Well number one
you will never pull a women on here by saying i want a shag lets meet ok
please put somthing abit more about your self ok
beacuse littel old debs here is getting a littel pissed off... and i no of others .that will just agnor stupid posts in the meet ups!.....
if you are reall gen then consider this....you think that us women are slappers then your wrong......... we all have values on here............ and very fussy
So p[lease all you newbie men go away and think before you put stupid posts in here thinking you are going to get loads of women to shag
grow up
and good luck and i hope you listen to what i have said ok
the best place to get known is the cafe!
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Quote by Debbiewebs
Well number one
you will never pull a women on here by saying i want a shag lets meet ok
That is the last thing on my mind!!! O. K. ?
please put somthing abit more about your self ok
beacuse littel old debs here is getting a littel pissed off... and i no of others .that will just agnor stupid posts in the meet ups!.....
if you are reall gen then consider this....you think that us women are slappers then your wrong......... we all have values on here............ and very fussy
So p[lease all you newbie men go away and think before you put stupid posts in here thinking you are going to get loads of women to shag
grow up
and good luck and i hope you listen to what i have said ok
the best place to get known is the cafe!
Debs waits for this post to get taps foot!
Quote by Herts Man
Hi Debbie
Allow me to be the first to be stupid enough to reply
Clearly to are fed up to the back teeth with the idiots here (and yes there do seem to be alot) but we're not all the same. Some of us men are as genuine as you.
Take care Mark
thank MARK!..................I TOTEL AGREE
please do not think in any way that i am tieing all men with the same brush ok
now way
i have met some fantastic men on this site and beleave you me..... its not the ones that post or pm me with hi i like your www site would love to shag you
You see Debbie, i posted something alone these lines the other day and got absolutely slated for it.
Double Standards methinks
:shock:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/50739.html
OK, granted, mine was tongue in cheek, and not so straight-forward, but its the same thing!
The only blessing is that these stupid threads get locked quickly
Double Standards methinks
:shock:http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/50739.html
OK, granted, mine was tongue in cheek, and not so straight-forward, but its the same thing!
The only blessing is that these stupid threads get locked quickly
Sex God
Debbie,
I wrote this a few weeks ago (with thanks to Marcuso) for the single males......
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/46349.html
(could I also point out to the new single males, that I am over 40+ and I don't play with 21 year olds, but there are lots of lovely ladies on this site who do)
I wrote this a few weeks ago (with thanks to Marcuso) for the single males......
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/46349.html
(could I also point out to the new single males, that I am over 40+ and I don't play with 21 year olds, but there are lots of lovely ladies on this site who do)
Problem is Debs that there are women about who will get in touch when they see the word shag. Not everybody is the same, some want to get to know you first some want just to - mmm shag.
If this was not the case how come over the years i have had sexual encounters with many women who were total strangers.
I appreciate that not all women are like this as not are all men.
heres to variety of mind
yours as ever
Blue-boy
If this was not the case how come over the years i have had sexual encounters with many women who were total strangers.
I appreciate that not all women are like this as not are all men.
heres to variety of mind
yours as ever
Blue-boy
Quote by 3someinpreston
You see Debbie, i posted something alone these lines the other day and got absolutely slated for it.
Double Standards methinks
well i might yet
But i am really tying to help the newbies really we all want to welcome them into the site!
but not when they post like some of them are doing
i am not slagging them off at all just try to show them the way!..............i no i am not the best of peeps to help but hay ho i am trying
Nah i get ya Debs. Thats all I intended really - its just a bit repetitive seeing the word "up for shag cum get it" or "bukkake anyone?".
I also posted a thread encouraging the idea of Mentors too. It'd probably be a good idea to have a "newbie" sticky outlining the correct way to post a friendly and appealing ad.
I know i'm new myself but i'd construct the thread if no one else would like to - anything is better than repetitive ads all the time!
I also posted a thread encouraging the idea of Mentors too. It'd probably be a good idea to have a "newbie" sticky outlining the correct way to post a friendly and appealing ad.
I know i'm new myself but i'd construct the thread if no one else would like to - anything is better than repetitive ads all the time!
Sex God
so does that mean there no chance of meeting for a shag?
Quote by blue-boy
Problem is Debs that there are women about who will get in touch when they see the word shag. Not everybody is the same, some want to get to know you first some want just to - mmm shag.
If this was not the case how come over the years i have had sexual encounters with many women who were total strangers.
I appreciate that not all women are like this as not are all men.
heres to variety of mind
yours as ever
Blue-boy
you can happly metion the word shag........ we are all swingers!
but it has to come with a littel bit more then........... fansey a shag darling..... dont it!!!
Sorry but i find it very hard that women fall for thses posts..we have had loads of men conplaning on this site that they do not get any where!
i wonder way
sorry but being on this site for over a year and noing loads af gen peeps i find your reply to womens reponse to men fansy a shag unreal!
Quote by Sarah
Debbie,
I wrote this a few weeks ago (with thanks to Marcuso) for the single males......
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/46349.html
(could I also point out to the new single males, that I am over 40+ and I don't play with 21 year olds, but there are lots of lovely ladies on this site who do)
sarah....good paot babes
but they just do not seem to listen
we are all here to help
so thats way i am putting this in again
Sex God
Quote by Debbiewebs
so does that mean there no chance of meeting for a shag?
you no babes............... you are such a smasher you do make me laugh
lov ya
Debsxxxxxxxx
look at it this way, if they do post the usual got a 12" cock & shag like a road drill, it' makes it easier to spot the morons
Quote by Fred aka Medic 1
Awwwww
This bloke would never dream of talking to a Lady in that manner Debbs.
