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Hi every one, now bit worried about asking this because in the past every time I have posted anything on this site I have been insulted or ridiculed, so here goes......
Right I have been on here since March as a single bi have been in that time loads of parties localy.
Now my problem is at 54 I am old school and was brought up been told....you dont invite yourself toa party or ask to go to one....why.....because its bad manners to invite yourself to someone elses home........
So I sit and wait for the loads of pople who look at my profile to invite me and.........
NOTHING
So how do I go against my upbringing (which younger people will think is stupid, and I agree it is) and get my self invited to parties??????
PLease help dont insult or make fun of me xxxxxxxxx
Just put yourself down for the meets and parties in the Lets Meet up section. You're fine you'll do okay.
Quote by duncanlondon
Just put yourself down for the meets and parties in the Lets Meet up section. You're fine you'll do okay.

:thumbup: If there is an event advertised in here, then the idea is you simply indicate your interest by signing up - same as in the Club Meets forum.
Go for it!
The whole point of the parties etc being advertised is for people to ask their names be put on the list....
Next one you see that you fancy going to...........Add your name :thumbup:
So doesnt anyone invite people anymore in this day and age or is it the norm now to just gate crash....? oh well cant see me going to many parties hahahahaha
Quote by LegsandDinky
So doesnt anyone invite people anymore in this day and age or is it the norm now to just gate crash....? oh well cant see me going to many parties hahahahaha

Its not gatecrashing......Not as we know it :lol2:
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So doesnt anyone invite people anymore in this day and age or is it the norm now to just gate crash....? oh well cant see me going to many parties hahahahaha

I have been invited to parties by people I have met on the site; I have also happily signed up for socials as described above. I haven't gatecrashed any and I've enjoyed them all.
dunno
Still not realy got an answer but never mind seems you just go against everything I was taught as a girl now and just put your name down ... oh well so much for manners eh xxxx ty all xx
Quote by LegsandDinky
Still not realy got an answer but never mind seems you just go against everything I was taught as a girl now and just put your name down ... oh well so much for manners eh xxxx ty all xx

Were you taught as a little girl that recreational sex was good manners?
Putting you name down for a social - when that is the accepted thing - isn't bad manners.
I give up on this topic I never have any luck with my posts in the forums dont know why I bother with them, to be honest I wish I had just got on with things like I always did and never mentioned it.
I have noticed that all of the people who have made comments are in their early 30's and not of the same age as myself...well life growing up in the 50's was a hell of a lot differant than growing up in the 70's.... haha
I am closing this topic now so thank you for those who have contributed even tho none of it has been of any help to me.
As an after thought I have noticed that it seems all the moderators are in their early 30's .....how come there arnt any more mature ones say in their 50's 60'
Ohh gawd gonna get slaughtered for tha one no doubt hahahahaha
Good luck all have a smuch fun as I am out of this site xx
Evexxx