Not having any luck at all M for M

5 Jan 2006

I have lots of replies but as soon as I try to arrange a meet I find people are not as available as they say. Maybe they just want something to w**nk about then go to bed with the missus. FOR GODS SAKE I ONLY WANT TO SUCK SOMEONE.

10 Jan 2006

Quote by phill1956uk
I have lots of replies but as soon as I try to arrange a meet I find people are not as available as they say. Maybe they just want something to w**nk about then go to bed with the missus. FOR GODS SAKE I ONLY WANT TO SUCK SOMEONE.

Hello Phil - can't tell from your profile how long you have been a member but I can understand your frustration with this. I've been on here for over a year and the number of meets I've had with other men I can count easily on one hand.
The disadvantage you have (and I share) is lack of being able to accommodate. This naturally limits your opportunities, especially when it comes to meeting bi or bi-curious men.
There are a significant number of men on here (and other similar sites) who are exploring new sexual territories and they have a lot to reconcile. It can be hard for someone to actually take the first step and commit to a meet, much though they may want to.
I've lost count of the number of people who have arranged a meet (or at least have been leading up to one via countless messages and chats) and have then bottled it at the last minute. This is particularly frustrating when they've made all the moves in the first place!
I have to say thanks to one member on here (cheers Al) who recently got an attack of the nerves and stood me up, but then not only had the decency to get back in contact with me about it to apologise, but also agreed to meet at a later date...and a good time was had all round.
Keep persevering - you will eventually make contact with someone (if you're prepared to keep putting the effort in). Bear in mind that not everyone finds it easy to go through with a meet, especially for the first time.
Good luck wink

10 Jan 2006

Be good as well to tell people about yourself, what you are looking for and most importantly, where in the Country you are..
Many people are just browsing and will only take notice of what's nearby so if an ad says "ten miles from you" in reading it, then there is more chance that people will take notice as opposed to having no idea where you are from...
Me - from Essex, nr Stansted Airport....(just for the record)..olh and bi...!
Gordy... biggrin

11 Jan 2006

i know where your coming from im curious but actually making the jump to trying somthing is hard lots of hang ups, did get an invite to glory hole but not sure, any advise would be appresiated