I know what you mean though hun and I agree.
From a mere mortal man .
Fred. (call him what you like )
FRED!!................... whats happened to ya face FGS.............. Debs slaps hand on head
Quote by meat2pleaseu
so does that mean there no chance of meeting for a shag?
you no babes............... you are such a smasher you do make me laugh
lov ya
Debsxxxxxxxx
look at it this way, if they do post the usual got a 12" cock & shag like a road drill, it' makes it easier to spot the morons
i just wished babes that men have a www site that we can see what they are about cough cough upps sorry bad cold here
Having been around on the scene on and off for years............its a fekking nightmare..but yes at certain ages, us men are prepared to try different things.
So like all things in life we all meet both males and females who can conduct themselves accordingly..no matter the occasion..and ........as we all know there are others you would rather not meet..again both male and female!
I know what i want..........and I usually get it...it does take time patience and a whole lot of understanding!
So if you are genuinely single..enjoy..if you want to go with cpls..then again enjoy..if you want to try group parties..enjoy.........but some where along the line..it all changes!!
At the end of the day...you can offer all the advice under the sun...but if the person in question aint receptive..they will learn the hard way!!
So like all things in life we all meet both males and females who can conduct themselves accordingly..no matter the occasion..and ........as we all know there are others you would rather not meet..again both male and female!
I know what i want..........and I usually get it...it does take time patience and a whole lot of understanding!
So if you are genuinely single..enjoy..if you want to go with cpls..then again enjoy..if you want to try group parties..enjoy.........but some where along the line..it all changes!!
At the end of the day...you can offer all the advice under the sun...but if the person in question aint receptive..they will learn the hard way!!
Sex God
As much as i agree with you debbiewebs on everything you wrote... however i do feel it is wrong to embarrass people in the thread by putting up the links to those which highlighted the problem... for as much as i know that kind of ad turns a lot of people off, me included.. there may be people out there who want nothing better than to arrange a quick meet.....
Just the same as clubs i have visited.... there are people who like to talk alot before they play, there are also people who talk for 5 seconds before they do,
If swinging heaven is suppose to represent the general swinging community, then obviously lets meet up is going to show a cross-section of those views.... whether we like them or not...
the best thing to do is not to highlight them, if we don't like something don't post, and if they aren't successful then maybe they will realise that isn't going to work, and realise at the same time that to a lot of people here.. it is more than just about the sex
sean xxxxxxxxx
Just the same as clubs i have visited.... there are people who like to talk alot before they play, there are also people who talk for 5 seconds before they do,
If swinging heaven is suppose to represent the general swinging community, then obviously lets meet up is going to show a cross-section of those views.... whether we like them or not...
the best thing to do is not to highlight them, if we don't like something don't post, and if they aren't successful then maybe they will realise that isn't going to work, and realise at the same time that to a lot of people here.. it is more than just about the sex
sean xxxxxxxxx
Provided they don't break the AUP, then people can try whatever method they think will work for them and their requirements.
Some members may dislike the fancy a shag approach, however it works for others.
If that is the approach they wish to take, then why not let them get on with it?
If it isn't succesful they can try something else.
Not everyone likes the way some regulars post, but such is life.
Every user has a choice to avoid those threads (and meets) with postings that they feel don't have what it takes for them.
Jas
XXX
Some members may dislike the fancy a shag approach, however it works for others.
If that is the approach they wish to take, then why not let them get on with it?
If it isn't succesful they can try something else.
Not everyone likes the way some regulars post, but such is life.
Every user has a choice to avoid those threads (and meets) with postings that they feel don't have what it takes for them.
Jas
XXX
Sex God
Just playing devils advocate here but...
If a guy posts a detailed intelligent post explaining what he wants and trying to sell himself along with a link to a well-written Advert including facial or full body pics rather than just a cock he will probably still get a big fat zero of actual interest!
In my opinion the odds of getting a meet from a LMU post if you're a guy are about the same regardless of what you actually write and if you just fancy a shag it is perhaps more honest to simply say so.
I would however suggest a brief description and a location would help.
Maybe I should try an Ad with a cock pic along with a 3 line LMU posting and see if I have any luck!
Roger the Dragon
If a guy posts a detailed intelligent post explaining what he wants and trying to sell himself along with a link to a well-written Advert including facial or full body pics rather than just a cock he will probably still get a big fat zero of actual interest!
In my opinion the odds of getting a meet from a LMU post if you're a guy are about the same regardless of what you actually write and if you just fancy a shag it is perhaps more honest to simply say so.
I would however suggest a brief description and a location would help.
Maybe I should try an Ad with a cock pic along with a 3 line LMU posting and see if I have any luck!
Roger the Dragon
I've just read your ad Roger and it's fab!! DO NOT revert to caveman-like posting under any circumstances.
However, I agree with Jas - people will post as their personality dictates. We can choose to ignore or respond at will. Just because a post/thread doesn't appeal doesn't mean it won't appeal to others.
Who said youth is wasted on the young???
However, I agree with Jas - people will post as their personality dictates. We can choose to ignore or respond at will. Just because a post/thread doesn't appeal doesn't mean it won't appeal to others.
Who said youth is wasted on the young???
