It has been good 7 years with my girlfriend and finally we have decided to split up because of our conflicting views on each and every issue. It wasnt a waste of time of course, it was love, I always have seen her as my wife but I have always been doubtful. Sorry for bothering with all this, back to topic...In terms of sex, I have never been fully satisfied...I can even count the times she ever did oral sex...My mind is boiling and I just wanna get over this as soon as possible. I really desire to put myself together and forget all the pain...If there are any females from Lodon who would help me to remember the beauty of sex and forget the pain I have at the moment please email gorki_lfs@ , that I have just created.
I am very new to this swinging I am 23/m, and dont worry I am very fine and full of passion...I am waiting for your message. Thanks...
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Recovering after 7 years of relationship
Gorki,
Part of the pain that you're feeling is normal after the breakup of a relationship. I don't think that going after a good "fuck" is going to help....even if you managed to bed Jordan!!!!!
You need to recover first then find out what you really want.
Sorry to sound a bit negative but I'm sure most of you out there will agree with me - we've all been hurt in a relationship at one time or another and you need to heal from that.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt and low jjust now.
My advice....give it time, it will get better.
Simone x
PS this is my frist ad!
Part of the pain that you're feeling is normal after the breakup of a relationship. I don't think that going after a good "fuck" is going to help....even if you managed to bed Jordan!!!!!
You need to recover first then find out what you really want.
Sorry to sound a bit negative but I'm sure most of you out there will agree with me - we've all been hurt in a relationship at one time or another and you need to heal from that.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt and low jjust now.
My advice....give it time, it will get better.
Simone x
PS this is my frist ad!
The smart man would have said nothing about his pain and just got on with it...... having said that I can't help thinking that you are looking for a shag and using sympathy to get it. The women on here are smarter than that and will see through that kind of tactic.
If your pain is real then you should take time to get over it before embarking on a swinging lifestyle. There are many pitfalls in this kind of lifestyle and you could end up getting even more hurt than you arleady appear to be.
Good luck in whatever you do.
If your pain is real then you should take time to get over it before embarking on a swinging lifestyle. There are many pitfalls in this kind of lifestyle and you could end up getting even more hurt than you arleady appear to be.
Good luck in whatever you do.
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ok fair enough he wants laid the sooner the better....but this is meant to be a swinging site, Gorki could find what he is looking for this weekend at his local bar/club!
Sorry to be sharp.
Thats your defination of swinging though - see Polo lady's post in the cafe, think it was Ice Pie who posted the original topic "Single Swingers and emotions" (something like that)
At least he's being tottally open and honest with what he wants, some people will go for it others won't but at least there'll be no misunderstandis of whats on offer.
Not for me but each to their own.
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If there are any females from Lodon who would help me to remember the beauty of sex and forget the pain I have at the moment
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The smart man would have said nothing about his pain and just got on with it...... having said that I can't help thinking that you are looking for a shag and using sympathy to get it. The women on here are smarter than that and will see through that kind of tactic.
If your pain is real then you should take time to get over it before embarking on a swinging lifestyle. There are many pitfalls in this kind of lifestyle and you could end up getting even more hurt than you arleady appear to be.
Good luck in whatever you do.
I'm going to have to stop agreeing with u on these forums wishmaster but thats just what i ment by not being ready, women on here do not want to meet someone whos feeling down and on the rebound from a failed relationship and i do not personally feel that if u are feeling down enough to feel u had to put the above comment you are ready for swinging on the other hand if u have, like wishmaster said, put it to get a sympathy shag forget it such lines will not work in here lol
Himm, I think I have totally misunderstood the concept of swinging since English isn't my first language...It is the manner through which all those years ended that is making me so mad...thats i guess the reason of my unreason. I apologize from all that I have started such a thread by misunderstanding what is swinging. At least, by declaring my intention from the beginning, I believe what I do is sincere, instead of hiding it and playing according to the rules of the game. I think it should especially be those who are approaching to people purposefully like a fox, in our case approaching to the respected members of swinger community, with the intention of just having a sex with another. I hope those who have read earlier would read this last explanation as well, my apologies dear all. best, gorki...
