Photo Ads? Going out tonight :)

6 Aug 2004

Hello just wondering if people from the site actually bother to go through the photo ad sections or just sit and wait for replys ?? sad

As you can see we have been on this site now for quite a while and apart from the usuall single guys or couples who for some reason can't or wont read the ad properly, have had very little response :cry: Ok Ok I know we might be mingers or old compaired to a lot on here but that does not stop us enjoying sex does it ? :P Anyway please feel free to take a look (READ) at our ad (Link at bottom of page) as we are as it says free most times and would be happy to hear from other people like us who maybe would like to meet up albeit just for an afternoon/evening BBQ or a drink and a laugh wink

6 Aug 2004

i don't think there is anything wrong with your ad at all.......
i am sure that you will meet some likeminded people eventually.... and it will be oh so worth it.....
and besides if they are so shallow to not like you because of your pics (again.. nothing wrong with them either!) then not really the people you want to be having long term fun with anyway.....
sean xxxxxxxxxxxxx
i think you are both nice people anyway... if only you weren't so far away.... and i wasn't single!!! lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:

6 Aug 2004

We have an ad here and also go through the ads, responding to what we like the look of, and have had positive results.
A lot of people don't use the forum who place ads, and some just read the form and reply to posts by the looks of it - we've hooked up with some interesting people after they read my forum posts who I've never seen post a message or join a thread.
We do get our fair share of people who can't read as well - obviously single guys, and a few couples, and even some single females - one wanted me to play with just her, one wanted me to play with her and her husband, and one who sent a message to just Richard.
But clear all those out of the way and you are left with the ones worth contacting and meeting. And fucking of course.
Rachel
wink

7 Aug 2004

Ah well no interest so far apart from the two kind people who gave us their views on this, a thank you to both kiss

Anyway this evening (SAT) we are thinking of going into portsmouth to a well known pub renowned for their understanding of both the swinging and gay/bi community. If any other couples/fems fancy comming along let us know and we will Pvt you with the location wink

7 Aug 2004

We have an ad on here in the "couples seeking couples" section and have had very little response to it. The replies we have had have been from people who haven't read the ad properly. So no success there as yet. However, we recently decided to organise an outdoor session with single guys and posted on the dogging forum. The response was fantastic and we had a great time.

7 Aug 2004

Hey good for you redbird hun hope you had a great time hump

Hey no problem getting single males but unfortunatly for us we dont look for them and not into the dogging scene confused

but good for you babes
Guess its us being to fussy but then again thinking of it , its our bodies.

7 Aug 2004

Well knowing you to as i do, I can say that your both good fun to be with and chat with both on line and in person..
:silly: well you know me and looks at tall the crap i've had from the ad I put up :small-print: , so now I'm down to talkiing to people and listening to what people say about me...he he he :eeek:
:bounce: to all those reading this go talk to mick and shaz, well worth it and very honest

7 Aug 2004

Awwwww ty babes kiss

you really are a nice man and I for one have never heard a bad word said about you

Quote by Biker311-SWales
:silly: well you know me and looks at all the crap i've had from the ad I put up :small-print: , so now I'm down to talkiing to people and listening to what people say about me...he he he :eeek:

Biker hun I think they all must be staying in tonight or have other arrangments :doh:
NOTE TO SELF change ad it don't work lol

7 Aug 2004

Must agree with whats been said so far. We used to have a photo ad,and had loads of replies from people who hadn't read it properly. We have had a lot better results posting on the dogging forum, especially if its for a specific date or request.

7 Aug 2004

Just had a look at your ad, you sound like a great couple, shame your not around Staffordshire !!, great pictures lol

8 Aug 2004

Hey TY Bridgette hun kiss

lol take you up on that one day :P

8 Aug 2004

know i'm a single guy, so not what you're looking for, but thought i'd mention it anyway. Ur pics are great, and what are you saying bout ur bodies? there's nothing wrong with them in the slightest, i'd respond to ur ad now if it was desired smile

9 Aug 2004

Still Looking rolleyes

9 Aug 2004

Your ad looks fine.
Think the problem might be the "soft swap" option. I mean, we do answer ads for couples we like the look of, but we're in it for the sex, so soft swap seems a waste of a meet.
I'm not saying everyone feels that, but it's a possibility.
At parties and clubs we can watch, perform, do soft, or go for it if you like the look of someone. With answering ads, people tend to have specific things in mind when they advertise and look.
I only advertise for girls to join us - both lesbians who don't shag Richard and bi-fems who do.
I don't advertise to invite couples, I prefer to look at the ads and reply to the ones I like, and that's usually down to if I like the look of the woman.
However if Richard isn't going to be fucking her, and I'm not going to fuck her husband, seems pointless contacting a couple, and just stick with our single girls, or do the clubs and parties.
Hope that gives some perspective.
Maybe either broaden what you are prepared to do, or just wait it out - patience will be rewarded in time I guess. The people looking at the ads and answering have very specific ideas on what they are looking for. The narrower your "offer", the less chance of a reply.
Rachel
wink

9 Aug 2004

Hey rachel hun it does say soft swing INITIALLY as been let down before by selfish cpls who are only in it for them selfs sad

. You know the types we meen, Great with tongue, fingers , always make sure the fems are catered for that sort of thing (heard it many times ) so just trying another option thats all. rolleyes

9 Aug 2004

Hi Shaz, yeh I was just chucking some ideas your way about why no replies.
Obviously tracking results is easy from successes = people tell you what attracted them - but hard to know why people aren't replying unless people let you know why, which doesn't really happen!
Kind of like change the headline, txt, photo and site for different ads and get different responses, then different kinds of people.
Results tracking is an art in the marketing world!
Rachel
wink

10 Aug 2004

Hi
We struggle meeting people due to having 4 kids at home although when we get out to swingers clubs and meet people we find we can have a good old chin wag in the bar and have luckily found a couple of couples who we can trust. The kids think they are old friends from friends reunited. We hired a hot tub this week for a week to have party to celebrate hubbies 34th (Nearly 40 now lol). We had a great time and ran the kids ragged all day then calpol after teatime does the trick. Sorry about the waffling just wanted to say its a shame your so far away as we don't mind wether we full or softswing as its all a 2 way street, It would be boring if we were all the same. So keep going don't know if you have tried any clubs yet but we find them very good. After all wer have only been swinging for 3 months but we are surley making up for the lost time!!!!
Good luck
Tamworth_Couple

10 Aug 2004

:silly: Sod it think we'll just have to move north lol :shock:

13 Aug 2004

:happy: Hey Hey Looks like the weathers going to be nice again this weekend biggrin

Forcast is good so heres hoping :thrilled: