
So if your genuine and are (relitavely) normal then pm me and i will get back.
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Warming the Bed
Pray for a MIRACLE mate :shock: :cry: 
Warming the Bed
Well this explains it all for me mate : http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/45029.html
Let me know your thoughts
: :shock:
Let me know your thoughts
: :shock: That was spot on. I don't want to go to munches to be honest. I am a single male and would feel uneasy there, as it seems a very false, contrived situation.
I am genuine, discreet, good looking and up for fun. I really don' t know what is up with people.
Most people say get yourself known but they should see how hard it is and how unwelcoming people on here are to an outsider, it is like the masons!!
I am genuine, discreet, good looking and up for fun. I really don' t know what is up with people.
Most people say get yourself known but they should see how hard it is and how unwelcoming people on here are to an outsider, it is like the masons!!
Warming the Bed
Exactly
There might still be hope yet for us single males seeking WOMEN :shock: lol
There might still be hope yet for us single males seeking WOMEN :shock: lol
Quote by mark_nwest
That was spot on. I don't want to go to munches to be honest. I am a single male and would feel uneasy there, as it seems a very false, contrived situation.
I am genuine, discreet, good looking and up for fun. I really don' t know what is up with people.
Most people say get yourself known but they should see how hard it is and how unwelcoming people on here are to an outsider, it is like the masons!!
Quote by Sexalicious
Exactly
There might still be hope yet for us single males seeking WOMEN :shock: lol
There's no hope for either of you!! You just don't get it do you??
:? :? :? Warming the Bed
See your PM mate
Boys..... There are no stead fast rules on how to get a meet but what you have to realise is that there are thousands (and I do mean thousands) of single guys out there all looking to meet women and couples...
You have to make yourself stand out from the rest... And yes getting to a munch is a good way of getting yourself known... It's a fact that you get out what you put in....
There are people out there that meet single guys but they have so many to choose from...
Give it time and post a little more... Let your personality come through and you will find yourself being contacted...
Shireen
You have to make yourself stand out from the rest... And yes getting to a munch is a good way of getting yourself known... It's a fact that you get out what you put in....
There are people out there that meet single guys but they have so many to choose from...
Give it time and post a little more... Let your personality come through and you will find yourself being contacted...
Shireen
Quote by Sgt Bilko
That was spot on. I don't want to go to munches to be honest. I am a single male and would feel uneasy there, as it seems a very false, contrived situation.
I am genuine, discreet, good looking and up for fun. I really don' t know what is up with people.
Most people say get yourself known but they should see how hard it is and how unwelcoming people on here are to an outsider, it is like the masons!!
Quote by Sexalicious
Exactly
There might still be hope yet for us single males seeking WOMEN :shock: lol
There's no hope for either of you!! You just don't get it do you??
:? :? :?would you care to explain then?
Some people ( not you) make me laugh , with your higher than mighty morals, saying that you have to know someone and be friends when all most are looking for is some fun.
I know that if my personality shone through i would have people wanting to meet but i do not want a friend or someone who really likes my personality, as i already have them. I am looking for some fun.
Some people act that they are looking for friends, when all they want is sex. I am not a phoney, i say what i am looking for and i look for the same.
Warming the Bed
Quote by mark_nwest
did i miss something?
You catch my drift now mate :shock: fpmsl
To follow on from what Shireen said,we are a couple that meet single fellas,but put out a basic age range,but if we meet at munches etc and get to know you,then the age range becomes secondary to personality etc.....so as stated by many....MUNCHES are the way to go..
just my oppinion of course x
just my oppinion of course x
Quote by PeBbLeSDeMoN
To follow on from what Shireen said,we are a couple that meet single fellas,but put out a basic age range,but if we meet at munches etc and get to know you,then the age range becomes secondary to personality etc.....so as stated by many....MUNCHES are the way to go..
just my oppinion of course x
never doubt opinions, just hate being patronised
Warming the Bed
I think that applies to most males "mark" (including myself)
Just hate being PATRONISED :cry:
Just hate being PATRONISED :cry:
I think all that was being pointed out is that people really like to get to know each other here and in all fairness munches are nothing but a bloody good laugh...Sure honesty is good but whats wrong with a chat before arranging a meet.I wish you luck and plenty of fun,just dont expect it laid out before you on a plate. x
Quote by PeBbLeSDeMoN
I think all that was being pointed out is that people really like to get to know each other here and in all fairness munches are nothing but a bloody good laugh...Sure honesty is good but whats wrong with a chat before arranging a meet.I wish you luck and plenty of fun,just dont expect it laid out before you on a plate. x
i dont expect believe me, but even in the chat room you have to wait to be approached. what ever happened to taking the lead?
I cant comment on munch invites as I am not a munch organiser,I wish you well and hope you can see that the social aspect of SH is as important as anything else you may get out of that note its my bed time,but if you wish to chat more on the subject feel free to pm me ................ take care and good night xxxxxxxx
Warming the Bed
Quote by PeBbLeSDeMoN
I cant comment on munch invites as I am not a munch organiser,I wish you well and hope you can see that the social aspect of SH is as important as anything else you may get out of that note its my bed time,but if you wish to chat more on the subject feel free to pm me ................ take care and good night xxxxxxxx
Hi
Well i think i can speak on behalf of "mark" on this one aswell,but please correct me if i'm wrong mate
This is the most pleasant anybody has talked to me so far unless it was directly intended to "mark" only
but i totally agree with you as far as the social aspect is concerned but what you also have to consider is what "mark" said earlier which is that not everyone on here wishes to meet with ppl other than the ppl they are seekingI totally respect your opinion and just wish the mods could do the same instead of putting the newcomers down all the time :cry:
Respect comes with pleasantness :wink:
Sex God
Sexalicious, people have been trying to have a bit of fun with you and tried to give you some good acvice on how to be more successful. As you said you are looking for fun, but (and I can only speak for myself) I feel that swinging is about having 'recreational sex' with people who you feel comfortable with, and I would only feel comfortable with someone who I had chatted to, whether that be on the forum, in person or on the phone.
