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Possibility of Singles Social but maybe with a twist??

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Hi
would love to attend as a single guy especially as I have attended several socials as a single guy and often felt like a lepper so to attend an event where eveyone is the same would be great
andy
both is fine please put my name on the lsit as well
Def count me in on this 1 minxie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
ok so i am in on this one i like the i dear both way but i would like the singles one best as i like to play but at the end of the day i would like a reguler partner as well
please put me down for this one...
im all in favour of the "format"...
Minxie, can you let me kno ov anywhere too stay plz, def comin to this 1, missed the last 1, but gona stay ova, so i shall need places too stay smile
minx.
are you limiting the amount of guys/gals etc.
As i suspect your social would be flooded with single guys.
be interested to know so i can see nearer the time what im doing.
thank you
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Minxie, can you let me kno ov anywhere too stay plz, def comin to this 1, missed the last 1, but gona stay ova, so i shall need places too stay smile

Hey Missy..
I shall indeed make sure your sorted ok should this be a sure thing wink No worries, glad to have you on board x
Tyracer..
Im not yet thinking of any gender restrictions as Ive not booked a venue yet so wont know how many it holds till then. But hopefully there will be none and it'll all be just party party hehehe drinkies
Minxie :rascal: xx
we're a couple that likes to play with singles and also a couple were the fem can play with singles - if that makes sense??
Would we be able to come? - or are we just too complicated? lol
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we're a couple that likes to play with singles and also a couple were the fem can play with singles - if that makes sense??
Would we be able to come? - or are we just too complicated? lol

Now I can verify you both personaly :grin: so you know your always welcome x x x x
Minxie :rascal: xx
sounds like a good idea to include couples who only half play to me i would support that
Hi Minxie,
I was busy for the last singles meet but I'd love to get involved on this one. More power to your elbow !
I'm easy on allowing couples along but as I'd be interested in a swinging partner it'd be nice to avoid confusion as to who was single as I wouldn't want to step on anyones toes.
Rob x
Hi Minxie I think that it is a great idea and I would love an invite if it goes ahead, my preference would be singles but in saying that if the couples are totally happy with the scenario then I do not see any problems. Once again great idea Minxie.
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After the successful singles social which I organised last year, I was 'thinking' of doing another, possibly around valentines or late Feb. The last one was for the 'totally single' only, so that everyone there knew beyond doubt, that everyone attending was available for play, or something more, should they click with someone... This time I was thinking of also including only those couples that 'both' play, or the one half of the couple that does.
The idea of this is so that anyone who would like to approach someone, doesn't worry of offending by being 'over familiar' to someone who doesn't 'get active' and just likes to chat.
Saying that, this would be totally a social & not a sexual meeting but would give an opportunity to meet the likeminded.
Does this sound like a possibility?? Or would you prefere totally singles only?? Or not bother at all lol
It would again be here in Loughborough.
Thanx
Minxie :rascal: xx

Okay... so just that I can get my head totally round what you are proposing, and no one has asked the question that I have wondered,
The only people that would be excluded from this event would be couples who exclusively only play with other couples... is this correct?
I only ask because when you look at a lot of profiles you see that couples are prepared to play with singles of one sex, but not the other...
It isn't a criticism of the idea, it is a genuine question before I decide whether to put my name down, subject to confirmation of dates ect....
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After the successful singles social which I organised last year, I was 'thinking' of doing another, possibly around valentines or late Feb. The last one was for the 'totally single' only, so that everyone there knew beyond doubt, that everyone attending was available for play, or something more, should they click with someone... This time I was thinking of also including only those couples that 'both' play, or the one half of the couple that does.
The idea of this is so that anyone who would like to approach someone, doesn't worry of offending by being 'over familiar' to someone who doesn't 'get active' and just likes to chat.
Saying that, this would be totally a social & not a sexual meeting but would give an opportunity to meet the likeminded.
Does this sound like a possibility?? Or would you prefere totally singles only?? Or not bother at all lol
It would again be here in Loughborough.
Thanx
Minxie :rascal: xx

Okay... so just that I can get my head totally round what you are proposing, and no one has asked the question that I have wondered,
The only people that would be excluded from this event would be couples who exclusively only play with other couples... is this correct?
I only ask because when you look at a lot of profiles you see that couples are prepared to play with singles of one sex, but not the other...
It isn't a criticism of the idea, it is a genuine question before I decide whether to put my name down, subject to confirmation of dates ect....
Hey Fabio.
I understand your point entirely & yes, this would not be for couples who exclusively play with other couples. There are Tons of socials all over where anyone of any status is welcome but the single peeps don't know which, or if any, of the couples there play alone with their partners consent. So thats why Im trying to make it a tad easier by inviting just those peeps that do.
And the other point about, only playing with one sex n not the other, Im guessing there'll always be that personal preference involved & people cant wear labels :lol: but as long as they know they BOTH play with said single, only chatting can determine if your each others type. With this in mind, Im sure no-one will feel threatened, if approached for a chat, by their wrong preferred partner.
Did that make sence?? confused lol.
Minxie :rascal: xx
how is ths getting on? i would love to go to a singles night and its in my town too ;)
let me know please
Stu
xx
Hi all xx
Just a quick reply...
Sorry for the delay, I had eye surgery a week ago and have encountered some problems which has delayed my full sight returning as expected, So have great difficulty in reading but can closely type lol
Im unsure when my sight will return enough for me to answer any questions but please be patient with me and I will post properly once I can a) See!.. b) think properly rolleyes
Thanx peeps..
Minxie :rascal: xx
Hi Minxie,
I really enjoyed the last one and would love to come to the next one.
I'm not fussed about singles only, so whatever you and the others want is fine by me.
xox
hi
noticed your ad would be interested
get back in touch
cameron
Hi all
Yes I promise as soon as I know if it's going ahead etc I will p.m. everyone's who's stated an interest.
Thanx Minxie :rascal: xx
This sounds like a great idea......allowing singles to get together in the same frame of mind.
Plz put my name down as i think this will be a great event.......its not about the sex but certainly the party atmosphere.... cool
Put me down as a definite - as long as I'm not broke!
Going on Fabios theme.
Couples can come if they play with singles. Does this mean:
a) A couple that play with single male only
b) A couple that play with single women only
c) A couple that play with both
Which ones would be able to attend?
Dave_Notts
are we making (whats supposed to be a fun thing) too dificult? no one said it would be easy,lol.
Pending location location location, and date once arranged, I would STILL Like to attend, as a single male (ie, no hidden gf/partner/wife, as once accused in east midlands by a stranger who didn't know me) that DOES like to play and not just "here to chat". Phew!
Okay, whether the couple like to play with others, only males or only females, that's up to them - all I ask is that they don't give me grief about it when I proposition them. ...
"How dare you ask if you can play with my wife! We only play with other females as you males bring nothing to the table!"
My response: "Really? And what about the £30 I paid on the door so YOU BOTH could get in for free?"
Lol.
Seriously, agree with the rationale and motivation - the logistics can be finalized, I reckon, with little or no fuss . Hope you're feeling less cock-eyed hun xxx
Yes Please biggrin
Subject to the usual when and where!!
Definitely interested, just let me know the details when you know them. Hope your sight gets better soon.
x
What a fine idea!
Count me in.
Adam