Hiya :welcome: to:swingingchair: heaven.
Have you thought about attending one of the socials?
That way you and ytour wife could get to know a few people and ask questions in a no pressure environment 1st and then if you find you're happy, take the next step with someone you've already met and feel comfortable with
Whatever you decide good luck :thumbup:
ffs
just had a pm off this giuy asking me to be his date
what happened to your mrs ?
wants to meet first without his mrs
heard these a few times now in swinging pmsl
thanks jo
Firstly I am a married man and my profile is a bit of a nightmare i know
and as for ginger jo yes i did ask to accompany her on a meet but just because i wanted a person to help me out
am i right in saying it was a social and no naughtyness was happening,
and so i submit my motives were purely honest as what could i possibly gain except a chat
my wife is keen to try out the scene but has a slight disabilty and so she is keen for me to test the water so to speak stairs can be a problem
so please dont make me the damned just yet
if any of you out there wish to chat to her then i am sure she would agree
thank in advance to anyone who does not condemn me for being a bit of a wally the way i have gone about this
my profile is now updated
but if you want us to leave you people alone i will respect your wishes and leave the site
if you do just tell me
hope your not going to
I realise there are bluffers on here and i understand its a pain in the bottom
hiya
does the mrs mind you meeting without her as u said uto me u wanted to meet alone b4 u met with the mrs
if your mrs is gen give me a pm and i will chat to her on the phone
thanks jo
Put yr money where yr mouth is mrgratz lol.
just to keep you in the picture my wife and i have got chatting to a local couple who sound very compatible, when it rains it pours!
and so for you cynics out there we may come back to you in a short while or we may just go off into the sunset with our local buddies and live happily ever after
and jo thanks for the number we may still talk.
In the mean time enjoy your cynisism If thats how you spell it?
ps we understand whats happening, No one trusts anyone because theres a whole lot of er! wallies out there
we dont think your against us
all we ask is dont write us off too quickly cos we are also very very cautious
we love you all really
xxx
ps weve dug our hole now
does anyone want to buy a secondhand spade?
gave u my number but didnt hear from you 2
thanks jo
Hi jo my wife does want to call you just not sure when
kids and things do get in the way!
what are good nights to ring?
like i said earlier it would have to be around 10pm
hi well we also r from the north west so please have alook at us n hope we can ease u in n have fun hehe xxx
off this site who would be more than happy to help carry your wife up the stairs if required...........
- but you never know??? 