Both you, Sexalicious and Mark say you do not want to get to know the people you are meeting and that is your decision, however, as PeBbLeSDeMoN said, most people do want to know a bit about you first, if only for the safety side of things (inviting a complete stranger to your home/visiting the home of a complete stranger).
PeBbLeSDeMoN also mentioned the number of single men looking for single females or couples is much higher than the number of couples or females who are looking. I am not trying to be difficult, but why should any of them pick either of you? What have you done to show that you are better than the rest of them? You both need to sell yourselves and show the couples/females that you are worth meeting rather than a couple of blokes who are not willing to put any effort into finding a suitable female/couple. Try to think about how you have both come accross in your posts - if you are not willing to put the effort into a post, would you bother putting in any effort during sex? I am not saying that is the case, but that is how it is coming accross in your posts.
As for Munches, I have organised two munches lately and have had loads of single guys on the lists. Munches are a social night but it allows others to meet you in a relaxed environment and see that you are genuine. Mark, invites are not that hard to get, but you do need to put in a bit of effort, for example, ask for an invite!!!
Anyway, I wish you both luck and hope you both find exactly what you are looking for. Try to remember that Swinging Heaven is not like a lot of other Swinging sites, it is more a community. If it is just a quick shag you are after then maybe one of the other sites would be better for you. If you want to become part of one the most active Swinging communities then you are in the right place, but is down to you to make the effort to join in!
Both you, Sexalicious and Mark say you do not want to get to know the people you are meeting and that is your decision, however, as PeBbLeSDeMoN said, most people do want to know a bit about you first, if only for the safety side of things (inviting a complete stranger to your home/visiting the home of a complete stranger).
PeBbLeSDeMoN also mentioned the number of single men looking for single females or couples is much higher than the number of couples or females who are looking. I am not trying to be difficult, but why should any of them pick either of you? What have you done to show that you are better than the rest of them? You both need to sell yourselves and show the couples/females that you are worth meeting rather than a couple of blokes who are not willing to put any effort into finding a suitable female/couple. Try to think about how you have both come accross in your posts - if you are not willing to put the effort into a post, would you bother putting in any effort during sex? I am not saying that is the case, but that is how it is coming accross in your posts.
As for Munches, I have organised two munches lately and have had loads of single guys on the lists. Munches are a social night but it allows others to meet you in a relaxed environment and see that you are genuine. Mark, invites are not that hard to get, but you do need to put in a bit of effort, for example, ask for an invite!!!
Anyway, I wish you both luck and hope you both find exactly what you are looking for. Try to remember that Swinging Heaven is not like a lot of other Swinging sites, it is more a community. If it is just a quick shag you are after then maybe one of the other sites would be better for you. If you want to become part of one the most active Swinging communities then you are in the right place, but is down to you to make the effort to join in!
Warming the Bed
too many single, males we are the majority and supply out weighs demand, so don`t get to know people may mean fewer meets, get to know people means you get invited more. all depends which way you go....... 
Life is but a tick on the clock of evolution !!
Life is but a tick on the clock of evolution !!
Sex God
If all you guys want is sex go and pay for it you tight gits, and leave is lot alone. FFS 
:roll: :roll: :roll:
However, if you want a bloody good laugh and to make some top friends stick around and come to the munches.... nah on the other hand, people with no sense of humour are a pain the the butt, so no, don't bother.... go and look up ESCORTS in the Yellow Pages.....
:roll: :roll: :roll:
:roll: :roll: :roll: However, if you want a bloody good laugh and to make some top friends stick around and come to the munches.... nah on the other hand, people with no sense of humour are a pain the the butt, so no, don't bother.... go and look up ESCORTS in the Yellow Pages.....
:roll: :roll: :roll:
Sexlightened
yeh i do agree with wigan got to try to build on the friends side of things first,i couldnt get an invite for the last munch in wigan and it was only down the road,but i had only just joined this site,and the naughty wigan cpl sent me a nice pm explaining this,and i thank them fot that..
Sex God
actaully i posted it in another thread before but i think that it illustrates a point....
just look in the ads for a moment.... in the last 90 days:
number of pages of men seeking couples: 159
number of pages of couples seeking men: 34
so roughly 5 times as many...
number of pages of men seeking women: 237
number of pages of women seeking men: 6
so roughly 40 times as many....
so it is a case of making yourself stand out... and making yourself known certainly does help....how well do you sell yourself? why should people want to get to know you... give them a reason.....
i know that it is a cliche.... but you do get out of SH what you put in.... so if want to put in nothing and want lots of fun... you will end up getting out nothing.....
sean xxxxxxx
just look in the ads for a moment.... in the last 90 days:
number of pages of men seeking couples: 159
number of pages of couples seeking men: 34
so roughly 5 times as many...
number of pages of men seeking women: 237
number of pages of women seeking men: 6
so roughly 40 times as many....
so it is a case of making yourself stand out... and making yourself known certainly does help....how well do you sell yourself? why should people want to get to know you... give them a reason.....
i know that it is a cliche.... but you do get out of SH what you put in.... so if want to put in nothing and want lots of fun... you will end up getting out nothing.....
sean xxxxxxx
