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SATURDAY 18TH FEB AT 8 O'C-- LOCK?
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Quote by da69ve
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Dave... you are not being cynical now are you mate.......
:):)have faith that 2 women might fancy having a party with loads of single....... heck what am i saying!!!! it does smell like one of these "you have to pay to attend" events does it....
have we been here too long that we don't believe first post offers like this..........
sean xxxxxxxxxx
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Quote by fabio grooverider
Is this event free of charge?
Dave... you are not being cynical now are you mate.......
:):)have faith that 2 women might fancy having a party with loads of single....... heck what am i saying!!!! it does smell like one of these "you have to pay to attend" events does it....
have we been here too long that we don't believe first post offers like this..........
sean xxxxxxxxxx
Yep Sean we've been here too long.....it just sounds too good !!
Please let them prove me wrong!!
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Update-these people were not charging(they have now been banned)Yes they were timewasters to two guys who showed up.I along with four other guys turned up-two of the guys were known to these two married one other guy along with myself were unknown to these spending one and a half hours chatting we all proceeded to the couples a few hours more myself and the other guy-both new to these people were informed"it wasn`t going to happen".Now i don`t have a problem if they were uneasy/ i do have a problem with is wasting an entire evening while they make up their surely then meet in a pub and then take us all back to their house?Strange one hindsight all this turned out to be was pre-arranged meet with two guys they knew and already met and already arranged to meet through text messages and not through this advert.I feel even more sorry for the poor sod who had a round trip of 100 miles for a totally wasted time! 
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:x :x What you fail to understand - 100 mile round trip or not - is that sex is never ever guaranteed. The sooner people understand this, the better. We see this time and time again after someone posts a 'meet me tonight' type post. 
This is exactly why *some* of us bang on all the time about the social side of the scene - you meet folk socially, you find out more about them, you strike up a rapport, or you dont - and then you think about whether or not that person is a very potential shag, or not.
So, you were lucky enough to have an enjoyable social evening with new people - great!
you didnt get what you wanted at the end of the night?? tough! That's the chance you take when you meet complete strangers and go with too much expectation.
regardless of whether it took all night for them to decide 'it isnt going to happen' (yes, you could have been told sooner....but, shit happens, and at any point someone can turn round and say 'nah, this aint working for me', end of.), there are two sides to every story, and if they changed their mind, that's their perogative.
Kinda shows you why its usually only the quick-shag brigade who answer these ads though doesnt it? You may have found that, had you kept your mouth shut, been respectful to their wishes etc, that you may have been invited back another time, or maybe not - but that invite aint gonna come now is it!
This is exactly why *some* of us bang on all the time about the social side of the scene - you meet folk socially, you find out more about them, you strike up a rapport, or you dont - and then you think about whether or not that person is a very potential shag, or not.
So, you were lucky enough to have an enjoyable social evening with new people - great!
you didnt get what you wanted at the end of the night?? tough! That's the chance you take when you meet complete strangers and go with too much expectation.
regardless of whether it took all night for them to decide 'it isnt going to happen' (yes, you could have been told sooner....but, shit happens, and at any point someone can turn round and say 'nah, this aint working for me', end of.), there are two sides to every story, and if they changed their mind, that's their perogative.
Kinda shows you why its usually only the quick-shag brigade who answer these ads though doesnt it? You may have found that, had you kept your mouth shut, been respectful to their wishes etc, that you may have been invited back another time, or maybe not - but that invite aint gonna come now is it!
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Update-these people were not charging(they have now been banned)Yes they were timewasters to two guys who showed up.I along with four other guys turned up-two of the guys were known to these two married one other guy along with myself were unknown to these spending one and a half hours chatting we all proceeded to the couples a few hours more myself and the other guy-both new to these people were informed"it wasn`t going to happen".Now i don`t have a problem if they were uneasy/ i do have a problem with is wasting an entire evening while they make up their surely then meet in a pub and then take us all back to their house?Strange one hindsight all this turned out to be was pre-arranged meet with two guys they knew and already met and already arranged to meet through text messages and not through this advert.I feel even more sorry for the poor sod who had a round trip of 100 miles for a totally wasted time!
what darkfire said was absolutly spot on....
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couldn't have said it any better hunny....... when people think with their pants rather than with there head...they think it is their given right once they have a meet lined up to jump right into it all....... i don't really care if it take 5 minutes or 5 hrs to make up there mind... why should there be that type of pressure... if they son't want to play with you...so be it... and to be honest, maybe if you displayed that type of attitude on the meet i wouldn't want to play with you either.....
sean xxxxxxxx
They were banned because they never confirmed to mods it was free of response to quick shag brigade-i have met people and gone as i always do with no if the roles were reversed personally i would have not invited anyone back to mine if i had any doubts.I would have pointed out "it was not going to happen"in the pub-that way everyone is clear and not under the impression they were going back for the intended well i would like to point out there were photos,text messages and phone calls exchanged etc beforehand -so it was not a case of quick shag for being invited back again-two guys who they knew were invited back this time-they were obviously compatible last time as that was the first they met and they enjoyed the point being i was not complaining because i expected anything on a plate,far from it-i know there is more to this lifestyle than "a quick shag".
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.In response to quick shag brigade-i have met people and gone as i always do with no if the roles were reversed personally i would have not invited anyone back to mine if i had any doubts.I would have pointed out "it was not going to happen"in the pub-that way everyone is clear and not under the impression they were going back for the intended event.
I understand what you're saying luv - but you didnt say this in the original post did you , you came here whinging and moaning and branding people as timewasters, telling only one side- and only half - the story.
As well i would like to point out there were photos,text messages and phone calls exchanged etc beforehand -so it was not a case of quick shag tonight.
sounds good - cant argue with that at all :thumbup:
As for being invited back again-two guys who they knew were invited back this time-they were obviously compatible last time as that was the first they met and they enjoyed the point being i was not complaining because i expected anything on a plate,far from it-i know there is more to this lifestyle than "a quick shag".
yes you did - you expected that because you wernt told anything in the pub, (which I do agree - if it was evident at that time that someone - given there were several of you who's feelings and compatibility needed to be considered - didnt feel comfy there and then, you should have been told there and then, ya know? )...... but, nothing was said so the presumption was there when you got invited back to the house, that it was being offered on a plate. To be honest - that kind of expecation was set anyway from their original post.....'we're up for it, come and get it'....
and you may well have been invited back - just as the other guys had been, but you wont now!
Quote by nwgirls4fun
Is this event free of charge?
Thanks for all your replies already!
We are 2 couples of genuine swingers who have known eachother for a few years.
We have had a previous night like this around a year ago that we managed to arrange on here too.
The night is purely fun only, on eveyones behalf and there will def. be no money exchanging hands ... the girls simply enjoy the extra attention now and again.
xxx
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They were banned because they never confirmed to mods it was free of charge.
IFthey have been banned, I'm not sure you could still view their profile pages and "find all posts"
I don't have time for another tirade
- gotta go flirt with the Tesco checkout girlies 